I feel like my weight is holding me back from being outgoing, how do I get over !


Question: I feel like my weight is holding me back from being outgoing, how do I get over it!?
Im self concious about my weight!.!.!.!.as Im overweight (5"5!.!. 220 pounds)!. I feel like sometimes I cant develop close relationships with people because im scared they will judge me!. I know this is stupid and I shouldnt care what people think!. I look at other big people and they have so many friends and are really cool people!.!.I want to be like them!.!.but im afraid to be outgoing!. How can i get over this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Try to overcome your fear!. Have the courage to join a group that interests you!. Bird watching, writing groups, art groups, something you like to do, just find others who enjoy the same things!. Get involved, talk/share with others and I believe you will find others who are interested in you!. Sometimes, you need to get outside of yourself to see yourself for who you are, inside!. Every journey begins with one small step!. Don't be afraid to begin!. FEAR= False Evidence Appearing Real!. Don't judge others!.!.!.they might just like you and if they don't, not everyone will, that's OK!. Remember:
1/4 of all the people will not like you for all the wrong reasons,
1/4 of all the people will not like you for all the right reasons,
1/4 of all the people will like you for all the wrong reasons and
1/4 of all the people will like you for all the right reasons!.
That means, that "1" person out of 4, is who you look to find for all the right reasons!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you have just got to relize that you only have one life, and you shouldnt just let something like that hold you back from things that you want to do!. i have a severe acne problem, and i used to feel the same way you did, but i saw counseling and just relized that i cant be wasting my life, just because i have some acne!. i hope this helps!. it wont be easy, but you will feel a lot better with yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Actually Nae Rae!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.just read your question out loud to yourself!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the answer is right there!. If that's what you feel, then guess what you want to do when you feel!.!?!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.ya!.!.eat!. How we going to fix this!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Lots of ice water!.!.!.!.!.no sugar!.!.!.The two most important things are love and balance!.!.!.!.You got to like yourself before you can like others!.!.!.!.balance in all area's of your life!.!.!.!.!.!.easy to say young lady!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.not so easy to do !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but you can do it "one day at a time"!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you need to make your own constitution!.!.!.!.and stick to it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. All the best to you!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.writting is great!.!.!.!.!.!.sit down and take some notes!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.what do I want to do!.!.!.!.how can I!? What's the best way!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.not the easy , lazy way!. Take care of yourself!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.your honest!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.that's a start!. byeWww@Answer-Health@Com

hey darling-look i reckon ur self esteem issue isn't just an issue for overweight people!. i don't have perfect teeth yet i smile and laugh and if it makes me feel great and i'm happy, that's all that matters!. u should try it!. just move on from your self esteem issue and highlight your best features!.
i know this advise may not b 2 helpful, but its what helped me!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Being outgoing is overrated!.

Outgoing people can be very annoying -- especially if they're TRYING to be outgoing!.

Just be yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I LOST 60 POUNDS IN JUST OVER 1 YEAR WITHOUT WORKOUT!. DON'T EAT ANYTHING AFTER 7PM AND STOP DRINKING SODA AKA POP!. DRINK MORE WATER ALOT MORE!. CUT BACK ON THE SWEETS AND WALKING WILL HELPWww@Answer-Health@Com

GET SKINNY AND COOLWww@Answer-Health@Com





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