Being called a freak?!
Question: Being called a freak!?
I'm sick of being called stupid!. I hate being put in the same placing of attention seekers b/c i have scars on my wrists!. I cut not b/c i want attention!. I know it's stupid, but I have my reasons!. People that call me stupid for cutting and vomiting, are calling me stupid because my dad is abusive, I'm addicted to nyquill, i have low self esteem and have a grand total of 3 friends(whom i hardly get along with), because I can't help but see myself as an ugly b*tch, i get in fights with my mom all the time, she calls me a b*tch and that i belong in a hospital, and most of all, they are calling me stupid for not trying when I already hate myself but still try to stop and put my self through extreme pain to not pick up the razor or keep the food in my stomach!. I know other people have it ALOT worse!. And i can only imagine what it's like for them!.
Why do people not even try to understand it isn't easy to get better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why do people not even try to understand it isn't easy to get better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No!. You have it pretty bad!.
You are not stupid!. In order to ask for help you realize you have a problem!. You reached out and admitted you didnt know what to do!. This indicates intelligence but also emotional maturity!. I know many people twice your age that are lacking in this type of maturity!. Congratulations!.
Stop taking Nyquill!. You are not addicted!. I thought I was addicted to coffee, 20 cups a day, and large ones!. I just thought that!. I stopped one day!.
Your parents are not doing their job as parents properly!. They are making the problem worse and if your dad is abusive, he likely is causing the problem!. Not your fault!. You didnt choose your parents!.
Call your Family Doctor tomorrow or go to the nearest Emergency Dept!.of Hospital!. Tell them your problem!. Show them your scars and tell them you cannot keep food in your stomach!.
Then the wheels are set in motion!.
You have it extremely bad and it has been going on for far too long!.
But you have a lot going for you!. Just by writing this email!. You do not realize this yet, because you are too young!.
But your emotional maturity astounds me!. You humble yourself, where teenagers generally do just the opposite!.
What you have is like if I had a bad cold and instead of taking care of it, I went out in the rain, and didnt eat right, and didnt sleep properly and hung out with other sick people!.!.!.well hullo!! Pneumonia!.!.!.!.
Tomorrow - Call Doctor or go to Emerg!.
Today - No Nyquill!.
Eat if you want!. Or dont!.
Vomit it up if you want!. Or not!. Because tomorrow you will be getting help!.
I expect great things from you as an adult, my dear!. You would make a wonderful Counsellor!. You may write books, you may have your own talk show, like Oprah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not stupid!. In order to ask for help you realize you have a problem!. You reached out and admitted you didnt know what to do!. This indicates intelligence but also emotional maturity!. I know many people twice your age that are lacking in this type of maturity!. Congratulations!.
Stop taking Nyquill!. You are not addicted!. I thought I was addicted to coffee, 20 cups a day, and large ones!. I just thought that!. I stopped one day!.
Your parents are not doing their job as parents properly!. They are making the problem worse and if your dad is abusive, he likely is causing the problem!. Not your fault!. You didnt choose your parents!.
Call your Family Doctor tomorrow or go to the nearest Emergency Dept!.of Hospital!. Tell them your problem!. Show them your scars and tell them you cannot keep food in your stomach!.
Then the wheels are set in motion!.
You have it extremely bad and it has been going on for far too long!.
But you have a lot going for you!. Just by writing this email!. You do not realize this yet, because you are too young!.
But your emotional maturity astounds me!. You humble yourself, where teenagers generally do just the opposite!.
What you have is like if I had a bad cold and instead of taking care of it, I went out in the rain, and didnt eat right, and didnt sleep properly and hung out with other sick people!.!.!.well hullo!! Pneumonia!.!.!.!.
Tomorrow - Call Doctor or go to Emerg!.
Today - No Nyquill!.
Eat if you want!. Or dont!.
Vomit it up if you want!. Or not!. Because tomorrow you will be getting help!.
I expect great things from you as an adult, my dear!. You would make a wonderful Counsellor!. You may write books, you may have your own talk show, like Oprah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am sorry that you are being called a freak,and believe me your not,you just want to get the right attention and someone to trust,i myself went thru what you are going thru,and nobody knows what you are going thro because they havent been thro it!.i have scars on my arms and thighs!.it looks horrible but when i got stressed out and had no one to speak to i cut myself to get rid of the pain,you need to see a doctor to refer you as it will only get worse instead of better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some people, especially at your age, are very ignorant!. They're stupid!. I thought I was having a hard time and I'm not going through half of what you are!. You're also a lot better than most of them to realise that people have it even worse!. But that doesn't make your life any easier, I just felt more guilty and hatred towards myself when I thought about those even less fortunate!. Remember you can email me, or talk to a professional therapist if you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, you need to find some self confidence! Maybe try hanging out with a different crowd to get new friends!? I'm sure you are a beautiful, great girl but if you don't believe that then others won't either!. Moms can be hard sometimes but you'll have to just get along with her!. Don't cut yourself and vomit though! That should never be the answer to any problems you are having!. Hope everything works out for you! :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
People are ******* horrible!. Especially in high school, the kids can be merciless and just plain cruel!. They'll say you do it for attention!. I've been through that before!. And just because a lot of people are worse off, that doesn't mean anything at all!. It all depends on you!. The worst thing for you to hear is that other people have bigger problems then you, because that makes you feel like they are belittling your problems!.!.!. I wanna help you out so you can respond to my message if you want!.!.!. I'll talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are a lot of things in this world that you cannot do alone!. If you really want help then go to those in the helping business!. A minister will help you see yourself as a valuable person with abilities to contribute to others and yourself!. Don't just settle for a rotten life!. Make a choice to improve youself and your situation!. Your outward scars are just showing your inward one's!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You arent a freak for having a problem that thousands upon thousands of people have!.
Please dont let those idiots run your life!. It is so mean when people attack you for things you cant control!.!.!.trust me ive dealt with it all!.!.!.
Please talk to somebody about this, or go to the ER, just do something to help yourself!.
I know how bad this feels!.!.!.please email me if you need to!. Im here for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please dont let those idiots run your life!. It is so mean when people attack you for things you cant control!.!.!.trust me ive dealt with it all!.!.!.
Please talk to somebody about this, or go to the ER, just do something to help yourself!.
I know how bad this feels!.!.!.please email me if you need to!. Im here for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'd go see a doctor if you can and it sounds like you can because it sounds like your mother would help you!.
If not try calling a suicide hotline you can google!.com it they have hotlines!.!.
Even if you just want to talk !.!.or try 211 even they have places like food and shelter ask for both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If not try calling a suicide hotline you can google!.com it they have hotlines!.!.
Even if you just want to talk !.!.or try 211 even they have places like food and shelter ask for both!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow!.!.!.
i'd say!.!.!. you need help asap!. talk to a doctor or go to the mental health unit at a local hospital!.
try getting away from your parents!. do you have a relative you could stay with for a while!? maybe in another town!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'd say!.!.!. you need help asap!. talk to a doctor or go to the mental health unit at a local hospital!.
try getting away from your parents!. do you have a relative you could stay with for a while!? maybe in another town!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
check yourself into a hospital you need helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
hi, I'm a mental health counselor and you could help yourself by trying to work on one thing at a time!. It's hard to hear people call you names all the time, and it does affect your self-esteem, but try to change something YOU want to change about yourself!. Start with something small, then work up from there!. When you start having positive things happen, it will help your self-esteem!. About the cutting, I know that cutters cut to relieve tension, etc, and most are not actually trying to hurt themselves!. Consider this though, what if you cut yourself too deep by mistake!? It could cost you your life!. I don't know how old you are, but most towns have mental health clinics that you can go to for help and most of the time it is free!. Try to take care of yourself and tell yourself everyday that you are ok!. Believe it or not, you may start to believe it and that is the start of you feeling more positive!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It would very hard for the majority of people
to understand what your feeling - Whilst I
sympathise, I myself do not understand
self inflicted pity and pain!.
You have to remember that YOU ARE in
control of your life - and that the choices
you make, are not always going to be the
right ones!. It's how you deal with them
that's problematic !!!!!!!!!!!!
You are making it easy for others to look
down on you!. You are negative about
yourself, therefore it's impossible for
anyone else to make you feel good and,
with respect, initially it's not their job!.
In your own words you know cutting and
vomiting is stupid - yet you still CHOOSE to
do it, and regretfully, making your Mothers
comment with reference to hospital, a
viable one to say the least !?!?
People will only ever want to help you -
if you want to help yourself -
Maybe you could start by having a quite
word with yourself - start to be a bit more
positive and shake off the negativity you
carry with you about everything in your life!.
Find a way to be respected rather than
pitted - there are more ways than one to
achieve the attention that actually, you
are seeking!.
You cannot blame all your choices on your
father - abusive or otherwise!. You are
almost a grown-up now!.
People are not and will not be attracted to
self harmer's or those who choose to walk
beneath black clouds!. ~ XxX ~Www@Answer-Health@Com
to understand what your feeling - Whilst I
sympathise, I myself do not understand
self inflicted pity and pain!.
You have to remember that YOU ARE in
control of your life - and that the choices
you make, are not always going to be the
right ones!. It's how you deal with them
that's problematic !!!!!!!!!!!!
You are making it easy for others to look
down on you!. You are negative about
yourself, therefore it's impossible for
anyone else to make you feel good and,
with respect, initially it's not their job!.
In your own words you know cutting and
vomiting is stupid - yet you still CHOOSE to
do it, and regretfully, making your Mothers
comment with reference to hospital, a
viable one to say the least !?!?
People will only ever want to help you -
if you want to help yourself -
Maybe you could start by having a quite
word with yourself - start to be a bit more
positive and shake off the negativity you
carry with you about everything in your life!.
Find a way to be respected rather than
pitted - there are more ways than one to
achieve the attention that actually, you
are seeking!.
You cannot blame all your choices on your
father - abusive or otherwise!. You are
almost a grown-up now!.
People are not and will not be attracted to
self harmer's or those who choose to walk
beneath black clouds!. ~ XxX ~Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand how you feel, not that I do it, but because I've been close to it and know the feeling that you have--like you can't escape!. But tell the to **** off and get a life because they obvissouly dont' have one if they have to make them selves feel better by putting other people down!.
*I just answered your other question about how to cover up all the cuts by the way!. And if it helps, you are really pretty, and i wish I had your hair!. Lucky!
but any-who, I hope it helps :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
*I just answered your other question about how to cover up all the cuts by the way!. And if it helps, you are really pretty, and i wish I had your hair!. Lucky!
but any-who, I hope it helps :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
living in abusive homes isn't easy for anyone and for someone who doesn't understand will say such things,cause they do not know what it is like,so in them saying you are stupid is just showing you how ignorant they are!.People self harm for a number of reasons,a few of them are they are trying to release the pain,which is inside them,sometimes they do it as they learned from those who might of done it themselves,so they thought it was how you can express feelings,a way of saying,hey,i am hurting,i am in pain can someone help me,but a lot of people do not get it as they never experienced this type of pain!.You probably have a low self esteem,cause the parents keep putting you down all of the time,but do not believe them as those who abuse and say these bad things only lie in order to manipulate you and have that control over you!.I hope things get better and know you are not alone,as i too struggle with some of the same issues!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I just answered your other question, on cutting!. I see now some of the reasons you do it!.!.!.!.mostly because you are not in control of anything in your life, except the cutting!. I am so sad for you, precious girl!.!.!.!.
You are very beautiful, not ugly, as you think you are!. You have SO much to live for! Can you please read your answers to your other question!. I think that's a good place to start, especially the helpline number!. Please call them! You are NOT alone with your many problems!. There are people on the other end of that line who will not condemn you for what you do, but can help you through this sad, unhappy time!. Tell yourself every morning, "I can make it one more day!." I have been in dark places before, and it has even been so dark that I had to tell myself, "I can make it one more HOUR!.!.!.!." You can do this, too!.
May God guide you to the places you can get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are very beautiful, not ugly, as you think you are!. You have SO much to live for! Can you please read your answers to your other question!. I think that's a good place to start, especially the helpline number!. Please call them! You are NOT alone with your many problems!. There are people on the other end of that line who will not condemn you for what you do, but can help you through this sad, unhappy time!. Tell yourself every morning, "I can make it one more day!." I have been in dark places before, and it has even been so dark that I had to tell myself, "I can make it one more HOUR!.!.!.!." You can do this, too!.
May God guide you to the places you can get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is not easy getting better, you are absolutely correct!. You need to be in therapy though!. Get professional help for your issues!. It is up to you to make the decisions for yourself!. Nobody else can!. If you want to get better then you will with the help and support !.
So you are a cutter, and you could possibly have an eating disorder!. Those things are ways for you to cope!. People do all sorts of things to cope!. Some drink, do drugs , eat too much, eat too little, the list is endless!.
You know what you do to yourself, so get into counseling and work out your problems!. That is the only way you are going to be able to come to terms with your behavior!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So you are a cutter, and you could possibly have an eating disorder!. Those things are ways for you to cope!. People do all sorts of things to cope!. Some drink, do drugs , eat too much, eat too little, the list is endless!.
You know what you do to yourself, so get into counseling and work out your problems!. That is the only way you are going to be able to come to terms with your behavior!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try not to confront your dad but keep the relationship smooth if your mom thinks your a b*tch hinestly thats her opinion what matters is what you kno you are if your not then dont pay no mind at your age your goin to have a lot problems comin your way i mean try to get help, dont let little things bother you just ignore the comments and be you just dont take the wrong path and stay in skool thats the only thing your goin to be able to fall on, get your education straight have nothin but that in your m mind and you'll be ok!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ppl r very judgemental!. ur actually a pretty girl frm wht i c! im sure ud luk alot btr if u cleaned up or had a highr self esteem!. frm wht ive read!.!.!.u have alot of problems at home tht u need 2 figure out!. if ur father is abusive!.!.!.sum thing shuld b done bout tht and im sure tht u culd tlk 2 ur mom bout how u feel!. try not 2 express urself through the clothes u wear or how u make urself luk!.!.!.it usually makes things hardr b!.c of the othr teens! tlkn 2 a consoler or sum tht u trust! this may sound cheesey but even sum thing like a journal wuld help! and the whole cutting thing is jst so uncalled 4! w/e u decide 2 do!.!.!.gud luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com