Help me GET OVER HIM..(PS i have borderline personality dis.)?!
Question: Help me GET OVER HIM!.!.(PS i have borderline personality dis!.)!?
im really hurt !.!.he ended everything for just a trivial thing i had done !.!. n i will NOT appologize for it!.coz its not a biggie!.!. but i want the power to b able 2 go on without him!.!.help me!.!.:(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, your thinking may be a bit skewed with that personality disorder you have going on, so maybe while it is a small thing to you, to him it may indicate something bigger that he will not be able to handle!. This is okay, you will survive, you just will!. Are you in any kind of talk sessions to discover your disorder's ins and outs!? Having a "him" is not the be all and end all of this life, maybe you could learn to be satisfied from within and if a "him" comes along that works with your "you", it's a bonus!. But there is so much more to this life than a big old heart throb, good luck to you, best wishes!.
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I agree with mooncheery and everyone else!.!.!. from someone who's been in a lot of relationships that eventually had to end!.!.!. whatever happened!.!.!.trivial of not!.!.!.he isn't the one for you!.
Thank the heavens you dodged a bullet!.!.!.
don't be in a rush to find the ''one'' either!.!.!. it will just happen one day!.!.!. and it's totally worth it when you are solid in yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Thank the heavens you dodged a bullet!.!.!.
don't be in a rush to find the ''one'' either!.!.!. it will just happen one day!.!.!. and it's totally worth it when you are solid in yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is what happens every time in world!.first of all pls have a head bath!.!.and make a visit to a beauty parlor!.!.call on your relatives and speak to them!.call on ur frnds who are soft and kind and talk to them!.!.dont say any thing to any one!.take care of u very well!.!.eat more bananas!.within 3 weeks u will get rid of painWww@Answer-Health@Com
You have to forget him & let go of what you feel about him!.!.!.move on & enjoy life because maybe tommorow someone who is more deserving to your love will be there for you! You deserve a better person & you just have to that right man!.!.!.!.go move on girl! he's not worthy for your love :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he ended everything ove a trivial thing he must have been looking for a way to end it anyway so forget him!.
The best way guaranteed to make you forget an old love is find a new love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The best way guaranteed to make you forget an old love is find a new love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Firmly resolve now to stop thinking about him, and use the negative thought reprogramming technique, on page 2, and/or page 2L, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris !. Make yourself exercise, and go out, even if you don't enjoy it, at first: it will provide one way of stopping you from thinking about your present life situation!.
Understand that memories fade, with the passing of time, and ask yourself where you will be in 5 years time, and 10!. Most people go through similar things, though not to the same extent, and it's common for many relationships to begin, and end, especially when younger!. It's a good idea to only emotionally invest in a relationship, according to its length of time, and the degree of commitment from BOTH of the people involved!. Express your feelings in a letter, and either post it, unaddressed, or have a ceremony, and burn it in a metal container, and flush the ashes down the toilet, symbolically severing the relationship, which has zero potential for anything , except causing you further distress!. Give time a chance to heal, then open yourself to the possibility of a relationship with someone new!.
BPD is addressed in section 15, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris Be aware that, because of their upbringing, people suffering from BPD tend to see things in terms of black and white, rather than shades of grey, and often idealise, then devalue, in relationships!. They also tend to have a great fear of abandonment, and sometimes go to extreme lengths to prevent it!.
Use the locators, in section 1, at ezy build, and the phone book, to find a therapist who uses DBT, or get a good book on the subject, and give to a therapist using Cognitive therapy (fairly common) and ask that it be incorporated into your treatment!. Read "I hate you: don't leave me"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Understand that memories fade, with the passing of time, and ask yourself where you will be in 5 years time, and 10!. Most people go through similar things, though not to the same extent, and it's common for many relationships to begin, and end, especially when younger!. It's a good idea to only emotionally invest in a relationship, according to its length of time, and the degree of commitment from BOTH of the people involved!. Express your feelings in a letter, and either post it, unaddressed, or have a ceremony, and burn it in a metal container, and flush the ashes down the toilet, symbolically severing the relationship, which has zero potential for anything , except causing you further distress!. Give time a chance to heal, then open yourself to the possibility of a relationship with someone new!.
BPD is addressed in section 15, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris Be aware that, because of their upbringing, people suffering from BPD tend to see things in terms of black and white, rather than shades of grey, and often idealise, then devalue, in relationships!. They also tend to have a great fear of abandonment, and sometimes go to extreme lengths to prevent it!.
Use the locators, in section 1, at ezy build, and the phone book, to find a therapist who uses DBT, or get a good book on the subject, and give to a therapist using Cognitive therapy (fairly common) and ask that it be incorporated into your treatment!. Read "I hate you: don't leave me"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com