Please I was almost rape by someone I thought loved me!?!
Question: Please I was almost rape by someone I thought loved me!!?
I am 21 and I was with this guy for about a year but I knew him since I was 17!. He is about 10 years older then me but I always believed it was the heart that matter not age!.No I never had sex with him or anyone because I want to wait until marriage!. I told him this when he asked and he understood!. Yesterday we got in a little argument about it and we just were steamed about eachother!. He called me around 1 in the morning saying he wanted to see me at my house so I agreed, I thought he wanted to make up!. So about 15 minutes later someone bangs on the door so I open it and it's him and his friend, I thought it was a little suspicious that he brought his friend over also!.But I would never had expected they were plotting against me so I let them in!.Talking turns to arguing and next thing I knew his friend was holding me down they were ripping my cloths off!. I tried to fight back but I couldn't, plus they were both body builders and had a 80 lb difference to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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NO!!! It was not your fault!.!.!.!.You did nothing wrong!.
Your "friend" tried to rape you!. IMO you need to file a report with Law Enforcement and see what steps you need to go thru to press charges against them-yes them!. Then I would suggest that you talk to a rape hot-line/support group for advise on how to deal with the after effects of the event!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your "friend" tried to rape you!. IMO you need to file a report with Law Enforcement and see what steps you need to go thru to press charges against them-yes them!. Then I would suggest that you talk to a rape hot-line/support group for advise on how to deal with the after effects of the event!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, I am very sorry to hear about your incident!. Call the police and a rape crisis counseling center!.
No, it is NOT your fault!. Rape is never the victim's fault!. I hope that you get the help that you need!. Do an Internet search for rape crisis centers in your area and call one of them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, it is NOT your fault!. Rape is never the victim's fault!. I hope that you get the help that you need!. Do an Internet search for rape crisis centers in your area and call one of them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OF COURSE NOT!. There is no intelligent way to justify it as your fault!. If this guy was unwilling to wait until marriage, he could always have gone somewhere else!. Sexist or not, he's your brother, and a total a$$hole!. If anyone messed with my sister!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I believe that you have the most responsibility, I am very sorry for what you success, now thought to forget this episode!.
Do not worry there is nothing to laugh in your story, I hope 'that just as soon forget this trauma!. wishes for the future!. ByezWww@Answer-Health@Com
Do not worry there is nothing to laugh in your story, I hope 'that just as soon forget this trauma!. wishes for the future!. ByezWww@Answer-Health@Com
i feel for you!. these monsters want locking up!. your brother or so called brother!. needs he head examining!. and i hope you take the appropriate action!. against your attackers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Report them to the police!.!.!. it`s all they deserve and keep well away from them in the future, don`t allow him in your house again and don`t answer any calls from him!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Report it to the police!. If you don't it will in all likelihood happen again and you may not be as lucky!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Really sorry for you, but whats ur question!?
Tell ur family and report to Police immediately before he tries again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell ur family and report to Police immediately before he tries again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call the cops!. Ask to talk to a victim advocate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you shoudlnt have let them in at 1 in the morning !
report to the police dont let them get away with itWww@Answer-Health@Com
report to the police dont let them get away with itWww@Answer-Health@Com
Report to the police asap dear!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dude if this is true call the cops! That's messed up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO, its NOT your fault!. Don't let anyone tell you it is!. You are a strong woman and you can get through this!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your brother is a idiot to even suggest this is your fault!. This was NOT your fault!. Two grown men show up at your house in the middle of the night and try and rape you how can that be your fault!? That is ridiculous!. Call the police and have them both arrested for attempted rape and assault!. If you do nothing you leave these two beast out on the street to do this to another unsuspecting woman!.
Do not talk to them anymore period!. The cop next door is your witness as to what happened!. Don't wait one more minute call the police asap!. I can't believe your Dad is not more supportive!. Call a rape crisis center for support!.
It might make you feel better to take a marshal arts class!. Buy yourself some pepper spray in case the creep shows up again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do not talk to them anymore period!. The cop next door is your witness as to what happened!. Don't wait one more minute call the police asap!. I can't believe your Dad is not more supportive!. Call a rape crisis center for support!.
It might make you feel better to take a marshal arts class!. Buy yourself some pepper spray in case the creep shows up again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm so sorry to hear what happened to you, Betrayed!.
You know yourself that it's NOT right !.!.!. and can never be right for anyone to be raped!.
Maybe you don't get along, but how your brother can think that it's your fault indicates, to me at least, that he seriously needs to do some growing up!. I'm sorry to say it, but he sounds like an idiot!. It's views like that that get men off with the argument that they were 'provoked', in some way, to commit an offence!.
I would concur with others that have said get the police involved!. Please, don't let these animals get away with it!. Who's to know, maybe next time they won't be stopped in time !.!.!. and there will be a next time!.
Ask the police to refer you on for counselling, too!. You need help in coming to terms with what's happened to you, and reinforcement that whatever you did, you did nothing wrong!.
Blessings and Peace be with you, dear lady!.
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Please don't apologise on my behalf, just_me!. Rape doesn't appeal to me, and I can never foresee the day when I would be accused of such a heinous crime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know yourself that it's NOT right !.!.!. and can never be right for anyone to be raped!.
Maybe you don't get along, but how your brother can think that it's your fault indicates, to me at least, that he seriously needs to do some growing up!. I'm sorry to say it, but he sounds like an idiot!. It's views like that that get men off with the argument that they were 'provoked', in some way, to commit an offence!.
I would concur with others that have said get the police involved!. Please, don't let these animals get away with it!. Who's to know, maybe next time they won't be stopped in time !.!.!. and there will be a next time!.
Ask the police to refer you on for counselling, too!. You need help in coming to terms with what's happened to you, and reinforcement that whatever you did, you did nothing wrong!.
Blessings and Peace be with you, dear lady!.
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Please don't apologise on my behalf, just_me!. Rape doesn't appeal to me, and I can never foresee the day when I would be accused of such a heinous crime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry for you! I totally respect ur decision to wait until marriage and want you to know first and foremost that it is not your fault!!!!!
I cant imagine the sort of things that are going through your head right now and if your brother really said that i feel u should try to cut him out of your life!. the 1 time you REALLY need some support and he says that! I appologise on behalf of the male population and hope that you dont give up looking for the perfect man for you and hope you still wait to marriage!.
I also hope you are strong enough to do everythng to send both men to prison and carry on withh your life!. i think you should join some sort of support group for victims of sexual assault!. this could really help you work through everything that is going through your head!
I am deeply saddened by your story and would like to wish you all the best in trying to get through this and i hope you have some great friends and family members to help you!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
I cant imagine the sort of things that are going through your head right now and if your brother really said that i feel u should try to cut him out of your life!. the 1 time you REALLY need some support and he says that! I appologise on behalf of the male population and hope that you dont give up looking for the perfect man for you and hope you still wait to marriage!.
I also hope you are strong enough to do everythng to send both men to prison and carry on withh your life!. i think you should join some sort of support group for victims of sexual assault!. this could really help you work through everything that is going through your head!
I am deeply saddened by your story and would like to wish you all the best in trying to get through this and i hope you have some great friends and family members to help you!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not sure what your question is, but if I may comment, this "friend" of yours has some serious problems and you should stay away from him!. There is absolutely NO EXCUSE for doing what he did!. I'm not sure how far it went, as your question ended with them ripping your clothes off, but I assure you that this is illegal and highly prosecutable!. I would contact the authorities regarding this issue, or it may happen again, and next time could be worse!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your brother should be ashamed of himself!. You did not deserve it!. If some thug can't take the word no then how is that your fault!? These men need to be put a way!. Presumable the police office had them arrested so hopefully that will happen!. The decision to have or not have sex is every individuals right and not determined by someone else's believes that they have a right to have sex with you because you are having a relationship with them!. It seems to me you were very honest with him and told him you did not want a sexual relationship!. No one!. But no one!. Has the right to force themselves on you!. I hope in time you can feel better but I can only imagine how you feel and I am thinking of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO NO NO it was NOT your fault!. speak to someone eg a counsellor,friend or somene who will help and listen!.have a restraining order put in place against these men!. dont be afraid and try to find the strength to move forward and dont let them push you away from your own home!.remember it was not your fault,you made your feelings regarding sex so IT was NOT your fault ok!.good luck with everything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Rape is never the victim's fault!. It was naive to let him come in at 1 in the morning, but it's not your fault you trusted him, you thought you could!.
Call the police, make a report, get a restraining order and stay the hell away from him!. Call this number, it's a rape hot line: 1-800-656-HOPE!.
Don't be embarrassed, always remember it was NOT your fault!. *hugs*Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call the police, make a report, get a restraining order and stay the hell away from him!. Call this number, it's a rape hot line: 1-800-656-HOPE!.
Don't be embarrassed, always remember it was NOT your fault!. *hugs*Www@Answer-Health@Com
So how were you "almost raped"!? What did you do that stopped two body builders with 80 lbs on you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com