Please help, i have a karate problem?!
Question: Please help, i have a karate problem!?
i really want to train for karate and workout everyday to be the best i can be!. but i live in a house with 7 kids in it and they all don't like me because of how different i am from them!. they always complain of how much noise i make training in my room so they dislike me even more!. and im afraid to train outside because i really don't like it when people watch me train, especially my family because they always try to find some reason to judge me!. and now im always getting depressed everyday because my family always makes messes for me to clean up and i barely have any time to train!. please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Ask your karate instructor if he / she knows of somewhere you can train in peace when you want to!.
It is good that you have such enthusiasm for the art and I'm sure you'll find a way, even if it's training in the middle of a public park and not worrying what people say!. In fact, this could be a useful way to develop focus amidst distraction!.
When you don't have the space or privacy to physically train, use your mind to visualise your training, it is a valuable training tool because it develops your mind, imagination and spirit which are essential elements in any martial art!.
Best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is good that you have such enthusiasm for the art and I'm sure you'll find a way, even if it's training in the middle of a public park and not worrying what people say!. In fact, this could be a useful way to develop focus amidst distraction!.
When you don't have the space or privacy to physically train, use your mind to visualise your training, it is a valuable training tool because it develops your mind, imagination and spirit which are essential elements in any martial art!.
Best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
when i was young i was like you but now i dont care dood!. so jsut train and if there judging you, but dont hold rank accept it for what it is!. nothing to worry about!. kata is the foundation to a stable base!. 100 time a month is my goal when i do kata!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't you have a dojo to go to!?
stay late after school and train in the gym
train outside or in your garage, get used to people watching youWww@Answer-Health@Com
stay late after school and train in the gym
train outside or in your garage, get used to people watching youWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I used to train in brazillian jiu jitsu which boosted my confidence and helped me lose a whole bunch of weight!. So are you in karate now or just thinking about starting!? One thing you have to get used to is people watching you!. Did you ever hear what it's like to be in the "zone!?" If your in the zone then you usually don't care if people are watching or not!. So get used to it!. What will you do when the instructor watches you like a hawk and judges your every move for correct technique!? If you truly love martial arts and want to be the best you can be you shouldn't care who is watching you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can relate to your karate problem because I'm in the same situation with electric guitar lessons!.
What I suggest is you have to decide if karate is really important to you!. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I think perhaps karate isn't the only problem you are facing with your family and those 7 kids!? Maybe you have an issue taking a stance for yourself because everyone gets judgemental about anything you suggest or like, and advises you against it!? Make your mind up, remember it is your life and 7 kids or the family don't have a right to architect it!. It is yours!. So practise your karate in your room, turn the music on loud!. Or if you prefer, you can arrange your karate lessons for certain hours of the day when they'll be away from home!. Though I would prefer doing the former, coz "It's my life and if I make mistakes, they are mine and I learn from them!."
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
What I suggest is you have to decide if karate is really important to you!. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I think perhaps karate isn't the only problem you are facing with your family and those 7 kids!? Maybe you have an issue taking a stance for yourself because everyone gets judgemental about anything you suggest or like, and advises you against it!? Make your mind up, remember it is your life and 7 kids or the family don't have a right to architect it!. It is yours!. So practise your karate in your room, turn the music on loud!. Or if you prefer, you can arrange your karate lessons for certain hours of the day when they'll be away from home!. Though I would prefer doing the former, coz "It's my life and if I make mistakes, they are mine and I learn from them!."
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com