I cant stop worrying=[?!
Question: I cant stop worrying=[!?
okay this is weird!.!.but!.!.!.
me and my boyfriend went about a week without talking!. [long story] but he finally came back to town today, and stopped at my house with flowers which was SOOO cute!. but at the wrongest time!.!.!.
i was on a float thingy in the pool gettin a tan and im REALLY self concious about my weight [which i was in a baithing suit], and what i look like without my hair and make up fixed!. which i had soaking wet hair and no make up!.
i got out and ran inside real fast and put on jeans and a shirt which then i felt okay!.
so i went out and hugged him for a while and got to talk to him for like 5 minutes!. i was like "ohh my god i look so bad!. i cant believe you seen me" but he said its okay i didnt look bad!. and stuff!.
so YES I KNOW HE SAID that and yes i know youre gonna say if he really loves you he dont care!.
which i know!. but i just cant stop worrying because i just looked sooo bad=[
how do i just stop worrying and be happy about it!?
not haters pleasee!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
me and my boyfriend went about a week without talking!. [long story] but he finally came back to town today, and stopped at my house with flowers which was SOOO cute!. but at the wrongest time!.!.!.
i was on a float thingy in the pool gettin a tan and im REALLY self concious about my weight [which i was in a baithing suit], and what i look like without my hair and make up fixed!. which i had soaking wet hair and no make up!.
i got out and ran inside real fast and put on jeans and a shirt which then i felt okay!.
so i went out and hugged him for a while and got to talk to him for like 5 minutes!. i was like "ohh my god i look so bad!. i cant believe you seen me" but he said its okay i didnt look bad!. and stuff!.
so YES I KNOW HE SAID that and yes i know youre gonna say if he really loves you he dont care!.
which i know!. but i just cant stop worrying because i just looked sooo bad=[
how do i just stop worrying and be happy about it!?
not haters pleasee!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If it were him in the pool with the bathing suit on and a surprise visit, would you be grossed out!?
Remember that love is blind to things like that!. Relax!!! You can't always be at your best!.
Guys don't seem to really care about stuff like that!. They are so much more caveman than that!. He was probably ejoying the view!.!.!.of you!!! ;o)
As long as you clean up nice!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
I think that it probably mattered more to you, than to him!.
Don't beat yourself up over it!.!.!.!.You got flowers!!!!.!.!.!.
Enjoy the moment!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Remember that love is blind to things like that!. Relax!!! You can't always be at your best!.
Guys don't seem to really care about stuff like that!. They are so much more caveman than that!. He was probably ejoying the view!.!.!.of you!!! ;o)
As long as you clean up nice!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
I think that it probably mattered more to you, than to him!.
Don't beat yourself up over it!.!.!.!.You got flowers!!!!.!.!.!.
Enjoy the moment!Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't focus on what you THINK is negative, just focus on the positive!. your prob not bad looking at all its just everything around you that makes you feel bad about the way you look!. who cares truthfully, and ya he obviously doesn't care bc hes with you, he wouldn't be if he didn'tWww@Answer-Health@Com
Worrying is a bad habit, you need to overcome it like any other bad habit!. Try to modify the factors under your control, that is the only thing you can do!. From http://mshn!.org/worry!.htmlWww@Answer-Health@Com
im a boy with good advice!.
tell him thank you for the flowers!. and appologize to him if you made him feel upset!. start talking again!. and forget it!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell him thank you for the flowers!. and appologize to him if you made him feel upset!. start talking again!. and forget it!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are being way to "girly" about this, the guy knows what you look like, you aren't shocking him when your in a bathing suit!. relax, he likes you just the way you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he's not as shallow and self- absorbed as you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you judge yourself really harshly, and you are afraid that other people judge you the same way!. It's very unlikely that they do, because one is much harder on oneself than other people are!. The only suggestion I have is that you ask him to always tell you the truth, and NEVER say a nice thing just to make you feel okay, if the nice thing is untrue!. I know I can trust what my husband says, because if I ask, "how do I look," he will sometimes say, "Those pants make you look fatter!." I don't like it, but at least I know that when he says positive things they are true!.
You need to get some practice in this because no guy likles to be doubted when he says "I love you" or "you look nice!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to get some practice in this because no guy likles to be doubted when he says "I love you" or "you look nice!."Www@Answer-Health@Com