Low self confidence....need help!!!....?!
Question: Low self confidence!.!.!.!.need help!!!!.!.!.!.!?
ok so I have extremly low self confidence!. I am 5 foot 3 and have blue eyes and pretty thin, ummm ears peirced, long/med!. hair thats blonde/brownish, and all my friends say that i am really pretty and shouldn't worry, and this guy well he's not technically my bf we were dating but yeah now we're basically friends w/ benifits, and he still says he loves a ton and all that but anyway he says i am beautiful and like past hot but yet I still have low self confidence!. Does anyone know how I could gain self confidence!?!?!!!! cause I am like pathetic here i don't do anything really without someone i know with me at all times (yes I know that is extremly pathetic that's sorta why I need help) So if anybody has ANY advice I would love to hear from you, cause I am basically killing myself with the low s!.c thing!!! please help!?!!!!! (oh yeah and by the way I am 14 and a freshman in highschool)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi 14,
You may try an exercise!.Before going to bed at night plan 3 things you will perform the next day!. Suppose you planned to buy a book, meet a particular fried and trim your hair!.!.!.!.!. okay!? And do it positively on the next day!. Go on practicing from simple job to harder one depending upon your level of confidence!.
May be it will help you sweet-14!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may try an exercise!.Before going to bed at night plan 3 things you will perform the next day!. Suppose you planned to buy a book, meet a particular fried and trim your hair!.!.!.!.!. okay!? And do it positively on the next day!. Go on practicing from simple job to harder one depending upon your level of confidence!.
May be it will help you sweet-14!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that as young as you are there are alot of temptations and pressure around you and that is how you react to it!. It's not low self esteem, b/c you know you are pretty!. You know you can get a guy of your choice if you really wanted to, and that is the least of your concern!. What you need to to is not let other's opinion matter to you!. Its ok to seek guidance from your buddies but in the end you need to make that decision!. If you learn that much in life, you will ahead of you GF and future BF (s)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why would you have low selfesteem when you have a boyfriend to compliment you!? What about all your friends who call you pretty!? I mean just from telling about your description, it looks like no one is bring you down except yourself!. You should learn to love yourself for who you are!. Everyday, look at the mirror and point out all the good things about you!. Looks aren't everything!. If you pretty and have the ugliest personality, no one is going to like you!. It's also about personality!. I hoped I helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had pretty low self confidence and self esteem too!.!.
one way to increase self confidence is that I try to tell myself im good at stuff!.
Dun always think you're no good!. Listen out for any compliments made by others casually, cos usually all these are those truly from their bottoms of their heart!. yep, thus i always look out for compliments that doesnt really stand out or catch people's attention!.
embrace urself!.
love yourself
tell yourself you're good (:
take care!Www@Answer-Health@Com
one way to increase self confidence is that I try to tell myself im good at stuff!.
Dun always think you're no good!. Listen out for any compliments made by others casually, cos usually all these are those truly from their bottoms of their heart!. yep, thus i always look out for compliments that doesnt really stand out or catch people's attention!.
embrace urself!.
love yourself
tell yourself you're good (:
take care!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its because you don't embrace yourself!!! I'm chubby, have weird curly brown hair, and I'm told I'm pretty! The thing is, you just have to embrace yourself!. Convince yourself that your sexy, and show it! Don't make yourself seem like your full of it, but, idk, try sliming clothes that expose more but not to much!.
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Please help me:
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Self confidence has nothing to do with how you look or how beautiful people think you are!. Self confidence is about what you think of yourself (hence the word self)!. The best way to improve your SC is to do nice things for other people and to improve who you are on the inside!. It is impossible to have good self esteem if we focus only on ourselves and our looks even if you are gorgeous!! You must learn what is awesome about you despite how "hot" you are!. This is really hard at 14 but if you start working on it now you will figure it out!. Ugly people with true self confidence are the most attractive because it is real!.Www@Answer-Health@Com