Help! please, I am really scared!!!?!
Question: Help! please, I am really scared!!!!?
OK, so I was thinking about my dearly beloved grandmother, she passed away a year ago, and it is so hard to live without her, i pray for her and think of her very often!. I am really scared, because I got curious and I looked up on google how to find when I would die, I don't know why, I guess I just didn't want to know, but I wanted to live forever, I don't want to die, and it told me a date and it was counting downt he seconds! it told me 95, and i'm only 14, but i'm scared out of my mind, it was on deathclock!.com!. please, I dont know why i did it, and i don't know what you guys can say about it, i guess i just need reassurance, because i am scared like crazy and i also dont think i can go to sleep tonight!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi hon, I recently lost my stepdad, who I was really close to, and losing a loved one certainly does make you think more about your own life and how and when it might end!.
I am sure you realize that this kind of online tool is not scientific, and is just something to play with, not reliable!.
I think it is your fear of not having control over your life that is causing you to obsess!. I mean, when my stepdad died I began obsessing so much about things, and it seemed this was a way for me to 'control' something!. We cannot control when or how we die!. But hon, you can control your thoughts!. Believe me, you are a mature girl to be considering your life in this way at such a young age, most 14 yr olds really do think they'll live forever!.
Your reaction is normal!. Just remember there really is no predictor to when you'll die and actually, how lucky you'd be to live to 95, right!? Try to get some sleep and when you wake up I hope you feel better!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sure you realize that this kind of online tool is not scientific, and is just something to play with, not reliable!.
I think it is your fear of not having control over your life that is causing you to obsess!. I mean, when my stepdad died I began obsessing so much about things, and it seemed this was a way for me to 'control' something!. We cannot control when or how we die!. But hon, you can control your thoughts!. Believe me, you are a mature girl to be considering your life in this way at such a young age, most 14 yr olds really do think they'll live forever!.
Your reaction is normal!. Just remember there really is no predictor to when you'll die and actually, how lucky you'd be to live to 95, right!? Try to get some sleep and when you wake up I hope you feel better!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey dear,don't be so worried about your death,unless you have done something to worry about,for to live till 95 is a long time!.I have had a lot of people vary close to me past away as well,I miss them dearly,my grandma past about a year ago to,it saddens me,but does not make me worry of the future!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Erica get a grip baby take a deep breath and slowly count to 81 that's a lot of time left make the best of them don't waste them on foolishness,enjoy them,respect them,live them without fear starting right now!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Living forever is so far away so why worry!.!.Would your Granny approve!?What would she tell you right now!.!.!.!.!.!.Hear her sweet protecting voice,talk to God and fear not 95 is a blessing reach that and let God do the rest!.!.!.God loves you /so do I!.!.!.!.!.Blessings YahooWww@Answer-Health@Com
well it told you 95 you still have 81 more years try not to think about it and try to think about all the good times you had with your grandmaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well if it told you 95 what are you worried about then!.
No one knows when they are going to die, I mean I don't!.
That's why you have to live each day to it's fullest because you never know!.
I'm not worried about it and I'm not afraid to die!.
I know I'm a good person and I go out of my way to help people when I can, that's just how I am!. I try not to waste away my days!.!.!.I go for long walks in the park/nature center and just take in all that I can!.
I try to do the best that I can in whatever I do and try not to have any regrets in life!.
Relax and enjoy your life, your young!.!.!.make each day count and tell the people you care about that you love them, because you never know where they will die either!.!.!.
Like I said no regrets!.!.!.!.!.life is short enough as it is!.!.!.do the best that you can!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No one knows when they are going to die, I mean I don't!.
That's why you have to live each day to it's fullest because you never know!.
I'm not worried about it and I'm not afraid to die!.
I know I'm a good person and I go out of my way to help people when I can, that's just how I am!. I try not to waste away my days!.!.!.I go for long walks in the park/nature center and just take in all that I can!.
I try to do the best that I can in whatever I do and try not to have any regrets in life!.
Relax and enjoy your life, your young!.!.!.make each day count and tell the people you care about that you love them, because you never know where they will die either!.!.!.
Like I said no regrets!.!.!.!.!.life is short enough as it is!.!.!.do the best that you can!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com