After being sexually assulted, is it normal to be scared?!


Question: After being sexually assulted, is it normal to be scared!?
yes, i was sexually assulted
and i don't know if it's normal to not constantly be in fear of where he will show up
i'm scared
is that normal!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Yes, and it's a good idea to talk with a trained counselor about it, and be on the lookout for signs of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder developing, such as nightmares, staring blankly, or unreasonable fears associated with similar situations!.

See section 20, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris and try the Pandys website first!. http://www!.coolnurse!.com/hotline!.htm (free US calls), and, if a teen, page K, in section 13, at ezy build!.

You never stated whether you knew the person, or reported this to the police, but it is always best to do this when it is fresh in your mind, and if you can get a friend, or family member to go with you, for moral support, that may help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes it's very normal!. It is also normal to not be able to trust people, hear voices or people call you name (that was a big one for me) feeling dirty, (try not to you didn't do anything wrong) questioning your judgement, replaying the horrible situation in your mind to amke sense of it!. You should definately see a therapist to help guide you through the process of healing!. It's not easy!. To me I made it a wall!. I told myself to climb it and get past it!. I did and I'll never look back to grieve and give that person the satisfaction of getting to me!. Good luck

I just read that the school is involved and not in a good way either!. Get your parents to go to the school board and contact a lawyer! This person should have been exspelled! Youare supposed to feel safe in the educational enviornment! There are laws that protect you!. Try to file a restraining order!. I hope this helped you! If you need more help needmorestuff2@yahoo Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's completely normal to be afraid and paranoid after a traumatizing experience!. Unfortunately, the only solution that I've found to this problem is to just wait it out!. Wait until your brain automatically puts the memory away in the "old and forgotten" category, which might take a while, but once it does, you'll be back to normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah thats very normal!. its also normal to feel guilt or dirty eventhough it wasnt your falt and most likely he will never show up again!. you should tell an adult you trust so that guy can get caught!. i felt the same way for about three years but then i got therapy and i felt a lot better!. try not to sweat it so much and look into getting counsiling!. im sorry that happened to you :(Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, it's normal!.

Call a rape crisis line!. There is free in person and group counseling!. It is the best gift you will ever give yourself!.

PS- I'd still call the rape crisis line, explain the situation, and see if they have a counselor that could talk to you!. You went thru something wrong!. You can't skip school!. You could use some help in figuring out how to not be scared!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

okay those circumstances intrigue me but ill ignore that!. well its is normal particully in the situation you describe to be scared to return to school!. 2 options present themselves, either change school (wich sounds like a good idea) or seek some help (which you should do anyway) from a psych!. want more advice or just want to talk email me via my profile!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that's totally normal!.!.it's jsut the side effects!.!.and u will have to deal with them but over time u should feel a lot better and not think about it so much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Very!.
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