Handling A Difficult Family Life With Thoughts Of Suicide?!
Question: Handling A Difficult Family Life With Thoughts Of Suicide!?
Four months ago I moved my 2 and 7 year old nieces from Sacramento, Ca to Fayetteville, Nc where my brother lives and my mom is caring for his house while he's in Iraq because their mom (my sister) doesn't want them!. She has a son who's 13 who's still with her and she doesn't even care for him!.
Now I got a job at wal-mart two days after getting here and I can't stand it anymore!. I'm a cashier and the pay is low and its just not working for me!. I want to quit, but I can't because my mom is telling me that I need to just earn money and not think about all the negative stuff!. I can't do it anymore!.
My mom doesn't require my sister to pay her any type of support for her kids!. NONE!. My sister has sent maybe $500 since we've been here!. My sister owes my brother at least $2,000!.00 worth of plane tickets and credit card charges for her kids and my mom insists that I have to pitch in to help because I have a job!.
My sister has a very good high paying full time job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Now I got a job at wal-mart two days after getting here and I can't stand it anymore!. I'm a cashier and the pay is low and its just not working for me!. I want to quit, but I can't because my mom is telling me that I need to just earn money and not think about all the negative stuff!. I can't do it anymore!.
My mom doesn't require my sister to pay her any type of support for her kids!. NONE!. My sister has sent maybe $500 since we've been here!. My sister owes my brother at least $2,000!.00 worth of plane tickets and credit card charges for her kids and my mom insists that I have to pitch in to help because I have a job!.
My sister has a very good high paying full time job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sorry to hear at your young age you are saddled with so much responsibility!. Its tough all over now with everything being high and now job that most people have are covering the quickly rising prices!. i work for a drug store that the pay is also low and I can't afford my daily expenses!. Looking into a part time job too!. Work sucks if its low pay and you don't enjoy it!. Never quit a job if you don't have one for sure to start right up!. You don't want to be left with no job a poor job is better than none!. I am not fimilar with your state but can your family get any kind of goverment assistance!? That might help!. You have to mostly worry about those kids who don't really have any one that cares other than you and your Mom!. I know its a burden but pray and the answers will come to you!. Put your self in those kids shoes and see how you can be a mentor to them!. Things will get better!. You are young and those kids need you!. Don't let your sisters non concern interfear with what is right to do for the children!. They need someone to care about them!. I know you can find the strength to get thru this and above this challenge!. Keep leading yourself with your heart!. GOOD LUCK andmy prayers are with you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think we have had jobs we do not like sometimes that happens try not to sweat it this is not going to be your last job in life!. Sometimes God lets us struggle to make us stronger!.
I know you are upset with your sister but you do not want to sink to her level!. Do things that will make you happy!. know that your Mom cannot force you to work anywhere you do not want to work but I know you want to pull our own weight you are 20 and it is time for you to stand on your own two feet!.
Get up early and on your off days and start putting in those resumes!. You are woman hear you roar! You can do this and I am sure you will be a inspiration to those little girls!. They need a role model and it kinda looks like God picked you!. And I am pretty sure he did not pick wrong;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know you are upset with your sister but you do not want to sink to her level!. Do things that will make you happy!. know that your Mom cannot force you to work anywhere you do not want to work but I know you want to pull our own weight you are 20 and it is time for you to stand on your own two feet!.
Get up early and on your off days and start putting in those resumes!. You are woman hear you roar! You can do this and I am sure you will be a inspiration to those little girls!. They need a role model and it kinda looks like God picked you!. And I am pretty sure he did not pick wrong;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to seek professional help!. Maybe you and your mom could talk to a minister!. Taking your life won't make things better!. In fact, it would be even worse!. Your mom would be filled with guilt, and your brother would be too!. Look for a better job!. It's easier to find a better job when you already have a job!. One other thing, start thinking more positively!. At least your nieces are in a better environment!. I will do anything to help family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com