I've been having suicidal thoughts, what do i do?!


Question: I've been having suicidal thoughts, what do i do!?
this has been going on for about two months now
Iv'e pictured myself jumping off the tappanzee bridge!.
I just dont want to live anymore
everyone around me is horrible, my family!.
my friends are great but I just want to die!.
how do i make this go away!.

I dont want to live anymore!. I just want to die!. I want to drive to the tappan zee bridge right now, but i just dont know what to do!.

please someone help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
After my son committed suicide, I thought I wanted to die too!.!.!.!.finallly it came to me!. I didn't want to DIE, but I wasn't really LIVING!. It's just that when you get in a certain frame of mind, you think the only way to feel better is to die!.

Well, my son died ten years ago, and so did a friend!. When I went to a suicide support group, I learned that in virtually 100% of the persons they autopsied who had committed suicide, their Serotoin levels were at 0, and it takes a good 30 days to raise the Serotonin levels to where you don't feel so bad with anti-depressants!.

Also, I would highly advise NOT doing it, because once my son died, for 10 years, I kept feeling a tickling on the top of my head!. I somehow sensed somebody was there, but never stopped and paid attention to it!.!.!.!.for 10 whole years!. Finally, through dreams and some books I was reading, I understood that was one way a guide tries to reach you!. So finally I opened up to it during meditation!.!.!.only it was my son!. I could pick up all his emotions, his gestures, everything, and believe me, he was SOBBING!.!.!.!.because we were very close, and all this time, he told me he could see me, but he couldn't REACH me!. He told me that his suicide wasn't worth it!.!.!.!.and it had hurt him all those years to see me crying and depressed and NOT be able to reach me!. He is now one of my guides, and is working with me on becoming whole!.

The best thing to do is go to the hospital and MAKE them admit you!. If you're going to commit suicide, it's an irreversable decision, and another thing my son told me is before he died, he never realized how LOVED he was on Earth!. Go to the hospital, tell them everything, get help NOW!.

At least if you're going to do it, tell everyone!. Go tell your family, tell them WHY you're doing this!.!.!.because the people you leave behind are FOREVER going to be wondering why they didn't see it coming and you, on the other side, are not going to be able to tell them!. My son said he didn't go to hell, but still, it was worse to see his family and friends hurting and not be able to do something about it!. Suicide notes really don't help the family either!. If you don't believe me, go to a suicide survivor meeting, and see all the parents there barely able to go on because they never saw it coming!.!.!.and blame themselves!.

DO NOT keep driving to the bridge or even thinking about it!. Any thought given enough time and attention will eventually manifest into reality!. Let yourself start thinking about letting out this "secret" and mentally practice driving to the hospital, getting care!. You DO have the power to change your life around, to get the treatment necessary to help you feel better, and to go on and live a wonderful and rewarding life!.

Don't keep saying you want to die, either!. Start saying, I want to start living!.!.!.!.and then start looking for ways to do that!. It may take longer than you want, but whatever thoughts you follow are the ones that will eventually manifest!.

Please Please Please go to the hospital ASAP and if they don't take you seriously, you can call the police and tell them, and they'll get you in!.

Love and Best Wishes, PeggyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Oh darling, you don't want to die, you just can't handle life anymore!. If you are religious, you should pray your eyes out!. If you aren't you should call the suicide hotline (1800-SUICIDE), and go see a professional first thing in the morning!. Call someone you trust, like a friend and talk to them!. You could even call your family because you will be suprised to find that they actually do care when you tell them you want to end your life!. They will be concerned and want to help you!. Please don't end your life!! put your keys somewhere where you can't get them, take a shower, and just talk to someone!. I don't know if it would work for you but I find it helpful when I get a good night's sleep, all of those horrible feelings and thoughts go away and I feel normal again!. Please talk to someone!. No matter how apathetic they seem about other things, they will be willing to help you through this!. Good Luck & take care =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

I used to feel that way growing up!. My parents were/are ******* crazy!. My family was a MESS and I was full of such GUILT, as if it was ALL my fault!.
I still have issues that I am trying to work on!. I've been going through therapy/counseling/psychiatric help for 8 years now!.
I always felt DEPRESSED and sometimes suicidal!.
I was never a happy child!.
I wished I could die SO many times!.
BELIEVE ME!!! YOU ARE NOT ALONE
there are so many people that feel this way!.
It's ok to be sad and depressed, but don't take your own life!.

PLEASE, call the numbers, email people that care, reach out and someone will HELP YOU!
we are trying to convince you to stay here, and we don't even KNOW YOU!.
YOU matter, the feelings you have are just because you are so frustrated and can't breathe!.!.!.
You might benefit from anxiety medication!.
I've been on zoloft for about 7 years!. It helps me with my high anxiety and mild depression, and my OCD!.
Medication isn't for everyone, but it might help, even short term!.
best wishes, we all care about you!.!.!.
peace
(by the way, I used to be an EVIL *****, but after therapy I realized the high stress levels I endured at home caused me to feel crazy)
Now, I am peaceful and loving and HAPPY!
you can be there too!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi!. You don't know me, and I don't know you, but even so, I don't want you to die!. Please don't commit suicide!.

Do you have any idea as to what made you feel this way!? Did someone say or do something that made you feel bad!? If your only problem is your family, then I feel your pain!. My family's not so great, either!.!.!.but no one is defined by who they're related to!. Don't let your family get in the way of you leading a happy life!. You said your friends are great--those friends will miss you if you die!. And so will I, even though we're strangers!. T_T

If you wanna talk about things and be friends, feel free to e-mail me!. ^_^ Remember, there are people who care about you--even random people like me from "teh Internets!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go away from this place for a while!. Go to a different city, meet new people, do what you like doing the best and do not care about anybody!. Set up a home for yourself the way you like!. Cut off links with everything old!. When you start feeling better and confident and happy, you can choose whether to meet your old friends and family or not!.

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PLEASE! PLEASE! PLEASE! PLEASE! Talk to someone now!. Tell your parents, a friend, a stranger even!. You might need to get some professional help but don't do anything drastic!. Suicide is the ultimate selfish act!. Think of the intense pain you leave behind!. Take it from someone who has tried and lost other s to suicide!. You have much to live for!. You know what faces you in life, but not after death!. What if you go to Hell!? Maybe you don't believe you will, but what if your wrong!. Do you want to talk the chance!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

a piece of advice!.!.!.

you can't make the decision of suicide twice, unless you survive the attempt!.

Also people often never realize how valuable something is until they don't have it!. But instead of you realizing your decision In your case, it will be the people who you left behind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know it hurts, but FIND SOMEONE TO TALK TO!. Tell someone about these feelings!. You say that you have great family and friends; how will you make them feel if you commit suicide, especially if they didn't know you were hurting!.

Remember: No matter how bad it is, it can ALWAYS get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If it's your family that's feeding the suicide thoughts!.!.!.then you must get away for a while!.!.!.take a vacation until your thoughts simmer down!. If you feel better after that!.!.!.go back and talk to your family about the way you feel!. You should pray too!.!.!.!.we all need too at timesWww@Answer-Health@Com

My dear friend in need!. I just dealt with this with my daughter!. Please call 1-800-suicide!. It is a national helpline and it is FREE!.!.!.Some of us get depressed and are able to bounce back, some of us get depressed and stay in a dark place, feeling alone and hopeless!.!.!.!.MAKE THE CALL!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're lucky you at least have friends!. get lost in a hobby!. so far, writing is the only thing that's keeping me alive!. if you want to talk, you can email me at intimategeek@gmail!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

NO one has the right to make you feel this way!. If I was you I would think hard about getting away from everyone you know for awhile!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well i think that you should go to a therapist sounds like your depressed!?!? Professional help sounds the best way for you to go !Www@Answer-Health@Com

Pray! Pray! Pray! Don't give up hope it will all work out soon enough!. Just don't give up hope!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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