Am I really weird or are there other people with this hang up?!


Question: Am I really weird or are there other people with this hang up!?
I am feeling so free tonight, my husband took the Grankids (we are raising) camping for the night!. I am ACTUALLY walking around my house in just a T-shirt and panties, I have not done this in 15 years since we married!. You see, I have such a poor self image I have to stay covered up from my husband!. It is no secret he prefers the blond Barbie type and I am 35 lbs!. overweight!. I have had a complete hysterectomy so a flap of skin hangs over across the 9 inch scar low on my belly, part of my lung removed so a scar wraps around my ribs from front to back, liver surgery = scar about 6 inches long from my belly button up, and a 4 inch scar horizontaly on the left side from a big addominal biopsy!. My legs are nice from the knee down but their shaped like an ice cream cone with a double scoop of rocky road on top!. My poor husband has to stay away when I dress or get in and out of the shower, sex is in the dark unless I have my 1 x month vodka session!. Are there other's like me or am I strangeWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I have scars too love!. I am only 16!. I have surgery when I was born and have a deep scar across my abs from right to left!.!.!.in about 40 lbs overweight and so it makes me look like i have rolls even standing up and then i had a tube in my stomach for about a month right under my left rib cage and so now it looks like an out of place second belly button

my legs arent the best yes they are a bit chunky but you know what

I have an amazing boyfriend that loves me for me not for my body

you have someone who has dedicated his life to you!.!.!.Be happy!. He loves you for you!.!.!.Let him admire what he married!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know the feeling, my ex's all tried to make me comfortable, and I got a tummy tuck, but now it seems I have lots of other places I would like to fix!. I wouldn't let them see me without clothing either, but you can find something a little revealing to put on, candlelight, and give him some vodka too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

As a bloke I reckon your feelings are very normal!. I think I would feel the same if I felt I looked like I had been on the butchers block a few too many times and had the scares to prove it!.

The old man loves ya otherwise he would object or ridicule you about your funny body consious ways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

naw your not strange,just very unlucky!.thiers someone for everyone in this world,unless your person dies at birth or somethin,but thats besides the point!.poor husband,what about poor you!?i bet hes not a super human speciment either right!?find your niche!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're not strange at all!. Normally I wouldn't think to advise any procedures, but it looks like you are a fulfilled person except for your body image!. A tummy tuck might do wonders for your self-image!. You are not strange!. Not Not Not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are not strange!! I mean tons of people have those things! ANd i mean he is your husband tell him about how you feel! And it is totally fine to be free like that!

P!.S!. Barbie types suck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

in this world, there a lot people have worst appearence than you!. you must thank to god bcause i have people worst than you!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are either strange or a liar!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Awwww!.!.!. you poor thing!. My mother is on this fix kick!. She has had a boob job, her teeth done and bleached, her hair fixed, tanned, and she is planning on getting lypo !.!.!. or tummy tuck!. If being like this bothers you there are ways to change it!. Hers all started with my dad having an affair !.!.!. with her best friend!.!.!. but she lost ALOT of weight and started getting all this stuff done!.!.!.!. she looks nothing like she used to!. Anyways maybe you could hit the gym and tone up some!.!.!.!. lose a few pounds, it would do wonders for your self image and self esteem!. Go get your hair done or message, maybe go shopping ( my mothers favorite thing to do now) !.!.!.!.!. if you dont have the money start saving !.!.!. if its only a few dollars a month it still adds up then go have some fun, it sounds like you need it !! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Strange or a liar sounds about right to me!. How long ago did you have these surgeries that required such horrible scars!? I've seen about every surgery I can think of but I don't think a person can get surgery on their liver!. Biopsy maybe but that requires a quick abrupt tiny bb size hole on the side of your stomach!. The liver is incredibly sensitive to any portion of removal would cause a person to bleed profusely and eventually die!. Abdominal biopsy!? Again, only requires a small incision!. So, either you had horrible doctors perform the surgeries or you're not being entirely honest about this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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