Am i stupid?!
Question: Am i stupid!?
today many people laugh at me because im so fat!. they didnt understand that i became obese because of hormonal imbalance!. they saw me standing in the corner of the street coz i am waiting for my brother to arrive!. more than thirty minutes, he still didnt appear so i decided to go home coz i cant handle my feelings, im so helpless and i feel that people dont like me coz im fat!. now, when my mom arrive, she got angry coz i didnt wait for my brother!. she told me that i didnt use my common sense, she say "just ignore them"!. i know they dont know what i feel!.!.!. until now i cant stop myself from crying!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Have you been to the doc about your hormonal imbalance!? Maybe you will be able to sort it out!. The answer really is to 'just ignore them' they are probably saddos with nothing else to do but to pick on you!. Maybe confront them if you are brave enough!. Say ' and I suppose your perfect are you!.!.!. ' good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
First of all your not stupid!. The people who you think are judging you because of your medical weight problem are the ones that are stupid!. You need to learn how to get comfortable in your own skin by accenting all your good qualities(dress the part- personality, hair, facial features, hands, clothes etc!.) Also, your mental outlook!. By show positive attitude, you'll get positiveness in return!. Be proud of who you are! Your a special person and have a purpose here!. So get out there and SHINE! Good luck, kiddo!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not stupid at all!. If your body chemistry lets you down and there's nothing you can do about it, it's not your fault, but people don't know that and they just treat you bad!. It's easy to say just ignore them they don't know anything, but it does hurt and it's ok to feel hurt!. You can get stronger and learn how to cope and learn to ignore them, but it does take time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh come on girl, stop crying!. There's a lot of overweight people out there and you can't blame your self or anyone else for it, it's just how it is!. You will not be messing your life because of some stupid kids who make stupid jokes!. Think of how lucky you are to have a family and a house and to be healthy enough!. If I could switch my sever heart problems with some overweight, I'd do it, hell yeah! and a ton of other people suffering from a ton of really bad illnesses!. You got to be grateful for what you have!.!.!.
Good luck babe and please don't cry to much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck babe and please don't cry to much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its so easy to say just ignore it but i know you cant, what you can try to do tho is also listen to the people around you that tell you your beautiful!. a lot of people in the world do find a larger person more attractive, try not to let things bring you down, stay positive and positive thing will happen in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are fine!. I think you only felt that people don't like you but in fact they will not have a problem with how you look or how heavy or lite you are!. I know how you feel because I have a body image problem & constantly dieting!. But you have to learn to love "SELF"!. And people will not care about your weight as an individual, see that Santa Claus is a little heavy but everybody likes him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
shape and size don't matter, n the only reason ppl like them talk about other people is bcoz they're insecure about themselves!. beauty is only skin deep!. and I'm sure the people who really matter will see you for who you really are inside, n they wont miss the gr8 person u r!. its up to you to decide who matters!.
don't cry!.!.!.!.don't let people like them get to you, bcoz you are worth so much more, n they aren't worth your tears hun!. : )Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't cry!.!.!.!.don't let people like them get to you, bcoz you are worth so much more, n they aren't worth your tears hun!. : )Www@Answer-Health@Com
there is no other way to say this!. i was in the same stage, and now i'm out of it!. if u dont want to be laughed at, lose weight!. Join a sports team, eat a salad for lunch and/or dinner!. a lot of people are fat, but they are happy with themselves!. everyday, say something nice about yourself!. and for pete's sake, stop crying yourelf to sleep! its not healthy, and crying will not solve ur problems!. if u want positive things in ur life, go out and do it!. hope this helps =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
not a single person is perfect in this world, ignore your negative points and try to enhance your positive points ( Im sure you are full of them)!.
Don't care about anyone else except your friends, and if they too are included in this then be sure that they are not your true friends!.
And pls Dont CRYWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't care about anyone else except your friends, and if they too are included in this then be sure that they are not your true friends!.
And pls Dont CRYWww@Answer-Health@Com
you're not stupid!.
here's an advice from Confucius:
DO NOT DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT THEM TO DO UNTO YOU!.!.
dont cry b'coz life's too short for drama stuff and your life dont revolves around them!.!.
see the good in everything!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
here's an advice from Confucius:
DO NOT DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT THEM TO DO UNTO YOU!.!.
dont cry b'coz life's too short for drama stuff and your life dont revolves around them!.!.
see the good in everything!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down
Cause you are beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring you down!.
So don't you bring me down todayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Words can't bring you down
Cause you are beautiful in every single way
Yes words can't bring you down!.
So don't you bring me down todayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your not so sad because you are fat you are sad because you feel different and wish that you didn't have a constant disadvantage!. It's less likely that people are laughing at you and more likely that your fear of people laughing at you is making you interpret what you see as being directed towards you!. Not *many* people will see an obese person on the street and outright laugh at them!. However, in grades 6 through 9 - kids ARE going to be mean to ANYone they can find, partly because they are acting out a little darwinian survival of the fittest thing!.!.!.!.!.!. we're all just animals!.
If you have thyroid problems, and you're not getting help, you should be persistant and do what you need to do to get your chemical balance back!.
Then, if you find you left with an addiction to food, well, that's harder!.!.!.!. the key is to increase your own self esteem to the point that your want to lose weight *for youself* and *nobody else* - that is the only time it will really work!.
Best wishes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have thyroid problems, and you're not getting help, you should be persistant and do what you need to do to get your chemical balance back!.
Then, if you find you left with an addiction to food, well, that's harder!.!.!.!. the key is to increase your own self esteem to the point that your want to lose weight *for youself* and *nobody else* - that is the only time it will really work!.
Best wishes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no your not!. you seem to be thinking negatively about yourself begin by thinking about your positive points, if you cant think of anything ask your friends and family what they like about you!. each day remind your self of these qualities highlighted by people you love!. think about what you like about each of your friends and member of family, why do you like each of them!? go with the first thought that comes to mind!. you'll be surprised to know that you don't like any of them because they're fat or thin but because of who they are and that is ultimately they way people are with you too!. they don't care about what you look like but who you are!.
i take it these people who laughed at you made you feel intimidated!. some people can be thoughtless and not realize that they're hurting someones feelings!. i think taking the step forward to help yourself with your weight will help make you feel better and as your weight goes down your self confidence will go up (as did mine) and you'll be less likely to care what these little air heads think!! ask your doctor for help!. join a gym and watch them pounds shed off!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i take it these people who laughed at you made you feel intimidated!. some people can be thoughtless and not realize that they're hurting someones feelings!. i think taking the step forward to help yourself with your weight will help make you feel better and as your weight goes down your self confidence will go up (as did mine) and you'll be less likely to care what these little air heads think!! ask your doctor for help!. join a gym and watch them pounds shed off!!Www@Answer-Health@Com