Could my hate and resentment come from a time in my childhood where i felt betra!
Question: Could my hate and resentment come from a time in my childhood where i felt betrayed!?
i know the reason why i have this feeling towards my parents is pathetic and i should get over it but at the time it didnt feel that way at all, i think its also a blame for myself tho!.
well i had a dog when i was younger, the one thing i could talk to and help keep me calm and happy, whenever i had a stressful day or problems all i had to do was sit with her and evrything would just go away!. i didnt socalize with many people when i was younger so it was vital i had something to be with!. when i was 12 she was getting old had tons of problems but i felt she had a few months at least left in her, i felt her time was too soon, but they went to the vets and put her to sleep behind my back, not a word and then they come home and shes not insight, i was distraught by it and it took me a long time to get over it, but ive never forgivven them, it was for the best but it hurt really bad!. i have new pets but ive never felt the same, just empty!. told you it was pathetic!.
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well i had a dog when i was younger, the one thing i could talk to and help keep me calm and happy, whenever i had a stressful day or problems all i had to do was sit with her and evrything would just go away!. i didnt socalize with many people when i was younger so it was vital i had something to be with!. when i was 12 she was getting old had tons of problems but i felt she had a few months at least left in her, i felt her time was too soon, but they went to the vets and put her to sleep behind my back, not a word and then they come home and shes not insight, i was distraught by it and it took me a long time to get over it, but ive never forgivven them, it was for the best but it hurt really bad!. i have new pets but ive never felt the same, just empty!. told you it was pathetic!.
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Your experience has a lot to do with your feelings, but you have to move pass this and forgive them!. That doesn't mean you will forget!.!.!.but you need to accept that they did what you could not do!.!.!.put an end to her suffering!. At 12, that is something hard to understand!.!.!.and to get over!. You will always remember your friend and love her!.!.!.and be a bit sad, having lost your best friend!. Life does go on!.!.!.and forgiving your folks will help you to move past the anger and hurt!.!.!.and make your life much more pleasant!. Let go!.!.!.kjlWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think you should talk to a therapist about this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes, your resentment comes from that experience!. the question is how are you going to move on from it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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it could be!.
if u feel the way u feel, its because u recognize the situation!.
but u have to understand that sometimes parents know how much their children suffer when a child is not ready to understand very well the concept of death!. they problably did it so u wont suffer!. you still did because they didnt tell what was going to happen to your pet!. im sure they didnt do it to hurt you, but to protect you, maybe thinking that u would grow out of it, but u didnt!. well, just look at it this way, your pet is resting and he was at some point going to rest by himself because nature is like that!. we are born, we live and then its time to go!. so, maybe it wasnt like u wanted too, but sooner or later it he had to rest in peace!. now days children are more understanding of death situations because modern parents are teaching them about it and also at school, but in my a few years back parents were more old fashion and it was not acceptable talking about death, since this was a very touchy subject, they thought it was not for kids to talk about it, only adults were allowed to talk about it!. so in that time parents would say something else, like lie to there kids about death, so they wont feel bad and worst when child grew!. they did it because they love you, not to hurt you!.
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if u feel the way u feel, its because u recognize the situation!.
but u have to understand that sometimes parents know how much their children suffer when a child is not ready to understand very well the concept of death!. they problably did it so u wont suffer!. you still did because they didnt tell what was going to happen to your pet!. im sure they didnt do it to hurt you, but to protect you, maybe thinking that u would grow out of it, but u didnt!. well, just look at it this way, your pet is resting and he was at some point going to rest by himself because nature is like that!. we are born, we live and then its time to go!. so, maybe it wasnt like u wanted too, but sooner or later it he had to rest in peace!. now days children are more understanding of death situations because modern parents are teaching them about it and also at school, but in my a few years back parents were more old fashion and it was not acceptable talking about death, since this was a very touchy subject, they thought it was not for kids to talk about it, only adults were allowed to talk about it!. so in that time parents would say something else, like lie to there kids about death, so they wont feel bad and worst when child grew!. they did it because they love you, not to hurt you!.
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Yes, I know how it feels to lose your best friend - who is also your pet!. It must of hurt more your parents did it without consulting you!. But, you have to remember your dog was probably suffering and it was for the best, and your parents probably didn't tell you as they might not of wanted you to try stop them!.
You will grow to move past this, it will just take time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will grow to move past this, it will just take time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com