I need help NOW!!!!!!?!


Question: I need help NOW!!!!!!!?
My parents cant stop arguing they do it day and night and they do it around me and my siblings and i dnt know how my sister and my brothers feel but its really stressing me out!. My mothers always kicking him out regardless of how we feel about it!. And it hurts me just to see him leave!.
Im just really going thru an emotion roller coaster!. Im almost 15 and im also dealing with stress and anxiety from my fears of starting high school and all of my family and friends expectations from me just because i got appected to a private school in which i dnt want to go to!.
Then i really miss my grandmother and i dnt know what to about!. I wish i could atleast talk to her or atleast hold her in my arms every since she died things havent been the same!.
i know it sounds like im a big baby and all but i cant deal with all this stress right now and its like no one understands AT ALL!!! Any help i can get about reducing stress would be helpful!! ThanksWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Take deep breaths and close your eyes and let your worries come out of your mind and float away!.I used to pretend my mind was a wardrobe and i'd open it up,take the old and bad clothes(the worries) away and throw them deep into the ocean,sounds silly but it worked and i'm 15 too!.
Try and get one of your parents alone and talk to them about how you feel or at least tell someone!.Don't worry about your grandma,i'm really sorry you lost her but she'll always be with you!.Love never dies and is stronger than ANYTHING!.Just remember that!.I'm sure she wishes she could hug you too and you can,in spirit and in thought,someone who loved you that much would never just leave you after forming such a close bond!.Don't worry about your family and friends expectations just do your personal best,its your life,your private school,you do what makes you happiness,i'm sure they're just extra pleased you got in a private school!.If you really don't want 2 go to a private school then tell them how you feel,and say it'd make YOU happier!.Good luck,don't worry be happy :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to your parents about this!. A fourteen year old shouldn't deal with all of this!. Ask them if they can try their best to get along for YOUR sake and YOUR SIBLINGS!. You should all sit down and talk about these things!. Tell your parents that they don't have to like eachother or anything, but to cut down on the arguing and screaming!. Tell them how you're feeling about your grandmother and school, also!. Good luck!. :]Www@Answer-Health@Com

well okay, dont worry about the whole high school thing!. i had to go to a high school i didnt want to go to and all my friends went to this other school, but i made really good friends, and high school is more annoying than scary anyway!.!.!.
sorry i cant help you with the whole stress thing, i just make unhealthy decisions when theres trouble at home!. but ive recently been practicing meditation and never being home until i have to sleep! so maybe you can get a job or sumthing!. subway highers at 14Www@Answer-Health@Com

I went through the same thing!. Except my mother was 1000x worst then yours!. I don't know if it will help with this situation but what I did was file emancipation from my parents (cause they literally are satans children) and am now living with my grandmother on the opposite side of the US!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am sorry about that!.
I know this might osunds dumb, but the most u can do is try to take ur mind off of it!. Do things and hang out with ur friends and try to get out of the house with ur siblings!.!.like go to a park or something!.!.try to do something that will get ur mind off of it!.
Sometimes when thins are screwed up!.!.!.i justt turn to music and listen to it in my room and no one ca bother me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

relax !. get out of the house for awhile and go to a salon or whatever !. if your parents continue to argue snap at them !. sounds like they need to be snapped at !. im sorry for what happened to your grandma!.!. visit her grave and leave a flower !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no no ur not a big baby my perants were the same and im 14 my dad uset to all ways get pissed and smash the house up try to for get about them or some fing cuss u will only get deppersedWww@Answer-Health@Com

sounds harshWww@Answer-Health@Com





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