Dont call me a pussy, or emo. need help w/ this.?!
Question: Dont call me a pussy, or emo!. need help w/ this!.!?
Okay, it all started around xmas in gr!.6 (3yrs ago!.) My parents split!. They werent really a huge loving family either!. with 4 kids i think it would be hard!. My parents pretty much stopped loving eachother!. last time i saw them kiss was when i was in gr 2 or sumthin!. stay together for the kids eh!? not really showing love around the house made me feel sad, i guess!. but, my mom cheated on my dad, and my dad caught them in their bed!. it wasnt the first time, it was goin on for a while, apparently!. well my dad caught them, he kicked my mom out!. my mom was a stay at home wife, lotsa time on her hands!. my dad kicked my mom out, and was wasted 24/7!. Xmas with a drunk eh!? No mom either!. We havent heard from her until Jan!.ish!. She filed a divorce, and she won almost everything!. She didnt pay for it either!. She took custody, on the fact my dad was an alkie!. He now lives in a Sh|t appartment downtown!. well, my mom still lives with the guy she cheated with!. His names Mike!. Hes a big guy!. Continued=Www@Answer-Health@Com
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hey, i kinda know how you feel!. my parents arent split up but the hate eachother and scream at one another everyday!. they honestly wake me up every morning because they're fighting!.
they want to stay together "for the kids" but it's really NOT helping us at all!. if you're feeling depressed you have plenty of good reasons too but you need to rise above all of this pain that people are enflicting on you!. you're dad was an alchoholic and now you're starting to drink and smoke pot!.!.!.do you want to end up like him!? do you want to have the same life as he does!? i dont think you do!. this might sound ridiculous or something but great minds and great people come out of horrible situations and you can be living proof!. try to get a counselor, if you dont feel like telling your mom see if you can talk to one at school!. if you think that this guy is hitting your brother you might need to get the police involved!. you will probably need proof (like bruises) because in real life cops don't pay that much attention to kids and bad situations can be left behind and not delt with!. take action!. lead a better life!. you're capable of being happy without drugs or alchohol!.
i really hope everything works out for you!.
please don't kill yourself!.
aim above that
you don't really want to die!. you just want the problems to be gone!.!.!.so work your best on getting rid of the problems!.!.!.not your own life!.
a crisis line you can call anytime, for any reason-
1-800-448-3000Www@Answer-Health@Com
they want to stay together "for the kids" but it's really NOT helping us at all!. if you're feeling depressed you have plenty of good reasons too but you need to rise above all of this pain that people are enflicting on you!. you're dad was an alchoholic and now you're starting to drink and smoke pot!.!.!.do you want to end up like him!? do you want to have the same life as he does!? i dont think you do!. this might sound ridiculous or something but great minds and great people come out of horrible situations and you can be living proof!. try to get a counselor, if you dont feel like telling your mom see if you can talk to one at school!. if you think that this guy is hitting your brother you might need to get the police involved!. you will probably need proof (like bruises) because in real life cops don't pay that much attention to kids and bad situations can be left behind and not delt with!. take action!. lead a better life!. you're capable of being happy without drugs or alchohol!.
i really hope everything works out for you!.
please don't kill yourself!.
aim above that
you don't really want to die!. you just want the problems to be gone!.!.!.so work your best on getting rid of the problems!.!.!.not your own life!.
a crisis line you can call anytime, for any reason-
1-800-448-3000Www@Answer-Health@Com
i am in a similar situation as you!.!.
is there another family member you could talk to!?
or even the doctor!?
they could talk to you about therapists!.!.
but honestly no one on yahoo answers is gonna give you the answer you need!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
is there another family member you could talk to!?
or even the doctor!?
they could talk to you about therapists!.!.
but honestly no one on yahoo answers is gonna give you the answer you need!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i agree wiv amber
thats sum prettty confusing stuff to deal wiv
hope you sort it out xxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
thats sum prettty confusing stuff to deal wiv
hope you sort it out xxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well 1st of all Sweetie you have to know that none of this was your fault I hope you know that!. 2nd you need to go to a mental health professional they can help you more then anyone they are trained Dr's that specialize in the problems your talking about!. Every place has a mental health hot live a crisis line!.!.!. call that and talk to one of the Dr's they can help you learn how to cope!. Obviously you need to stop the drinking and pot!. Pot is a downer can make you even more depressed and drinking isn't the answer either!. I am asking you from my heart give up the drugs and drinking and call the crisis line!. That is the best advice I can give you I am no Dr but if you need someone to talk to email me I will be your friend!. Good Luck My friend!. hugsssssssWww@Answer-Health@Com
i get the same way just thinking about how horrible my life is and ive tried suicide 2 and been in a mental hospital 2 to its not the best way out find some one you can truly tak to openly no holds bar or start a journal it rely helped meWww@Answer-Health@Com
I didn't catch your age, but I am wondering if you have any other loving relatives or friends that could help you out!? You can also try to talk to your school counselor!.!.!.!.the best way to start healing is to realize you didn't ask for any of the abuse you have endured!. Talk to an adult you trust and let them give you direction!.
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I think you should try to talk your mom into getting you a therapist someone who could help you with all this, cause no one on yahooanswers is gonna be able to give you the full help you need!. I hope it works, cause therapists have to care and they understand about all this stuff!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop drinking and doin drugs! trust me it makes things 100x worse! but go off them slowly so it wont be too hard!. protect your family, from this "mike"!. does your mom still act like your mom!? if shes still nice and caring then talk to her and tell her how you feel about mike!. but keep yourself busy!. lots of chores, cleaning, studying!. keep your house still a home for your family!. you dont want your sibilings to live their rest of their life all screwed up!. stay out of trouble! trust me, just dont be bad, do well in school, go to college!. try not to talk too much to mike, or get in arguments with him either, that will create more problems for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi Ben,
That's rough!. In spite of all that's happening, your being brave and holding up!. It's going to be hard with the type of personality your mom's boyfriend has, but, you can do it if you have endured this far!. So, your about 15 or 16!?--How are your grade when your in school!? How are your brother and sister holding up!?
First, find someone to talk to---call your local Social Services agency or Lutheran Social Services to see if they have counseling available for you to take advantage of!. This is win-able situation Ben; you and your siblings can beat this situation and come out on top!. Actually, if I'm allowed to mention this---If you can find a Lutheran Church Missouri-Synod church, talk to the Minister there, I know they can help or point you in the right direction!. You see, what you need is something in your area thats REAL, right now and this is the best advice I can give you!. As for Mike, he's a dime-a-dozen and I wouldn't doubt it if he is out of your life soon!. If not, just stay out of his way!. Determine within yourself that YOU and your brother and sister are going to win this battle and by "winning" I mean your going to graduate high school and come out of this BETTER than you are currently!. You can do this; it will be hard at times, but you can do it!. One last thing, God listens to you!. One thing about the fallen creation is that people do stupid things and cause pain in others lives-having said that, I want to say that people make their own choices!. Whatever happened to your mom and dad had NOTHING to do with you or your sibling; this was between the two of them only!. Now, talk to God, let Him know what your hurting about!.!.!.let Him know that you ARE hurting!. Ask Him to protect you and make a way available for some help and it will happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's rough!. In spite of all that's happening, your being brave and holding up!. It's going to be hard with the type of personality your mom's boyfriend has, but, you can do it if you have endured this far!. So, your about 15 or 16!?--How are your grade when your in school!? How are your brother and sister holding up!?
First, find someone to talk to---call your local Social Services agency or Lutheran Social Services to see if they have counseling available for you to take advantage of!. This is win-able situation Ben; you and your siblings can beat this situation and come out on top!. Actually, if I'm allowed to mention this---If you can find a Lutheran Church Missouri-Synod church, talk to the Minister there, I know they can help or point you in the right direction!. You see, what you need is something in your area thats REAL, right now and this is the best advice I can give you!. As for Mike, he's a dime-a-dozen and I wouldn't doubt it if he is out of your life soon!. If not, just stay out of his way!. Determine within yourself that YOU and your brother and sister are going to win this battle and by "winning" I mean your going to graduate high school and come out of this BETTER than you are currently!. You can do this; it will be hard at times, but you can do it!. One last thing, God listens to you!. One thing about the fallen creation is that people do stupid things and cause pain in others lives-having said that, I want to say that people make their own choices!. Whatever happened to your mom and dad had NOTHING to do with you or your sibling; this was between the two of them only!. Now, talk to God, let Him know what your hurting about!.!.!.let Him know that you ARE hurting!. Ask Him to protect you and make a way available for some help and it will happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com