I can't deal with all of this...?!

Im sorry that you are going through this very hard time in your life!.!.!.
what you need to do is you need to join a support group where people can relate to the feelings of pain and loss you are going through or
you need to talk to someone close to you -a very close friend of yours where you can vent your frustrations instead of letting them build up inside
you need to push yourself out of this rut because no one is going to help you and make you stronger than you could yourself- you are your only best friend
start doing activities with friends
go to the beach
movies
read books
join the gym
take a class whether its to learn how to swim, sew or a new language
all these things will distract your mind and before you know it those negative feelings you had will blow over
as far as your girlfriend the more you look for a person the more they will cave in and still expect your call and text because its prdeictable that you will continue to call and text
never chase anyone no matter how bad you feel you may need them!.!.!.if you stop looking for her she might wonder what the hell happened and look for you and if she doesnt its her loss
but try ignoring her sometimes ignoring speaks louder than any vmail you leave herWww@Answer-Health@Com

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See an appropriate medical doctor!. Also see mental health professionals!. With their help, get to the route (root) of what's ailing you!. Pray for good mental adjustment!.
Look around!. Find someone worse than you are and do what you can to help them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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i think there's nothing wrong with going to a mental wardWww@Answer-Health@Com

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Why not cry out to the Lord Jesus !? Ask Him to come into your heart, and help you! You will never be disappointed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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That is a lot to deal with, All I can say is!.!.!.Give yourself a break, It's only been a week since your girlfriend left you!. Let yourself cry - Time is a healer remember!. As for all the other tragedies - It's just a really unfortunate time for you and so many other people who are having to deal with them!. Try to keep busy, and smile, that always helps! Confide in people so that you don't become enclosed in your own prison, if that makes sense!. Don't let it all get to you!. We all have to suffer from heart break, deaths of loved ones and so on!.!.!.!.And the way you are feeling shows what a remarkable person you are! That you have such compassion and love in yourself!. It would be a terrible world if there was no pain with it as with no pain, there would be no appreciation of true happiness!.
Just get through it slowly!.
Goodluck, Elusive xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

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Thats a really band hand you have been dealt, life does that, but i think that time does heal all, can take time, some people can get through it by themselves and others need to talk, an old friend of mine told me how far down she went with having to give her kids to her parents and just getting wasted on drink and drugs, but she got her self through, with a little help from her doctor and anti depressants, i dont think there is any drug or person than can stop these feelings right away but i think a talk def with your doctor and see what he feels is right for u, good luck, i hope life gets betterWww@Answer-Health@Com

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One thing you'll need to remember, your friends and family will want you to stay strong for them!. Your support fron them is the most important thing you can do and your words of hope and uplifting their spirits!. Just think of what a mess it will be if none of you can be uplifted!. During these times, we all do very much appreciate someone who will step in and be that stronghold while we are morning the loss of a loved one, once they are past it they do realize who was there for them!.
Think of it like this, and God forbide that anything should happen to you, how would it make you fell to know if someone was there right along with you to uplift you!. Use this time to get closer with these people and do something for them that they can't do right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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you do realize that even though you are going through a lot of pain people out there who have it worse!?

However that is a lot of pain you are going through I would suggest finding a friend or some one to talk to!. you can e-mail me if you wish I also have messenger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Don't listen to Regina!! No offense, but NOWHERE in the Bible does it say to "let Jesus into your heart" for salvation!. You need to understand that God has a special purpose for those individuals, and it is not your job or obligation to stop it!. The only thing you can do is pray for them, as we pray for you!. A lot of people ask at this point, "Why is God doing this to me!?!?"!. In Hebrews 12 it says:

"Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons!. For what son is not disciplined by his father!?

If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons!.

Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it!. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live!

Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness!.

No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful!. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it!.

Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees!.

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