Help me please. Anyone?!
Question: Help me please!. Anyone!?
I am 17, left school last year, in year 11 and I suffer from OCD pretty badly!.Ok well I started this new job last Monday, and at first I was a little worried but now I just seemed to not be liking it at all!. I already have a job but its at a school which means school holidays and I thought that I didn't really like it there but I am so un sure!. Both places are really nice and have nice people but it just seems to be so hard for me to do anything!. I am not stupid or anything if anything I am really good at things when I put my mind to it!. But where ever I work its like I cant serperate my life at home and my life at work from each other!. My OCD compulsions are now worse becuase of all the stress and stuff from the new job, which makes my life 10 times harder!. And it does not make things better when I have to drive to work every morning, I would be cool with me if it was like 20 minutes tops but its not!. And the people are nice but I dont feel right when I am around them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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This is such a hard place to talk!. You need a friend!. It sounds like you have nobody to talk to!. No girlfriends!? I'll tell you one thing, if your parents expect you to do all this, they are dysfunctional people!. I would move out or go to a shelter!. Believe me, ordinary people don't want their kids to work this hard and if the child was so stressed out like you seem to be, they would be taking you to a better doctor and pushing the docs to find out the real cause!. If I were you, I would go by myself to a different facillity!.!.!. If I were your mom, I be hugging you till you got over this horrible depression!. Sorry!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It looks like you're saying you have two jobs!. Isn't that a lot for a 17 year old!? You're too young to have all that work on your shoulders!. You'd be better off having more recreational activities!. Heck, I'd have OCD if I had all that responsibility!.
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Stress is everywhere these days, and as you point out, this makes things worse!.
OCD can stop you in your tracks if you let it, ruminating, constantly thinking over things and worrying doesn't help!.
The best thing to do is to "change the channel" , accept you are doing the best you can, be the most helpful person at work, and choose action over thinking too much!.
I left school at 15, started work straight away, and felt exactly as you have described, but in time I dovetailed into my job and became likeable and indispensable, everything worthwhile takes time!.
When you feel down say to yourself "if its going to be, it's up to me"!
I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OCD can stop you in your tracks if you let it, ruminating, constantly thinking over things and worrying doesn't help!.
The best thing to do is to "change the channel" , accept you are doing the best you can, be the most helpful person at work, and choose action over thinking too much!.
I left school at 15, started work straight away, and felt exactly as you have described, but in time I dovetailed into my job and became likeable and indispensable, everything worthwhile takes time!.
When you feel down say to yourself "if its going to be, it's up to me"!
I wish you well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with Tiddley!. One thing about teenagers now is that they don't enjoy being teenagers!. You guys have toooooo much responsibility to yourselves and your parents!. Or a least you think you do!. Life is meant to be enjoyed and unless there is a dieing financial need try incorporating something fun in your life or try meditation!. Even if you don't loose a job still try to add something fun to your life, play games, go for a walk, start a collection, hang out with friends or something!. Enjoy your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
suicide!? try it, i did once!Www@Answer-Health@Com