Self harm plz help?!


Question: Self harm plz help!?
how can i stop im 14 and in england so if ther is eny hobbys oh i dont no i realy want to stop i keep looking at my rits and fink y do i do it or some times i want to do it more and ive been realy suicidle and depressed wat can i do!? and how can i stop!? thanxWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Hiding them is yhe worst thing you can do right now!.

Talk to an adult, perhaps not your close relative, but someone from a distance of the situation, because they will see a more accurate perception than ''my sweet little baby wouldn't do this!'', or ''you are blatantly attention seeking''!. They will understand and be able to help you with alternatives!.

There are always help-lines like ChildLine, but usually, someone with experience and a more personal involvement with your life can check up on you, help you through the stages and see where you are going!. It is much more effective in your scenario to speak to someone in the flesh!.

I know what self-harm is like!. You almost crave the pain to help you to forget things, and you wan't to hide it from everyone!. You feel like its the one thing in your life you finally have control over!. But I promise you, you can overcome it!.

18 million Americans have depression, and so many are our age - youths!. Those who act faster, solve the problem before it gets extremely serious!. You don't want those scars for life, my friend!. Find the origin of your thrive in harming your body and get that straight!. Once you are sorted, you will be more confident, more actice, and you will not be so self-concious!. You wil be able to relate to the real World again!.

I promise!.

xoxWww@Answer-Health@Com

what you can do is just smile!. its possibly the best thing to do!. you are rlly young, and its rlly pointless to try to kill yourself over pretty much nothing!. go out somewhere and hang out with friends!. talking will definately heal you!.!.!.!. do you like cutting yourself in front of people!? if you don't, or you get yelled at everytime you do then always be with someone!. also, what happens before you cut yourself!? that might have something to do with it!.!.!.!. good luck <3

P!.S!.- its not good to hide the cuts, but to heal them!. go out and buy this type of cream!. its called Fucidin Cream, i use it all the time!. http://www!.kmhk!.kmu!.edu!.tw/medhome/Intra!.!.!.

P!.P!.S!.- if theres no one you can talk to, im always open!. email me anytime you need to :]Www@Answer-Health@Com

I cut too!.!.!.aftre you do it for awhile, it becomes an addiction and it is very difficult to stop!. I suggest talking to someone who can help you out!. I!.E, a doctor, therapist, loved one, counselor, phsychiatrist, ME!.
If you are suicidal, I would suggest going to your emergency room at a hospital!. They can set you up with counselors, evalutate you, and all over work on maknig you feel better!. It is a long and boring process, but in the long run, it saves your life!.
If you need any one to talk to about all this, please dont hesitate to email me!.

good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

It isn't a matter of getting a hobby!. You need to see a counselor and find out why you're cutting so that you can stop the self destructive behavior!.
Check out this discussion boards and information sites!. It would be better to talk to people who share your compulsion and understand!.
http://www!.palace!.net/~llama/psych/injur!.!.!.
http://www!.coolnurse!.com/self-injury!.htm
http://www!.selfinjury!.com/Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi,you need a doctor to help you right noe!.don't tried to hide your cuts or anything!.you need to tell your parents what you're having now!.they'll help you!.self-hurt is a serious matter!.it's better for you to get treatment now!.you need to know that it's not helping to your depression if you cut yourself in fact it just make it worse!.if you need a listening ear you can message me!.befrienders can help you!.hope you'll be ok!.

www!.befrienders!.orgWww@Answer-Health@Com

invest in lots of bracelets or a fat watch
the only way you can stop is to want to!. every time you want to cut distract yourself with anything!. ring someone, play a game/instrument, listen to music, anything that will help!.
i also try to make sure i have nothing sharp nearby that will tempt me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Use washable red markers to "cut" on your skin
Listen to music/relaxation tapes
Make a mourning wreath (start with black flowers and replace with colored flowers)
Repetitive reality checking
Negotiate with yourself

Ask for help!. Whether it is to a friend, a parent, or an online support group!. You are more likely to stop cutting if someone is helping you!. Try looking online for online support groups for SI!. I have listed one I used 2 years ago that really helped me!. Good luck!.

To cover up scars try to get some creams that help reduce scar apperance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are suicidal, please call the suicide hotline at
1-800-suicide

And plz seek professional help!. A dangerous symptom you are experiencing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Obviously you need psychiatrict help ASAP!. But in the meantime, you also need to learn how to spell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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get help or you might never stopWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't keep it a secret from the people around you for a start!. You probably think everyone can see all your pain and anger on the outside but they can't always!. You're probably hiding it because you feel ashamed and because this is your secret !.!.!.the best way to take away it's power over you is to tell someone!.

You also shouldn't have to solve this on your own !.!.!.especially when you're not thinking straight!. If you can't tell your family, tell a school counselor, or a friend's parent or just make a doctors appointment!. Don't worry about what it will cost or whether it'll be embarrassing !.!.!.it's more important that you get some help!. If you can't say it aloud, write it down!. If one person doesn't listen, find someone else to tell

You're not the only one going through this!. You're not weird or wrong and the Doctor will have seen it before!. You just need help to find a better way to gain control of your life and deal with stress, fear and anger without turning it on yourself

I know you feel bleak at the moment but it IS possible to come out of that suicidal way of thinking !.!.!.you look back at yourself and can't believe you thought people would be happy if you died !.!.!.you can't believe you thought it was the only solution to all your problems !.!.!.you can't believe you came that close to losing your future

Take care of yourself
I wish you a long long happy future (c;Www@Answer-Health@Com





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