Feel so scared and hopeless, please give me advice?!
Question: Feel so scared and hopeless, please give me advice!?
I was molested twice in the past year and I hate myself b/c I can
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You are strong enough, beautiful, and talented, you can do anything, and you do have the strength to get through this!. I know that it is hard to believe now, but I am telling you the truth!. I know from experience how painful this is for you, and I'm so sorry this happened to you, you do not deserve this and it is not your fault!. It is very important that you get help from someone as soon as possible!. Your best friend loves you but may have her own issues to deal with!. You should go to a trusted teacher, or a pastor, or some other trusted adult!. I know it is hard to tell your parents, but they love you and they do not want this to happen to you!. It is easy to feel ashamed, but you have NOTHING to be ashamed of!. This is not your fault!. Please remember that!. What this person did to you is ILLEGAL and should be reported so it doesn't happen to someone else!. Please tell your parents, or a school counselor that can help!. you should not have to deal with this alone!. Just by asking for help here shows how strong you are and that you can and will survive this!. Don't give up, sweetie,Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to speak with a professional who cannot tell your parents unless there is a danger of it happening again!. You will suffer a lot more if you don't confide in someone else, preferably someone who can help you process all this pain and help you decide what to do next!. Believe me, this can lead to more molestation if it's not stopped!.
Please talk to a school counselor or go to a mental health clinic in your town (usually run by county, city or state)!. They can help you!. There is also usually a crisis hotline and they can help you as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please talk to a school counselor or go to a mental health clinic in your town (usually run by county, city or state)!. They can help you!. There is also usually a crisis hotline and they can help you as well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You really need to tell them and/or talk to a counselor or your doctor!. If the words won't come out, I suggest writing a letter just letting everything about the incident, out!. Make sure that they get it, though!. I'm sorry this happened to you--you shouldn't hate yourself or feel guilty, but take this opportunity to move foward and begin the healing process!.
Best luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
it may be easier to tell a stranger!. not just any stranger!. like a school counselor, or a teacher, they are people that can be trusted and they will help you tell your parents and the authorities!. please tell someone that will help you!. it is good that you had the courage to tell your friend, but if she does not tell anyone that can do something, what good does it do!? if you have a family doctor, that is another person that can help you!. they can help you tell your parents and make sure you are mentally stable!. something like that can leave someone really mixed up!. i'm sorry for what happened to you and i hope you seek help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's awful!. Well, mentioning it here shows you are strong! So maybe you are stronger than you think and just need a little bit more confidence to get thru this!.
Maybe there's some1 else you can talk to - maybe not a friend or family, but someone from a support group, or a counselling phoneline that's available!? There must be free ones you can ring and just talk to - anonymously, where u can just talk freely without there being an consequence!. Just talking will help!.
You've made a great start by asking for help here, so that next little step will help even more!. You need to just do this in steps u can manage at your own pace!. The worst is behind you, and things will get better! You will get stronger!. You will recover!. You will win through this!. Have faith in yourself - you're amazing :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe there's some1 else you can talk to - maybe not a friend or family, but someone from a support group, or a counselling phoneline that's available!? There must be free ones you can ring and just talk to - anonymously, where u can just talk freely without there being an consequence!. Just talking will help!.
You've made a great start by asking for help here, so that next little step will help even more!. You need to just do this in steps u can manage at your own pace!. The worst is behind you, and things will get better! You will get stronger!. You will recover!. You will win through this!. Have faith in yourself - you're amazing :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Okay you NEED to tell your parents!.
You just need to!. Asap!
I know you don't want to hear that, but it is the best thing to do!. One because they can help you and you don't have to deal with this on your own, you shouldn't bottle this up to yourself!.
And second, they can protect you and make sure you don't get hurt again!.
Tell them! You must, if you're nervous write it in a letter and give it to them!.
You don't deserve to be in this situation and this is not your fault!. Please, please tell your parents or another trusted adult!. My friend who is 22 did not tell her parents when she was raped and she regrets it because if she would have her teen years would have been so much better!. She tried committing suicide twice, and by a miracle she survived!. You will feel so much better if you tell them!.
put some of this burden in their hands and good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You just need to!. Asap!
I know you don't want to hear that, but it is the best thing to do!. One because they can help you and you don't have to deal with this on your own, you shouldn't bottle this up to yourself!.
And second, they can protect you and make sure you don't get hurt again!.
Tell them! You must, if you're nervous write it in a letter and give it to them!.
You don't deserve to be in this situation and this is not your fault!. Please, please tell your parents or another trusted adult!. My friend who is 22 did not tell her parents when she was raped and she regrets it because if she would have her teen years would have been so much better!. She tried committing suicide twice, and by a miracle she survived!. You will feel so much better if you tell them!.
put some of this burden in their hands and good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are places which you can visit (which are confidential) and will fully support you on your road to recovery!.
I suggest you visit one as soon as possible!. The sooner the better!.
AND anybody who powers themselves over another person for that sexual desire is nothing but a monster and I am nothing but disgraced to be classed as the same category as them!. Amen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest you visit one as soon as possible!. The sooner the better!.
AND anybody who powers themselves over another person for that sexual desire is nothing but a monster and I am nothing but disgraced to be classed as the same category as them!. Amen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im dealing with the same problem!
Exactly!.
I have had so much pain because of what happened to me!.
And you would think that if i wanted it to end i could tell someone, but its not easy i know!.
You are scared about how they will react and what events will take place when people do find out!.
I understand!.
Maybe you should start out small and talk to someone who knows what your going thru!.
like me!.
I could use someone to talk to as well!.
Email me anytime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Exactly!.
I have had so much pain because of what happened to me!.
And you would think that if i wanted it to end i could tell someone, but its not easy i know!.
You are scared about how they will react and what events will take place when people do find out!.
I understand!.
Maybe you should start out small and talk to someone who knows what your going thru!.
like me!.
I could use someone to talk to as well!.
Email me anytime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have to tell an adult!. call your local help line!. have an adult you trust talk to you with your parents!.
you won't get over these feelings if you don't talk it out!.
your parents love you and will believe you!. just give them a chance!.
you are stronger than you think!.
good luck
hugsWww@Answer-Health@Com
you won't get over these feelings if you don't talk it out!.
your parents love you and will believe you!. just give them a chance!.
you are stronger than you think!.
good luck
hugsWww@Answer-Health@Com
talk to some one who can help, such as some one who has overcome this!. let them in!. keep breathing!. that's the most important thing!. never let it control you!. learn to live again!. believe me when i say its hard, its never easy!. but it will get easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to tell your parents and the authorities and confront whoever did this to you!. It's nothing to be embarrassed about!. Be strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
carm down dalrin pray to god he/she will help you have fauth in urself dont worry think positive everyfing will be perfect good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
u oul see a psychologist and/or a psychiatrist!. if u dont want ur parents to know why u r going tell them u are depressed or something w/out disclosing the reason(hpefully that will work)Www@Answer-Health@Com
just tell them!. then they will go find him and cut his balls off and make him eat it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go tell your pastor at the church you attend!.They can put you on a path to healing!. Trust God!
Hope this helps,
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Hope this helps,
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You have stated this before!. My advice is still the same, go to the police!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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