I have this strange feeling of RAGE?!


Question: I have this strange feeling of RAGE!?
I just found out that my ex girlfriend is now with a meth addict!. now I have this uncontrollable felling of rage, and I don't know why, I mean we have been separated for 8 or 9 months, and its not like I still care about her or anything!.!.!. I just didn't think this would happen!. But I have no idea why its effecting me like this, to the point where I want to start slashing at my arms again!.!.!. anyone else ever felt this way!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Anger is a normal feeling for someone who has been in a relationship or friendship with an addict!. However, it is extremely unhealthy to turn this anger onto yourself!.
I think you need to talk to someone about this!. I have been in a similar situation in a relationship (they were an alcoholic)!. Talking to someone who is not judgmental and understanding can help you work out the anger and resentments that arise from these kinds of situations!.
I know it can be hard to reach out and tell others about private issue but it would help!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Anger is always caused by either pain or fear!. I'm guessing it's pain!. If you didn't care about her you wouldn't have thought about this long enough to ask the question!.

It's not strange, it's perfectly normal!. She hurt you!. And it's hard to admit!. It would be for anyone!.

Make a conscious choice not to slash yourself!. Been there, done that!. You will regret it later!. But I understand and I've definitely felt that way!. You'll get through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you still care about her inside of you!. And yes i have felt the same way what i do is when i broke up with my ex i still talk and comunicate with her and make are selfs feel happy just by talking!. Meditation and yoga would help you alot dont worry you will be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You still care!. You also care that she's with someone who is not apt to treat her well!. All that does't reflect on you, but maybe somewhere inside, part of you feels differently!. Dunno!. Try to spend time figuring it out instead of giving into the raging!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey !.!.!.!.!.!.!.I say this with absolute concern and sincerity !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Count Your Blessings, Dude !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.don't look back !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Sorry if that sounds cold !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but I have been there !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
you can't do a FXXX####ing thing about it !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Something in you still cares about her!. Admit it, you're Jealous with a capital J!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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