Please help, insecurities?!
Question: Please help, insecurities!?
This is really long, I'm sorry!. I've been with my boyfriend for a long time, coming in on a year, I'm 17, my boyfriend is 20!. We broke up 2 years ago, a bad break up, lots of crying & pleading on both sides!. I didn't want to be without him but my mother was very sick at the time so I had bigger commitments to her & because of our 3 year age difference I felt I had more to see, so I thought ripping the band aid off would be best!. We kept in touch for a while!. We were special to one another, each other's first love's, our first everything in every aspect!. We saw other people, we felt we had moved on at first but the more time that went by the more excuses we made to call one another!. Last summer, I was seeing someone for a few months & my boyfriend now basically said he can't speak with me because he can't take us being just friends anymore!. After hearing that I knew I was just as in love & let my relationship go, I wasn't interested though, so itWww@Answer-Health@Com
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you just got to trust your heart!. your heart knows you better then anyone on here!. if's he's your guy, he will always be that guy!. sounds like you have found your soul mate and don't let him go you will regret it forever!. who cares your age if you found love thats great!. if you love this guy like it sounds you just need to trust your feelings and don't let fear out way love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are the perfect example my ex and i need!. i am a seventeen year old girl too and my boyfriend and I were dating for almost 3 years!. I started seeing someone else, just for the sake of doing it, and i admit yes i did have a bit of feelings for the other guy!. but it didn't come even close to what i felt with nick (my ex)!. he has started seeing other girls too, and it kills me!. i have hurt him too!. we have hurt eahcother!. but our love is so strong that i think we just need a break, some time to realize that we really do need eachother!. we have mutual love and its unconditional, we will love eachother for god knows how long!. I feel insecure too when he sees other girls, he tells me that they don't mean a shred as much as i do and hes just trying things out, but I can't help but cry on the phone to him every single night!. i cry, kick, can barely eat, barely sleep, i go literally insane!. he is not doing so well either, but we do need this break!.
anyway, i really liked reading your story cus its nice to see someone who went through the same thing as me!. that's great that you guys worked everything out!. oh and i hate it too when people say that im not in a serious realtionship because i really feel like i am in one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
anyway, i really liked reading your story cus its nice to see someone who went through the same thing as me!. that's great that you guys worked everything out!. oh and i hate it too when people say that im not in a serious realtionship because i really feel like i am in one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com