How do I cope with my grandmas death?!

Hey man,

I know what its like to loose someone!.!. It sucks really bad!. I lost my grandma and grampa too!. Im really sorry about your loss!. I know its hard to deal with, but you got to understand that they are in heaven looking down on you!. It was there time to go, and at least she lived a long life!. My beloved fiance passed away not to long ago from cancer, at 30 years old!. She never got to even live her life!. Im still trying to cope with it too!. Its hard bro!. I have a good book that i read, called embraced by the light by beddie j!. eadie, you can get it on her website at www!.embracedbythelight!.com for $10 wit free shipping!. anyway, its about a woman who went to heaven, and it was clinicly proven that she was dead for four hours, then woke up!. Anyway, it gave me a lot of hope that im going to see my loved ones again and gave me such a better view on our creater, jesus christ!. Dont worry bro, your grandmother is in paradise right now!.!. i know its hard to believe but its true!.

hang in there, im going threw the same thing!. I had my parents pass away when i was 15 and my grandma die 2 years ago!. And now my fiance got sick and didnt make it!. And im still living and crying every day, but I am happy that they are finally in their natural home, heaven!.

Good luck!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Im sorry for your loss, Just hang in there and think about stuff that makes YOU feel good!. Do some running around stay active!. I cant really say I know how you feel but I have seen people go through it!. Just try not to sit alone at home all day!.
Get well my friendWww@Answer-Health@Com

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there's no cure for grief - just allow yourself timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

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Hey Daniel, I really understand your situation now!. That is my biggest fear- losing my beloved grandma!. She raised me and she's the only person who can understand me!. I am always getting depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Let me join with the others, here, in offering you condolences on your loss!. It may not have "sunk in", at an emotional level, earlier on, but now you are progressing through the grieving process!.

Go to http://www!.mind!.org!.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter!. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U!.S!.A!.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book)!. Email jo@samaritans!.org Chatrooms and forums: http://www!.chatmag!.com/topics/health/gri!.!.!. and http://talkingminds!.15!.forumer!.com/ and http://messageboards!.ivillage!.com/ Other websites: http://www!.griefnet!.org/ and http://www!.helpguide!.org/ (coping, supporting others, loss of relationship, or pet) and http://www!.mental-health-abc!.com/ and http://www!.boblivingstone!.com/!?q=node30 and http://www!.crusebereavementcare!.org!.uk/ Understand that there are often several stages of grief!.

The stages are:

Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening!."
Anger: "Why ME!? It's not fair!?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate!."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything!?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK!."
K

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