I wasn't always ugly. Now that I am, it's affecting my life?!


Question: I wasn't always ugly!. Now that I am, it's affecting my life!?
You know how a person will think themselves ugly and you think, 'you're being crazy'!. my case is different, I am sane!.

I wasn't always ugly!. Inspite of this, I grew up with brothers telling me I'm ugly and stupid!. I believed this until I grew old enough to realize they're just taking their frustrations out on me (we had an abusive childhood)!. Now we are all in our 20's and only one still calls me ugly but now it's true, I went thru Years with Severe Acne!. So severe that my whole face was covered with it and I couldn't go out, I missed a couple of summers and hybernated thru out winters!. Now the acne is gone but I'm left with severe acne scars which covers my face!. I'm 20pounds overweight for being home, just eating; My face got fat too!. I avoid looking into the mirror, and make sure my rooms are dark!. I don't go out if it's sunny!. Make up doesn't help, my skin is broken, uneven, dry!.


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Candid question!. Let me give you an answer that I really believe!. First of all, I am good looking!. Really good looking most likely!. I look at it right now as my only true strength though that I'm taking advantage of!. Thus you should know that it is a limited strength in some ways and can be blown out of proportion!. As for you, I will give you advice that I think is the the key!. Firstly, change your mentality as best you can and try to think of yourself as being good looking or better yet, thinking that you will continue to develop in to a good looking person and you are moving towards it!. Forget your brothers!. Your fate is not dependant on their endoresment of your qualities from one time to the next!. So attempt to move forward with the outlook of," You know, high school was tough, and like everyone else I went through some tough times but I WILL develop in to an attractive person"!. That's one part!. Secondly, take care of yourself better starting tomorrow!. Think about your teeth, your hair, your skin, your chest, and you butt separately and move towards enhancing them over time!. Buy new shampoos, conditioners, teeth whiteners, skin cleansers and restorers, figure enhancing outfits, and perfume!. Make looking better your hobby!. It will be fun and you will benefit and to a reasonable extent it is healthy even though it is a very limited life attribute!. I do believe it is one though that can be moved towards!. Nobody is perfect but people are fulfilled by moving towards healthy goals and improvements not letting themselves break down!. After getting the first leg done, work on weight next!. Eat a more healthy diet and go to the gym!. That will be healthy and will improve your figure!. Lastly, after seeing that improvement, if you are still not happy enough yeeeeettt :), that further your improvement through plastic surgery or enhancements of that nature!. If that sounds appealing that is!. You probably won't need to but if it makes you happy and its worth it to you then!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you go girl!!
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You have to think positive!. Don't put yourself down like that!. If you feel ugly because someone told you or you like someone, forget them, you don't need them!. The way I look at it(this is what I always tell myself), the only people you need in your life are the people that want to be in it!. Don't let someone else's opinion affect you :D!. What IS ugly anyway!? To me, calling someone ugly makes that person uglier than anything else!. Just think positive Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to start living your life and doing things for yourself!. can you see a dermatologist!? can you go get some facials!? try getting out and taking walks!. get a job!. you will start to feel better!. if you keep doing what your doing nothing will ever change!. you gotta make the first step!. so you might always have scars, maybe you could help heal your skin a little but you will have to live with it so what!. also, there is camouflage makeup, look into it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop complaining!. not everything is about looks!. there are far worse things that could happen to you than some acne scars and a couple extra pounds!.
get some proactive, and try working out!.
you shouldn't limit your lifestyle because of your insecurities!.

look on the bright side, this way people will like you for who you are, rather than what you look like!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I've heard something about sanding your skin, I think you have to go to a dermatoligist to get this done!. I would look into it !. There is something that can be done about this !. But you will have to go to a dr!. to see what it is!. With all the new things that can be done now!. I know there is help out there!. Don't stay shuttered inside get out and do something !. I've seen people with your problem who had the most wonderful personalities and people liked them not for the way they looked it was because they were so nice!. Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Go see a skin doctor or dermatologist!. They have a lot of knowledge as to how to help people of every skin type!. I'm sure they can help you!. All scars will fade over time, so just be patient!. As for being overweight, well theres only one way to fix that!. And that's exercise and dieting!. Running is a good way to lose weight!. If you do it every night for 30-60 minutes the fat will melt away and you'll be amazed at yourself!. That's how i lost a lot of weight!. Also, watch what you eat!. I strongly suggest giving up soft drinks!. Ever look on the nutrition label of a 12 oz!. can of Pepsi!? It has 15% of your DV of carbs!. That's a lot for how little that can is!. Also when anyone calls you ugly, tell them to shut the hell up!. And don't let it bother you!. You are obviously above that person, don't let them have the satisfaction of them knowing their words had hurt you!.

Hope this helps you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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