I think im suicidal?!


Question: I think im suicidal!?
i have a cycle that i go into, sometimes i love life and im happy and having fun!. other times im extremely depressed and i cant even get out of bed!. my mother passed away last year from cancer and i basically watched her die before my eyes!. i keep replaying those memories over and over in my head and i can never get over it!. i never got time to heal, because everything keeps piling up and people keep smothering me!. ive tried finding people to relate to me and i did, howveer she has moved and now has a boyfriend and we barely talk!. my "bestfriend" recently decided that her boyfriend is more imporant then anyone else in the world!. so ive jus decided that i dont care about epople aynmore because they dont seem to care about me!. ive thought about suicide manyy manyy times, but i dont kno if i should just go through with itWww@Answer-Health@Com


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i think it would hurt your mom terribly to know that her death made you kill yourself!. she brought you into the would and if you killed yourself everything she had hoped for you would be gone, it would be like saying you were not grateful for the sacrifices she made for you!. she would want you to live the life she didn't get to!. she would want you to grow up and get married and have kids and grandkids and watch them grow and to teach them all about there grandma and great grandma!. You need to live to keep your moms memories alive!. don't make her life be in vain!. Get some help please!.!.!.you deserve it!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Grief can be difficult; I had a boyfriend who went through exactly the same thing, his mom died of cancer, I was there with him when she died!. Afterward, he became self destructive and withdrew from everyone who loved him, including me!. He left me, and there was nothing I could do to help him because he wouldn't talk, and refused any offer of counseling!. Grief counseling can help; my dad went when my grandpa died, and he said it helped a lot!. It's one thing to talk to a friend, but another to talk to someone who understands the process and has the experience to help them help you through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please schedule a visit with a psychologist!. u are too good to kill urself!. think of all u have become and all u have yet to succeed in!. think of what ur mother would think of u to throw away the beautiful life she has given u!. think of ur mother and all of the wonderful people who have passed away with cancer and disease leaving their children who never ever wanted to die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg you should absolutely not go through with it!

there are people that care about you (even if you don't realize it) and if you're thinking of suicide you definitely need to find someone you can talk to to try and figure out what's going on and get some help so you can be happy :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

u kno i had da same thing but everytime this happens i tell myself that it is part of growing up into a strong human, and life is like a great big book that contains the good and the bad moments mix altogether, and we need to go through hard times so we can get some experience and learn and to help others, just pray to god every night to make it better or read the bible if ur christian!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

first of all suicide is not the answer!.!. like you my mom passed away from cancer!.!.i was 13 at the time and now im 22 believe me the pain of seen you mother pass away never goes away!. but there are other solution!.!.the best advise i could give you is to see a counselor!.!.when you go into this depressed mode just think that your mom would have never wanted you to go through this!.!.and she is with you!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't do it!. I've considered the same thing many times myself!. Just find someone to talk to!. We all go through times when we don't think we can make it to another day!. It's all part of life!. Just pick up the phone and find someone who will listen!. It will help trust me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

NO--you should not go through with it!. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. If you are suicidal right now call 911 and get help!. Otherwise make yourself an appt with your doctor!. Life doesn't have to suckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You THINK!? Either you are or you aren't!.

However the way you have described yourself, sounds like something is up, and you need to talk to someone professional!.

Please seek help!.

BTW, next time, pleae ask a QUESTIONWww@Answer-Health@Com

if u think ur suicidal dont think about it cuase u just might become it and try 2 make better friends that actually care about u but make sure u dont kill ur self cuase u will regret it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

As hard as life can be- it gets better!. Just keep living and moving forward!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT! I would schedule an appointment with a therapist! It will help!.!.!.dont throw your life away!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no I am not suicidalWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just try to tell everyone in your life to give you some space so you can work through your grief!. Also, get some therapy to talk about it!. Maybe go on anti depressants for awhile, see if they help you feel better!.
Even see if you can maybe get away for a weekend, write some things down in a journal and have some time to yourself!.
There is people that care in the world, it's just a matter of finding them!. Sometimes it takes awhile!. And maybe you should talk to your friends about what they are doing, maybe they don't realise!.

Don't commit suicide!. Things will get better, just try to think positive!.
Good luck!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

nononono!
honestly it's NOT over! keep moving forward because if you feel that bad than it cant get worse! twenty years from now you will probably be loving life and wonder why you even considered suicide!. your best friend may have understood but she doesn't now if she can't give you the time of day!. you don't have to replay those memories, it's not your fault and theirs nothing you could do!. your mom probably wanted you to enjoy life, don't die in vain, there is so much potential in your life! there are so many adventures, future friends and loves, in your future, don't let it slip away!. there is so much you could do, you could help people and change the world!. please don't!. people care!. everyone around you care!. i care!.
i don't want you to waste your life ; it's such an amazing thing so don't throw it away!
don't do it
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It's not worth it! You would be surprised, I'm sure, at how many people do care about you!. And I'll tell you what, I don't know much about you or your friends, but I can tell you that your friend isn't ignoring you or anything of the sort!. She is probably just in the newness of the relationship!. Really, go talk to her!. Don't try to talk to her on the phone, go see her when you know she will be somewhere!. Tell her exactly what you have said on here!. That would help you a lot, I think!.

Also, I do agree with most that you probably should seek counseling!. There is nothing wrong with you in the least!. Nothing is worth your life!. You can't go back once it's done, and you have plenty of happier times ahead of you!.

If you feel odd about talking to a therapist, next time you feel this way, call this number before you act on anything:

1-800-273-TALK

It may make you feel a hell of a lot better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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