What do you think is wrong with him?!
Question: What do you think is wrong with him!?
my boyfriend of 3 years has seperation anxiety!. when i left to go out of town a few weeks ago he threatened to kill himself, he punched himself in the face a few times and just had a severe panic attack that i was leaving for a week!. Now that i have returned, i found out i was pregnant!. Now he wants nothing to do with me!. Wont call me, he wont answer my phones calls and is just acting the complete opposite!. And im just really confused!. Does it sound kinda like he is bipolar or something!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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That's not separation anxiety, that's controlling behaviour, and since you didn't let him control you then, he is punishing you now!. This guy is not one you want in your life forever, cause he will only control you more and more, with violence toward you and the baby!. Get to the doctor, take care of yourself and your baby, and try to get this guy some help from afar, call his family, whatever, to get him into therapy, if they can, and that is that!. But, he is not for you!. I know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel so badly for you and the child especially!. However, it sounds to me like it is best if this man is never in your life again!. I would do anything and everything possible to document this behavior and then legally try to have all of his rights removed as a parent, and then try to raise the baby in a safe, warm loving environment, preferably with a sane, normal, loving man who will treat you and the baby like the most special people in the world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this man is not safe to bring a child up around!. sorry but its true!. what you are going to do i dont know but stop calling him and pursuing him, it will do no good!. he needs help!. make one last phone cal and simply say i dont know what happened to you but you need help!. i am going to(whatever your going to do) and i will not continue to be aprt of your life until you learn to del with issues and talk to me without acting like a child!.
it sounds like he needs medication!. honestly!. only crazy people hurt themselves and when they realize it isnt working on you!.!.!.they then hurt you!.!.!.!.!.
i wish you the best!.!.!.!.but walk away!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it sounds like he needs medication!. honestly!. only crazy people hurt themselves and when they realize it isnt working on you!.!.!.they then hurt you!.!.!.!.!.
i wish you the best!.!.!.!.but walk away!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ohhh girl, I am currently dating someone who is bi-polar, and this man sounds like he's in dire need of some *** spankin!.
Don't contact him anymore or who knows what he'll try to do to you and your baby!
You don't deserve some nutty on your backWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't contact him anymore or who knows what he'll try to do to you and your baby!
You don't deserve some nutty on your backWww@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't say you should stay away, if you still have the same feelings for him, help him by getting someone involved (Parent,Family etc) and get him some help, he needs it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like manipulative behavior, to me, but that's just my opinion!.!.!.!.skip the separation anxiety stuff, it's phony!.!.!.he's showing his real colors NOW! Move on with your life and away from him!. Good luck! kjlWww@Answer-Health@Com
It definitely sound crazy, but since your'e pregnant, take care of yourself first and foremost!. If he seems violent, then keep your distance and try to talk with his family!. They may have some insight!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe hes like Jim Carrey in Me, Myself and Irene!. Dual personalities!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No,he is an *** hole!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Something!.!.!.I'd stay away from him until he got some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like he's insane!.!.yep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I do believe there is something serious wrong with your boyfriend BUT not having all the facts I will go with what you said!.
NOW to you!.!.!.!.
Don't you be the FOOL and not see things with your EYES wide open!. You see what type of person your boyfriend is NOW you need to decide if you want to have a child and raise it in that type of dis function!. I am not saying abort your baby nothing of the sorts!. What I am saying is that you need to think of you and the health of your unborn child!. Until your boyfriend seeks some type of mental help your visits with him should be brief!. IF he is having problems with separation he sure didn't have a problem with separating from you when he found out that you were pregnant!. Don't give him the credit and cop-out by labeling him "bipolar"!?!?!?!?
Call a spade a spade!.!.!.!.!. he walked out on you in "your time" of need car ring his baby!. That speaks more volumes to me than calling him bi-polar!. Enough about him, what is your game plan!?!? How are you going to financially support your un-born baby, you have alot of decisions to make and right now, if he is not there with you, your focus surely should not be on him!?!
Don't let the audience believe that you are bipolar as well!. Have your good mind when your think especially concerning the health and safety of your baby!.
Think about life, your future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NOW to you!.!.!.!.
Don't you be the FOOL and not see things with your EYES wide open!. You see what type of person your boyfriend is NOW you need to decide if you want to have a child and raise it in that type of dis function!. I am not saying abort your baby nothing of the sorts!. What I am saying is that you need to think of you and the health of your unborn child!. Until your boyfriend seeks some type of mental help your visits with him should be brief!. IF he is having problems with separation he sure didn't have a problem with separating from you when he found out that you were pregnant!. Don't give him the credit and cop-out by labeling him "bipolar"!?!?!?!?
Call a spade a spade!.!.!.!.!. he walked out on you in "your time" of need car ring his baby!. That speaks more volumes to me than calling him bi-polar!. Enough about him, what is your game plan!?!? How are you going to financially support your un-born baby, you have alot of decisions to make and right now, if he is not there with you, your focus surely should not be on him!?!
Don't let the audience believe that you are bipolar as well!. Have your good mind when your think especially concerning the health and safety of your baby!.
Think about life, your future!.Www@Answer-Health@Com