Is it too late?...?!
Question: Is it too late!?!.!.!.!?
I posted something last night!.!.!.I am extremely depressed!.!.!.I have lost my job, and havent been able to find anything in a month, I am losing everything I have worked so hard for!.!.!.and as of tonight the love of my life left me!.!.!.and wont really say why!.!.!.all I want to do is give up!.!.!.!.I am one bullet away from freedom, I do and I dont want to give up!.!.!.it hurts!.!.!.!.and its been hurting!.!.!.!.Im scared!.!.!.and I am reaching out for help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Your thinking too emotionally, and not rationally enough!. You lost your job and cant find one= the economy sucks now-a-days, and its harder than ever for you, and others like you, to find a job!. Give it some time (like the person above stated) and you'll find one!. The worst you can do now is stop applying yourself, and continue being depressed over being unemployed, while doing nothing to remedy the situation!.
Your gf/bf left!. So!? The idea of 'one true love' is rediculous!. There are plenty of other people you are compatable with, even more than your ex!. If they left cause you cheated (perhaps) then you learn not to cheat!. If they left cause they are not happy, then let them go, if they truly love you, they will come back!. You don't wanna hold a person down if they are not happy, cause they won't care for you and hurt you in the long run!.
Life is a roller-coaster!. Its not always all good, and its not always all bad!. When its good, its great, and when its bad, it hurts and sucks!. However, although you are in a slum now, time will heal your wound, and you will cheer up!. Soon enough, you'll get job offers, maybe meet a new person whom you can pursue a relationship with!.
Giving up will only feed the problem!. It won't move you out of the rut!. When I lose motivation for anything (e!.g!. going to the gym) I go anyways, and do the motions!. Soon enough, I get my groove back!. Thats how it is with anything!. And being depressed wants to make us stay in that groove, and dwell!.
You need to grieve your bf/gfs loss, and the loss of your job!. Yes, it sucks, but its only a job and 1 relationship!. Think about the countless opportunities available now!. Don't just give up, you have a lot of great things available to you, just go out and get them tiger!.
EDIT: I use to work with divorced individuals!. They say for every 4 years together, it takes 1 year to get 'over' the relationship!. Given that you dated her 5 years, it will take a while!. What did you take that is 'making you feel weird'!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your gf/bf left!. So!? The idea of 'one true love' is rediculous!. There are plenty of other people you are compatable with, even more than your ex!. If they left cause you cheated (perhaps) then you learn not to cheat!. If they left cause they are not happy, then let them go, if they truly love you, they will come back!. You don't wanna hold a person down if they are not happy, cause they won't care for you and hurt you in the long run!.
Life is a roller-coaster!. Its not always all good, and its not always all bad!. When its good, its great, and when its bad, it hurts and sucks!. However, although you are in a slum now, time will heal your wound, and you will cheer up!. Soon enough, you'll get job offers, maybe meet a new person whom you can pursue a relationship with!.
Giving up will only feed the problem!. It won't move you out of the rut!. When I lose motivation for anything (e!.g!. going to the gym) I go anyways, and do the motions!. Soon enough, I get my groove back!. Thats how it is with anything!. And being depressed wants to make us stay in that groove, and dwell!.
You need to grieve your bf/gfs loss, and the loss of your job!. Yes, it sucks, but its only a job and 1 relationship!. Think about the countless opportunities available now!. Don't just give up, you have a lot of great things available to you, just go out and get them tiger!.
EDIT: I use to work with divorced individuals!. They say for every 4 years together, it takes 1 year to get 'over' the relationship!. Given that you dated her 5 years, it will take a while!. What did you take that is 'making you feel weird'!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's only been a month! It's taken me over 2 months to find a job at times, have some patience!. As for the breakup, that sucks and it's harsh and you're gonna hate it for a while, but it's nothing you can't get through!. **** like this happens all the time to everyone!. If you're really considering killing yourself because of job-loss and a break-up than you're extremely weak!. How about growing a pair and facing **** head-on like the rest of us!? Don't you know these situations just make you stronger in the long run!? What you described is absolutely no reason to even consider suicide!. Have a scotch and lighten up, kid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, life is bad for you right now!. But no matter how bad a situation gets, its NEVER worth ended life!. Everything happens for a reason!. You might find that you lost your job because a fantastic one is waiting for you 3months down the road!. Your love left you!.!.but it was wrong of her to leave without giving you an explaination!. Dont give up because you will find that things will get better for you!. Call a crisis center in your area!. They are usually open 24hrs a day and can help you through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
please, please, please do not committ suicide!. that is really not the way to go!. you need to maybe go stay with a close friend or family member and get your life straight!. it's ok!.!.!.!.!.you can get through the hard times in your life!. just don't do that to yourself or the people that care for you!. it may be an easy way out but, i do not believe it is the right way to leave this world!. and it would only cause pain in loved ones!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know if you believe in God or not!. If you do read your bible and pray to Him!. But good things come to those who wait!. If you don't then just think of it this way, nothing can get worse, it'll only get better!. Just wait and things will get better!. Life is the most precious thing of them all, and suicide is not the answer to anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont worry!.!.!. things will be alright!.!.!. maybe not today or tomorrow but soon!.!.!. its only been a month and if she really ever loved you enough then she will come back!.
but suicide is not the answer!.!.!. it never is!.!.!. dont give up!. eventually everything works out for the best!. no matter what!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but suicide is not the answer!.!.!. it never is!.!.!. dont give up!. eventually everything works out for the best!. no matter what!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
we all go through rough patches and they are temporary just dont let go of yourself too much!.
greive for a bit but try to move on!.!.
~MeL~Www@Answer-Health@Com
greive for a bit but try to move on!.!.
~MeL~Www@Answer-Health@Com
please dont do anythig crazzy send me an im i will give you my number so we can talk i will be here for you no matter what chell_32456@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
i say rob a bank or something!.!.!.!.its times like these youll excelWww@Answer-Health@Com
It is never too late!. Not ever!. Not until you pull the trigger!. Then it's too late!.
Call someone!. Right now!. Someone you love and trust!. If you can't, call a suicide hotline!. If nothing else, they can direct you to further psychiatric help in your area!. 1-800-273-TALK is a good one!.
You're important!. You may not feel that way, but if nothing else, live for all the people who love you!. Hell, live for me!. I know what being suicidal feels like, and I, personally, want you to win this fight!.
Please take steps to protect and help yourself!. It's never too late!.
If you want to talk, you are more than welcome to drop me an email!.
EDIT: Then take yourself to the hospital and tell them you feel suicidal!. Don't give up on survival!. And please dont't "take" anything else!. Self-medication is dangerous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Call someone!. Right now!. Someone you love and trust!. If you can't, call a suicide hotline!. If nothing else, they can direct you to further psychiatric help in your area!. 1-800-273-TALK is a good one!.
You're important!. You may not feel that way, but if nothing else, live for all the people who love you!. Hell, live for me!. I know what being suicidal feels like, and I, personally, want you to win this fight!.
Please take steps to protect and help yourself!. It's never too late!.
If you want to talk, you are more than welcome to drop me an email!.
EDIT: Then take yourself to the hospital and tell them you feel suicidal!. Don't give up on survival!. And please dont't "take" anything else!. Self-medication is dangerous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When your day is long and the night,
The night is yours alone,
When you're sure you've had enough
With this life,
Well hang on
Don't let yourself go,
'Cause everybody cries
And everybody hurts sometimes
Sometimes everything is wrong
Now it's time to sing along
When your days is night alone,
If you feel like letting go,
When you think you've had too much
Of this life,
Well hang on
Everybody hurts
Take comfort in your friends
Everybody hurts
Don't throw your hand
Oh, no
Don't throw your hand
If you feel like you're alone,
No, no, no, you are not alone
If you're on your own in this life,
The days and nights are long,
When you think you've had too much
Of this life to hang on
Well, everybody hurts,
Sometimes everybody cries
And everybody hurts sometimes
And everybody hurts sometimes
So, hold on, hold on, hold on!.!.!.
(Everybody hurts!.!.!. You are not alone)
Don't do something so silly as killing yourself over a job, and some seemingly jerky fiance!. Comon there has to be more to life than that, please go and discover what that thing is for you and stop with this friggin nonsense = p!. Hopefully you take the harder road and in a few months time you might be the one convincing someone out of a similar predicament!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The night is yours alone,
When you're sure you've had enough
With this life,
Well hang on
Don't let yourself go,
'Cause everybody cries
And everybody hurts sometimes
Sometimes everything is wrong
Now it's time to sing along
When your days is night alone,
If you feel like letting go,
When you think you've had too much
Of this life,
Well hang on
Everybody hurts
Take comfort in your friends
Everybody hurts
Don't throw your hand
Oh, no
Don't throw your hand
If you feel like you're alone,
No, no, no, you are not alone
If you're on your own in this life,
The days and nights are long,
When you think you've had too much
Of this life to hang on
Well, everybody hurts,
Sometimes everybody cries
And everybody hurts sometimes
And everybody hurts sometimes
So, hold on, hold on, hold on!.!.!.
(Everybody hurts!.!.!. You are not alone)
Don't do something so silly as killing yourself over a job, and some seemingly jerky fiance!. Comon there has to be more to life than that, please go and discover what that thing is for you and stop with this friggin nonsense = p!. Hopefully you take the harder road and in a few months time you might be the one convincing someone out of a similar predicament!.Www@Answer-Health@Com