My dad found out i'm suicidal and that i cut myself. please help.?!
Question: My dad found out i'm suicidal and that i cut myself!. please help!.!?
today we got into a really huge fight (like we always do)!. he was comparing me to my older brother Michael!. michael's perfect!. he gets straight A's in AP classes, he's the star of hte football team, etc!. i quit sports beucase i hated the competition, i get C's even though i used to get A's!. my dad alwyas compares me to him!. i told him to stop but he just never listens!. so today he was comparing me to him and kept complaining about how good my brother was!. i was relaly fed up!. i started yelling at him and i accidentally let something slip!. i said that i was sorry i was a burden, i was sorry for not being as good as my brother, i was sorry for not getting straight a's and playing sports and for making everyone miserable!. i then mistakenly said htat i would be gone soon and he & the rest of the world wouldn't have to suffer!. i then ran up to my room sobbing!. my stupid dad then came up and asked if i was suicidal!. i denied it of course but he wouldnt believe me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
im going through the EXACT same thing!.
except my mom is my reason why i cut myself!.
mostly!.!.!.!.
but they found out around 2 weeks ago!.
wont leave me alone about it!.
they got me a counselor and its hell right now!.
its awkward, then NEVER stop asking me about it!.
it pisses me off!.
but i have to cope with it!.
i was forced to stop!.
they took away everything, EVERYTHING!.
all my music and tv, i cant hang out with my friends!.
and i was FORCED to stop!.
literally forced!.
but i suggest that you tell them it was from a while ago, not recent!.
thats what i did, they believed it!.
its hard to accept the fact that he knows, but you will be okay!.
if you ever wanna talk, e-mail me, or talk on aim!.
aim= livelovecutxxemo
e-mail= loserface21_14@yahoo!.com
hope to hear from you :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
except my mom is my reason why i cut myself!.
mostly!.!.!.!.
but they found out around 2 weeks ago!.
wont leave me alone about it!.
they got me a counselor and its hell right now!.
its awkward, then NEVER stop asking me about it!.
it pisses me off!.
but i have to cope with it!.
i was forced to stop!.
they took away everything, EVERYTHING!.
all my music and tv, i cant hang out with my friends!.
and i was FORCED to stop!.
literally forced!.
but i suggest that you tell them it was from a while ago, not recent!.
thats what i did, they believed it!.
its hard to accept the fact that he knows, but you will be okay!.
if you ever wanna talk, e-mail me, or talk on aim!.
aim= livelovecutxxemo
e-mail= loserface21_14@yahoo!.com
hope to hear from you :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you don't have to tell him
tell a person you ttrust
like your mother or grandpa or grandma,ect!.
you can stop
i did it wasn't easy
i found if i wrote stuff down in a journal it helped
maybe trying that would help
good luck =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell a person you ttrust
like your mother or grandpa or grandma,ect!.
you can stop
i did it wasn't easy
i found if i wrote stuff down in a journal it helped
maybe trying that would help
good luck =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
just try to find something else to take the feelings out on!.
writing has been working for me ( i used to cut)
and yes you should tell him what's going on!.
he can help,
even if he seems like he doesn't care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
writing has been working for me ( i used to cut)
and yes you should tell him what's going on!.
he can help,
even if he seems like he doesn't care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
first stop b*tching about life you know there are far more people that are in worse situations worse than yours it couldb much more effed up
Stop bitchinWww@Answer-Health@Com
Stop bitchinWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's probably best to tell him the truth now rather than later!. Your dad loves you and is trying to do his best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell him and go to a dr!. they can help you!. I mean why not!? What alternative do you have!. Just try and see what happens!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
my mom found out that i was suicidal!.!.!.if u wanna tlk 2 someone!.!.!.!.u can email me or IM me at vampirefang555@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think you need to sit down and talk to your dad how youve got to much pressure and you want him to love you for you dont give up if you guys fight and stuff thats normal but please dont give up your life bcause of it i fought with my parents to but i talk to them and they understood so try to get one on one time with your dad he wouldnt care if he didnt love you so just hold on if you need to talk let me knowWww@Answer-Health@Com
hey I feel for you!. I'm 16 years old and I am suicidal and I cut!. and yes my parents found out!.!. I'm sorry for all the stuff your going thru!. I feel like I'm second best to my younger sister all the time, and I do get compared to her often!. Things are really hard sometimes and it sucks but i guess the only thing I can ever find comfort in is that everything happens for a reason!. I had to face my parents!.!.!. not for awhile thankfully but when I was at the hospital I had to talk to them, yeah I was forced lol!. but thing is!.!.!. your dad cares about you, and if he doesn't I know other people do care about you!. I didn't find that out until it was almost too late!.!.!. and I don't want you to go thru all that torment!. tell your dad the truth!.!.!.!. even though its hard!. you'll be surprised about how suportive he is!. but yeah saying the cuts are old won't be believable it might make things worse
if you need to talk feel free to email me firespirit890@yahoo!.com
just hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
if you need to talk feel free to email me firespirit890@yahoo!.com
just hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
first, you need to sit your dad down and make him listen to you!. he needs to understand how the comparison to your brohter is making you feel!. just because your brother is a good student/athlete does not make you any less of a person!. your dad needs to recognize you for who you are and your accomplishments!.
second, you also need to talk to a therapist!. the therapist can bring your dad in a session (if you would like) to help him understand what's going on with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
second, you also need to talk to a therapist!. the therapist can bring your dad in a session (if you would like) to help him understand what's going on with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to be relieved that he found out!. You don't have to tell HIM everything, but now he can take you to a doctor that you can trust and who can help you!.
As far as not surviving through the pain of loosing this, you shouldn't be living life just to survive and having pain!. You can get better, you can get through this!. There are people who specialize in helping treat people overcome self harm!.
Please, ask your Dad to take you to a psychiatrist or counselor!. You will feel so much better once you do, it will be hard at first and it will take awhile to get better, but trust me once you do you will look back and be so glad you did!.
I hope you get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As far as not surviving through the pain of loosing this, you shouldn't be living life just to survive and having pain!. You can get better, you can get through this!. There are people who specialize in helping treat people overcome self harm!.
Please, ask your Dad to take you to a psychiatrist or counselor!. You will feel so much better once you do, it will be hard at first and it will take awhile to get better, but trust me once you do you will look back and be so glad you did!.
I hope you get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that you just woke your dad up to reality!. That's good!. That's very good!. If I were you, I'd tell him that you want counseling where you get some say in picking the counselor and that some of the counseling is for both of you!. Why!? Well, most likely he'll want you to see a counselor because that IS something you could use and by being proactive about it, you might get more input on who the counselor is!. If he also knows it's what you want and you say this particular counselor sucks, let's find another, he may take you a lot more seriously!. I also think you'll be better off if you two have someone help you learn to talk to each other!. Again, he'll probably be surprised if you calmly and maturely ask for these things all while saying you want help getting back to where you enjoyed life!.
And, no, saying the cuts are old won't fly!. You'll just come off as lying!. You're busted!. Come clean and use it to get the help that you do need and to establish a better relationship with your father!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And, no, saying the cuts are old won't fly!. You'll just come off as lying!. You're busted!. Come clean and use it to get the help that you do need and to establish a better relationship with your father!.Www@Answer-Health@Com