I feel sucidal...?!
Question: I feel sucidal!.!.!.!?
Some kind "Hang in there" words and vitual hugs might help!.!.!.Maybe some advice on what I should do to stop feeling this way!.!.!.besides getting professional help!. (not eighteen and parents won't take me!. they think im a drama queen)
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thanks in advance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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thanks in advance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sweetie, you are not a drama queen or a coward!. You are going through a very difficult time!. The fact that you were strong enough to post this question shows how brave, smart and responsible you are!. I am so proud of you! You are exactly the type of person that we need so desperately in this world!.
Two years ago I tried to kill myself!. At the time, I didn't see any other way out!. I honestly believed that everyone would be better without me!. In reality, I ended up hurting and scaring them so much!. I hurt myself too!. So much has happened in just two years, and I would have missed it ALL!.
Your adult life is just about to start!. Let yourself live it!. Think of all the things you haven't even done yet and everything you will be missing!. Take one day at a time!. Don't try to solve everything now!. Give yourself credit for the small steps you take (like posting this)!.
You can always call your county's health department!. They may be able to help you for free (and confidentially)!. Here are a couple of websites (i wish i would have looked into something like this):
http://suicidehotlines!.com
http://www!.suicidepreventionlifeline!.org!.!.!.
If you are unable to get help and you feel you will hurt yourself, call 911!. That is what they are there for!.
I'm not a praying person, but I will pray for you!. I believe you have so much potential! I wish you all the best!!! PS you can also email me at cidoni@gmail!.com!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Two years ago I tried to kill myself!. At the time, I didn't see any other way out!. I honestly believed that everyone would be better without me!. In reality, I ended up hurting and scaring them so much!. I hurt myself too!. So much has happened in just two years, and I would have missed it ALL!.
Your adult life is just about to start!. Let yourself live it!. Think of all the things you haven't even done yet and everything you will be missing!. Take one day at a time!. Don't try to solve everything now!. Give yourself credit for the small steps you take (like posting this)!.
You can always call your county's health department!. They may be able to help you for free (and confidentially)!. Here are a couple of websites (i wish i would have looked into something like this):
http://suicidehotlines!.com
http://www!.suicidepreventionlifeline!.org!.!.!.
If you are unable to get help and you feel you will hurt yourself, call 911!. That is what they are there for!.
I'm not a praying person, but I will pray for you!. I believe you have so much potential! I wish you all the best!!! PS you can also email me at cidoni@gmail!.com!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry that your parents won't take you!. That's tough!.
I can relate!. I have OCD, and a symptom of it is depression!. It is an incredibly hard emotion to overcome, but, when I start feeling depressed, I try to focus on the most positive aspects of my life!. For example, think of all the things that are going well for you right now!. Think about the luxuries that you have compared to others in the world!. Think about how throwing your life away would be an entirely selfish act!. Most of all, think about all the most positive qualities that you possess!. It may seem difficult, but it does help!.
If you need any other help, feel free to email me!.
Hugs,
MeganWww@Answer-Health@Com
I can relate!. I have OCD, and a symptom of it is depression!. It is an incredibly hard emotion to overcome, but, when I start feeling depressed, I try to focus on the most positive aspects of my life!. For example, think of all the things that are going well for you right now!. Think about the luxuries that you have compared to others in the world!. Think about how throwing your life away would be an entirely selfish act!. Most of all, think about all the most positive qualities that you possess!. It may seem difficult, but it does help!.
If you need any other help, feel free to email me!.
Hugs,
MeganWww@Answer-Health@Com
Focus on how special you are!.
You are a child of a KING!. God's very own daughter!. And that makes you a PRINCESS!.
I understand you aren't feeling very princess-like right now!. And that really stinks!. Depression is a hard, hard road!.
What about getting a bit of help at school from the guidance counselor!? You might be surprised at just how helpful they can be!.
Hang tough,
~M~
p!.s!. Remember to continually remind yourself that this feeling is TIME LIMITED!. There IS an end to it!. Although it is really really tough, you will come out on the other side!. And when you do, you will be better equipped to be helpful to others who also find themselves struggling with a bout of depression!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are a child of a KING!. God's very own daughter!. And that makes you a PRINCESS!.
I understand you aren't feeling very princess-like right now!. And that really stinks!. Depression is a hard, hard road!.
What about getting a bit of help at school from the guidance counselor!? You might be surprised at just how helpful they can be!.
Hang tough,
~M~
p!.s!. Remember to continually remind yourself that this feeling is TIME LIMITED!. There IS an end to it!. Although it is really really tough, you will come out on the other side!. And when you do, you will be better equipped to be helpful to others who also find themselves struggling with a bout of depression!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are too important to give up and take taht route! You are going to have sooo many big and great things in store for you but you have to get threw the hard times!. They will come to an end trust me! And would you really want to put your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers, sisters, nieces , nephews or your friends through all of that pain of lossing you!. God has awesome things in ahead of you!. And dont you want to see where you are going to get if you keep going!. Like what kind of job your going to have or who you will marry or how many kids you'll have!. Everything will be ok in the end!. And if its not ok now then its not the end!. And everything happens for a reason so if you are going through some hard times maybe they are just preparing you for greater and better things ahead!=] Good Luck! And i will pray everything works out for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
not to state anything obvious but don't take the coward's way out!. understand that scientifically the adolescent brain functions differently from the adult brain which is why adults NEVER remember what it is like being a teenager!.!.!. and I am sorry about your parents!.!.!. more stubborn than you apparently ;) *cliche alert* things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out!.
the clock won't stop for you, it keeps ticking like it or not so you either waste the little time we have here or do something about it, but if you don't try you'll never know!. think about the future!.!.!. do you want to have a job!? be a mom!? run away to cali to star in movies!? it won't happen if you don't give yourself a chance (and nothing is worth it to take that chance away from yourself) good luck and please conact any of these people who offer support before anything drastic and irreversible happens
xoxoxoxWww@Answer-Health@Com
the clock won't stop for you, it keeps ticking like it or not so you either waste the little time we have here or do something about it, but if you don't try you'll never know!. think about the future!.!.!. do you want to have a job!? be a mom!? run away to cali to star in movies!? it won't happen if you don't give yourself a chance (and nothing is worth it to take that chance away from yourself) good luck and please conact any of these people who offer support before anything drastic and irreversible happens
xoxoxoxWww@Answer-Health@Com
dont need parents permission to go to ER and tell them how you feel!. Also tell them that your parents will not listen to you nor take you to get help!. Your parents have tunnel vision!. There should be a city hall where you live that has a mental health hot line!. Call!. Do not wait!.
But suicide is not an option!. Life is hard for everyone right now!. Being young you are even feeling more stress added on!. Do not say that school or professional help is out!. It is never out!. You will find that your school is the best backer you will have!.
You need to talk to someone who will help you with the parents and getting those blind folds off your parents eyes!. Even a church priest!. There are many options open to you!. Age will have nothing to do with it!. Being younger you will find even more doors open to you!. All you have to do is be serious enough and brave enough to walk through that open door, even if your parents are not beside you!.
Your parents will not always be there for you so you have to look out for number one!. I am betting once your parents realize you are serious they will be very upset with themselves for not listening to you sooner!. Walk threw that door now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But suicide is not an option!. Life is hard for everyone right now!. Being young you are even feeling more stress added on!. Do not say that school or professional help is out!. It is never out!. You will find that your school is the best backer you will have!.
You need to talk to someone who will help you with the parents and getting those blind folds off your parents eyes!. Even a church priest!. There are many options open to you!. Age will have nothing to do with it!. Being younger you will find even more doors open to you!. All you have to do is be serious enough and brave enough to walk through that open door, even if your parents are not beside you!.
Your parents will not always be there for you so you have to look out for number one!. I am betting once your parents realize you are serious they will be very upset with themselves for not listening to you sooner!. Walk threw that door now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
*hugs*, hang in there!. well life does suck but id say death is worse!. there are various reasons fro felling suicidal, deppression being the most likely!. i dont know any way to stop feeling it only to realive symptoms!. try talking to your parents, if they dont belive, be very serious (as in tell them do they wont to be responsilbe for your death, thatll work)!. but part from that, without pro help try talking to your mates, or other family members yould be surprised at peoples reactions!.
part from that there isnt really any advice i can give!. taking your life takes great courage, to keep living is the greatest!.
ever want to talk email me via my profile!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
part from that there isnt really any advice i can give!. taking your life takes great courage, to keep living is the greatest!.
ever want to talk email me via my profile!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
call the suicide hotline!.!. they will sit there any time of the day and listen tro anything you need to spew out honey!. im not sure what the number is that you could access due to the fact that i dont know where you live but heres the number that we have in south florida
305-358-4257
they will help you they may not give advice but they may have number you can call for free counseling!.!. im sorry your parents aren't being supportive but anytime someone goes to their parents and asks for professional help they should jump on that and do it!.!. im here if you wanna spew!. sorry if im not accessible by email very well!. but if you want i can give you my screen name for aim!.
i hope you feel better and i mean when they say it all gets better its true i've been through some really really bad stuff over my years of growing up and im only almost 18!.!.
heres a hugggeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee virtual hug =)))
and an i love you!.
feel better cutie =)) please !?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
305-358-4257
they will help you they may not give advice but they may have number you can call for free counseling!.!. im sorry your parents aren't being supportive but anytime someone goes to their parents and asks for professional help they should jump on that and do it!.!. im here if you wanna spew!. sorry if im not accessible by email very well!. but if you want i can give you my screen name for aim!.
i hope you feel better and i mean when they say it all gets better its true i've been through some really really bad stuff over my years of growing up and im only almost 18!.!.
heres a hugggeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee virtual hug =)))
and an i love you!.
feel better cutie =)) please !?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all!.!.!. *hugs*
If it helps, I've been in your situation!. I even got so far as writing notes for them to read after I'm gone!.
Please dont get that far!.
I got past it by simply growing up!. I realized I had to handle my problems, not just run away from them!.
But I can tell that you don't really want to kill yourself!.
By asking people online to help you, I can tell you really want to get help!.
But if your parents don't want to get you help then talk to a friend!.
Or you can e-mail me!. I know it's easier to tell a stranger that will never see you rather than talking to someone you know!.
But a friend can give you so much more help!.
Remember, even when it seems like you are alone, someone loves you!. Wheather it's someone crushing on you or a friend you've forgotten, someone loves you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it helps, I've been in your situation!. I even got so far as writing notes for them to read after I'm gone!.
Please dont get that far!.
I got past it by simply growing up!. I realized I had to handle my problems, not just run away from them!.
But I can tell that you don't really want to kill yourself!.
By asking people online to help you, I can tell you really want to get help!.
But if your parents don't want to get you help then talk to a friend!.
Or you can e-mail me!. I know it's easier to tell a stranger that will never see you rather than talking to someone you know!.
But a friend can give you so much more help!.
Remember, even when it seems like you are alone, someone loves you!. Wheather it's someone crushing on you or a friend you've forgotten, someone loves you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hay, so i dont no why you feel this way but it doesnt matter no one should have to go through this!!!.!.!.!.!.!.just rember god put you here for a reason and your meant to be here were all gonna go through rough times and there hard to come out of but keep pushing through!.!.!.one of my favorites sayings that make me feel better are these!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Be strong now,things will get better,it may be stormy now but it cant rain forever!! thats one!.!.!.!.my next is always smile even when your sad you never no who is falling in love with your smile:]!.!.!.idk if that helps but hope it does just keep having faith dont listen to the negative ppl leave them behind and find the ppl that make you smile and laugh!.!.!.just put a smile on your face and think wow so even though you think today sucks think of everything you love and do fun things!.!.!.things that bring you joy!!:]!.!.!.!.!.and never think of your self has nothing or less than what your are bc if you think that ppl will think that and you have to have a (escuse my language) but a f*ck you attudie and live for you and no one else and try to be happy!!its gonna rox when you finally can say your are and i promise you will make it through bc theres ppl that love you and would never what you to hurt yourself!.!.!.so stay strong!!:]]]]] and heres a hug!!! :D:D:D:D:DWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just know that things get rough for everyone, hun!. And that this will blow over!. Right now it might seem like it won't get any better, but know that it will!.
"Things will be OK in the end, and if it's not OK it's not the end!."
Wish you luck, and hang in there!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Things will be OK in the end, and if it's not OK it's not the end!."
Wish you luck, and hang in there!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's okay! I've felt the same way before, and I had two really good, amazing friends who made me feel!.!.!.like I mattered again!. Cling to those friends of yours who make you happy, who make you feel confident, and who make you want to keep going on!.
I know how hard all of that is!. I've been there--just keep telling yourself that you're strong enough to make it through!.
Love ya! *HUG!*Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how hard all of that is!. I've been there--just keep telling yourself that you're strong enough to make it through!.
Love ya! *HUG!*Www@Answer-Health@Com
the only thing to do so go to the nearest center and seek some counselor professionals before you end up hurting someone else or yourself because if your parents don't seek that you are in alot fo pain then guess what no disrespect your parents need some help themselves!!!! take care and email me shantellbaines83@yahoo!.com if you want to talk i'm here if you need meWww@Answer-Health@Com
try being fake happy around your friends!. do something to distract yourself from thinking life is worth ending!. i used to think of all the things i would miss, wonder about where im going if i die, etc!. try going to church!. try talking to a friend!. anything!. if you have a myspace add me and whenever you feel suicidal just tell me!.
http://profile!.myspace!.com/index!.cfm!?fus!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://profile!.myspace!.com/index!.cfm!?fus!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please, pray about this!. When you feel no one cares for you, remember, God does!. Psalms 55:22 says, "Throw your burden upon Jehovah himself, and He himself will sustain you!. Never will He allow the righteous one to totter!." He cares for us as individuals!. When Jesus gave himself for us, he gave himself for each person individually!. Humans are imperfect, God and His son Jesus are perfect!. Which ones opinion would you find more important!? That of the perfect, or the imperfect!? We are each beautiful in our own way!. Those who see us as strange, different, ugly, etc!. are simply insecure, and thus will say things to hurt you!. They believe this makes them 'stronger' or 'tougher' when in actuality it makes them foolish and disgraceful!. Psalms 37:9-12 hold encouraging promises from God about the future of mankind!. Memorize those scriptures, hold them close to your heart, pray often, and you will find that God will help you through everything!. If you want to talk, I would be happy to listen!. Feel free to e-mail me at jisankeiki@yahoo!.com!. I would love to hear from you!.
Suicide-the permanent solution to a temporary problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide-the permanent solution to a temporary problem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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No matter how hard you would feel, just remember!.!. The best person who could appreciate you is yourself!.
It'll be okay as long as you trust in your own conscience and all that stuff!. Try to keep yourself happy by indulging yourself to what you really want!
There's always hope :3Www@Answer-Health@Com
No matter how hard you would feel, just remember!.!. The best person who could appreciate you is yourself!.
It'll be okay as long as you trust in your own conscience and all that stuff!. Try to keep yourself happy by indulging yourself to what you really want!
There's always hope :3Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well take a look at your life, figure out whats causing this problem!.!. And sucide is not the answer and if your considering or thinking of it, then you need to seek the medical attention yourself!.!. you should be able to walk into a clinic and get help!? GOOD LUCKWww@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to some friends and they'll comfort you okay honey!
I know something that will you feel better--Watch Clean House on style!. network and it will make you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know something that will you feel better--Watch Clean House on style!. network and it will make you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to your friends a lot about everything you're feeling - talking will help! Don't act on your suicidal thoughts!. Things will get better!!! If you need someone to talk to you can email me at avenueqcrazy8@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
one day you'll get married, have sex, have children!.!.!. and ur not even 18 yet!.!.!. c'mon you have your whole life infront of you!. don't throw it all away and commit suicideWww@Answer-Health@Com
There is a teen hotline called The Girls and Boys Town that you can call 24 hours a day:
1-800-448-3000Www@Answer-Health@Com
1-800-448-3000Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all you need to step back and take deep breaths every once in a while to refocus and to relax you!. Understand that you are made by God and He has given you talents to use for His Glory!. Try focusing on that, and nothing in the world could make you feel better then when you do things for His Glory!. Don't try hard to fit in, if its hard then those people are not who you need to be hanging around with anyway!. As far as the way you are feeling right now!. I would go to my Pastor, Priest or whatever and let him know and he can counsel with you and better yet pray with you!. You are God's instrument, but only you can pray about it and search for what your gift is, then just go use it for His Glory and that is what life is about, and He will bless you with things in you life that you need!. Does he let sparrows fall to the ground with nothing to eat or without the knowledge of how to care for themselves in weather and what not!? Of course not, and He loves you way more than he does the tiny creatures!.
I am going to pray for you right now to feel God's touch and to give you guidance!. Try and open your heart and soul and do what God wants you to do!.
God Bless and remember He will never give you anything you can not find a way to handle, because as He says He will put no burdens upon you that you can not handle!.
Don't worry so much and trust the Lord!. You can even start going to Church more often and try getting involved in some Church Youth Groups, Volunteer!. But whatever you do always know that God Loves you and so do many many people whom you probably don't focus on!. Many times we can be blessed with countless things, walking , talking , seeing , not having a Chronic illness!.!.!.!.as you know I could go on and on, but yet one or two "little" things go not our way and the Devil has a way of making us focus on those things and will try and lead you to things of this world to fill your emptiness such as drugs, sex ext!.!.!.!. when the only true thing we can fill that empty part in us with and receive eternal Blessings is Christ!.
I am praying for you!. God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com
I am going to pray for you right now to feel God's touch and to give you guidance!. Try and open your heart and soul and do what God wants you to do!.
God Bless and remember He will never give you anything you can not find a way to handle, because as He says He will put no burdens upon you that you can not handle!.
Don't worry so much and trust the Lord!. You can even start going to Church more often and try getting involved in some Church Youth Groups, Volunteer!. But whatever you do always know that God Loves you and so do many many people whom you probably don't focus on!. Many times we can be blessed with countless things, walking , talking , seeing , not having a Chronic illness!.!.!.!.as you know I could go on and on, but yet one or two "little" things go not our way and the Devil has a way of making us focus on those things and will try and lead you to things of this world to fill your emptiness such as drugs, sex ext!.!.!.!. when the only true thing we can fill that empty part in us with and receive eternal Blessings is Christ!.
I am praying for you!. God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com