I feel suicidal?!
Question: I feel suicidal!?
I seriously feel like ending my life right now!. I can't cope and really do not want to live anymore!.
I have a husband and a 2 year old daughter!. I cannot control my daughter and my husband doesn't disciplin her enough yet I'm scared of totally loosing it with her as I'm very capable of doing it!.
I've realised I don't love my husband anymore, I feel as though I don't want my daughter either!. I could easily walk away from everything and kill myself so I stop feeling like this!. I feel heavy inside, very emotional and I cry easily!. I can't see a way put!. Please help me xWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have a husband and a 2 year old daughter!. I cannot control my daughter and my husband doesn't disciplin her enough yet I'm scared of totally loosing it with her as I'm very capable of doing it!.
I've realised I don't love my husband anymore, I feel as though I don't want my daughter either!. I could easily walk away from everything and kill myself so I stop feeling like this!. I feel heavy inside, very emotional and I cry easily!. I can't see a way put!. Please help me xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Depression is thinking for you!. If you are this bad off, a trip to the ER in advance of an attempt is the place to go despite the pride you might have to swallow!. Pride is not a reason to die!. Looking in the black hole and seeing no light is the cloak of illness, not life!. It is not real!. It is illusion!. Cut thru it!. Your fears about raising your child again aren't about the real you!. They are about a sick you!. There is help, however, you need to summon the courage to ask for it!. You have reasons, just let the real you peak out enough to fight for it!.
~been thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
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if you had made the decision of getting married and having a child be responsible for it , everything has pros and cons and everything can be sorted out !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.talk to a marriage counsellor find out why you have lost all love for a man you had promised to spend the rest of your life with!?!.!.!.!.!.!.as for your daughter how old is she!?!.!.!.!.!.!.if she is young she can be desciplined , afain talk to a proffesional about this!. as for yourself if today you take this step and succeed you will never be known as a good wife or a good mother(most importantly) and if you fail you have to live with the remorse all your life!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.plz consult a shrink get help you have no right to do this much harm to your child just because she is indisciplined take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
You've got depression coloured glasses on at the moment!. You can't see your life and those in your life as you normally would!.
You need to see a doctor!. You can get better you just have to be willing to make the steps to get help!. See your doctor as soon as possible!. Be completely honest with them about how you feel!.
You will get better and when you do you'll be able to see clearly again, and know what your family mean to you, and coping with your daughter will get easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to see a doctor!. You can get better you just have to be willing to make the steps to get help!. See your doctor as soon as possible!. Be completely honest with them about how you feel!.
You will get better and when you do you'll be able to see clearly again, and know what your family mean to you, and coping with your daughter will get easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly, you need to see a psychiatrist, somebody who can prescribe you something for depression!. There are so many people that feel the same way, so you aren't the only one!. I have 2 children!.!.!.!.17 months apart, my oldest will be 2 1/2 in August and my youngest will be 1 next month!. My oldest does the same to me too!. I cannt control him if my life depended on it!. I feel like going crazy sometimes myself!. Anytime I get too stressed out, I just walk away and give myself time to vent!. You do though need to get on something, and see somebody soon!. A child needs their mother, imagine how sad, and how much she would miss you if something were to happen!. You need to get better for yourself and for her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't kill yourself that won't solve anything!. you need to show your daughter who's boss, talk to your husband about the probalems but most important go to the doctor and talk to them about your suicidal ideas, talk to friends family everyone, you are very important you should not kill yourself think of all the people who love you and need you in their live!. don't do it!. maybe you could talk to a pastor at a church they can help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
being a mother is a hard job and ive been where you are and things are much better for me now so its proof you can get through this!.
Your husband needs to know how you truly feel and needs to start supporting you, please talk to your doctor as you sound like you have depression, please dont go this alone!.
You feel like you re in a dark hole but there is light at the end of it believe me, for you and your daughter be strong - good luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your husband needs to know how you truly feel and needs to start supporting you, please talk to your doctor as you sound like you have depression, please dont go this alone!.
You feel like you re in a dark hole but there is light at the end of it believe me, for you and your daughter be strong - good luck xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Life is about choices and consequences!. If you have talked to your husband about you feel and you still can't reconcile then separation or divorce is the answer!. As far as the child she didn't ask to be here!. You have to strong for the both of you!. Talk to a professional and stop wasting your time expressing yourself to individuals on a chat line!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide is a permanent fix to a temporary problem!. Talk to your husband tonight, let him know your concerns!. Be open with him and don't let any details slide, he needs to know!. Call a doctor as well, they can do some blood work and check for any chemical imbalances or help you find a solution to your problem!. I wish I could be of more help, I've been there!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to talk to someone right away!. I know this is what everyone will say but its true!. I have been where you are!. Right now you feel as if you don't want your daughter but that changes!. There was a time when I didn't think I wanted my son, but that passed!. I love my children more than words can describe!. Please talk to someone even if it is an 800 suicide prevention number!. Take a minute and realize even if you feel like this think of your daughter!. What will she feel!. My nephews father killed himself when he was young and he still has nighmares and is afraid to let those he loves out of his sight!. Don't do anything that will effect your child forever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Divorce your husband and give him full custody of your daughter!. You sound like a very bad mother at the moment!. Then kill yourself if you want, but the divorce and everything will be a way of "tying up lose ends" and plus at just 2 years old I highly doubt your daughter will even remember you by the time she is 10!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are very depressed and you need to get medical help now!. Ive been there and its aweful!. But once you get the medication you need and therapy, you will be enjoying your life and your daughter again!. Your feelings toward your husband can be part of the depression too!. Please don't wait and call your doctor today!. God Bless!. Let me know how you are doing!. I care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well if you sucide what abot ur husband and daughter!?!? this is not the way learn to mix up with them bond with ur daughter and talk to ur husband go out with him for drives and things like that but 1 thing u do never sucide god has given a life live and when ur time comes u will die life only comes 1nce enjoy itWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am sorry that you are feeling suicidal,it aint easy for anyone when they are feeling this way,you need to go and see your g!.p,give you stronger tablets,i myself had to do that and i am married with 3 kids,trust me things can only get better,just keep your chin up,and just think of your daughter please!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should consult your GP and get to the bottom of it!. If you don't mind talking about things you can probably find the cause of it and move on from thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
Would suggest seriously talking to your Doctor about how your feeling and talking to a councillor or a therapist who can help you to deal with your feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are an amazing person for sure!.!.!.turn off your pc and stay with your lil daughter!.!.she needs you and loves you!.We all need a mother!.It's quit normal after a pregnancy!.!.!.but belive in love and feelings!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go and see somebodyWww@Answer-Health@Com
go see a therapist priveatelyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Turn to God he will help!. Pray to him!. He makes me soo happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why don't u take a vacation it may help u to relax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would like to start by saying I am a father of a 2 year old girl also, and I also have a 3 month old son!. I am sorry you feel the way you do, I assume you have been in the situation for a while now!. I personally don't believe anything in life is worth committing suicide over, and I have seen some pretty bad things!. I know children can really test you sometimes, but I kinda just learn not to let it get under my skin!. If my daughter really starts to get on my nerves which she is good at sometimes, I will just put her in her room for a while and walk away, it is probably the best thing you can do if you start to feel anger building up is to just walk away!. Once you feel angry and not just disappointed in what she did, you are not going to react like a parent should, your anger is going to speak for itself, and sometimes that can be really bad!. As for the husband situation try counseling first, then if that doesn't work get a divorce, so you don't have to be around a person that makes you feel this way!. It isn't worth committing suicide for any person, especially when you don't know what your future may entail!. I'm in the Navy and know a lot of people who are on their second marriage and finally really happy!. You can get past this, you just need to talk to someone, if not a therapist then just someone who you can confide in!. Trust me you can do this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE!. If you don't love your husband that is ok!. If you don't want to take care of your daughter any more that is ok as well!. You can get a divorce and leave custody of your daughter to him!. I lost someone special to me because she did not know what to do!. I can't tell you how you are going to feel if you die!. Even I have thought about ending it all!. But I can tell you how your husband and daughter will feel if you don't get some help!. They are going to feel alone, scared, helpless,and wondering if it was their fault!. suicide is not the answer and I am talking about it after three attempts and one very close call!. Some people will tell you to talk to God or a priest, this dissicion is up to you but I will tell you to find the person you can talk to, brother sister, mother, father, friend, and if you don't belive they would be the best do what I did find a complete stranger and talk!. Most people will listen to you if you seemed troubled!. If you need someone to talk to e-mail me popcorn782421@yahoo!.com or j!.castillo27@tca!.edu
I have lost friends and saved one!. suicide is a serious thing to talk about!. I will give you my all but what i learned from my experience is that the choice is yours!. The only thing I can do is be your friend and help you, but belive me when I say, the world is better with you than without and your daughter is better with you than without!. I hope this helps you!. and even if you don't want to talk about it email me I know a couple of jokes to atleast get you to smile!. Much love Juan!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have lost friends and saved one!. suicide is a serious thing to talk about!. I will give you my all but what i learned from my experience is that the choice is yours!. The only thing I can do is be your friend and help you, but belive me when I say, the world is better with you than without and your daughter is better with you than without!. I hope this helps you!. and even if you don't want to talk about it email me I know a couple of jokes to atleast get you to smile!. Much love Juan!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how long have you felt like this!. you need to talk to your ob/gyn!. postpartum depression can happen even after your baby gets older!.
i know it is hard to discipline a 2 year old!. i have a 19 month old son!. his father does not believe in discipline!. i do time outs a lot!. and spank his bottom if he is doing something dangerous!. if you truly don't want to be with your husband and child then you need to tell him!. maybe you need a break!. if he has vacation from work maybe he can watch your daughter while you stay with a family member or friend!.
i hope you talk to someone soon!. if you feel like you are going to loose control with your daughter walk away!. could to 25 backwards and breath!. if you need to call a neighbor to come get your daughter!. do whatever you have to to keep her safe!.
please do not hurt yourself or your daughter!. please talk to someone!. please do it now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i know it is hard to discipline a 2 year old!. i have a 19 month old son!. his father does not believe in discipline!. i do time outs a lot!. and spank his bottom if he is doing something dangerous!. if you truly don't want to be with your husband and child then you need to tell him!. maybe you need a break!. if he has vacation from work maybe he can watch your daughter while you stay with a family member or friend!.
i hope you talk to someone soon!. if you feel like you are going to loose control with your daughter walk away!. could to 25 backwards and breath!. if you need to call a neighbor to come get your daughter!. do whatever you have to to keep her safe!.
please do not hurt yourself or your daughter!. please talk to someone!. please do it now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
firstly, well done for opening up on here!. if you really wanted to kill yourself, you wouldn't have asked for advice, so there is hope because admitting the problems is the first step to recovery!. don't worry!. plenty of people go through a stage like this in there life, where they feel as though suicide is the only way out, but think of all the family and friends who would be so devestated if you died- if you really want to do it, fine, i can't stop you, but just remember that all parents struggle with their children form time to time!. make sure you air out your feelings with your husband, even if you dont sort out any issues, you feel a certain relief, just telling someone!. now, i'm not gonna preach to you about god, but if you want to then let religion guide you out of this, but i think a psychiatrist or a councillor, -anyone who can help you with these feelings and help you decide what you want to do in your life would be great!. i think you aree probably a fantastic mother, and trust me, 2 year olds are always difficult!. i also think you could lead the life that you want, if you look inside yourself and find it in you to be strong and survive, you can pull yourself out of this!. with the help of loves ones, -be it your husband or without your husband- and with the unconditional love of your child, you can survive!. be strong, and please get back to me if you want, and tell me how everything's going!. i care :)
peace out, i hope you manage to sort out your life because you could be so happy it doesn't need to be like this!.
love and hugs
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
peace out, i hope you manage to sort out your life because you could be so happy it doesn't need to be like this!.
love and hugs
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
When people feel suicidal people tend to push everything away from their life so they are alone and free to commit suicide!. I was suicidal for 8 years and alone during this time!. I would try and push everyone away, drink alcohol, and one time I did die for a short time (I took 30 ambien, 40 zolofts, and 10 paxils and drank 1 bottle of vodka)!. I will tell you that in death we don't change in the way we feel!. I learned the hard way that suicide is not a way out of pain!. It can seem like torment some times!. It really feels like hell and endless darkness!. I believe in God now since I saw a spiritual prison when I died!.
The unhappiness won't end with your death!. You must resolve this through time as I had to!. Love your daughter and your husband!. Get professional help if you think this will help!. I had to take many different medications for years to help me get through a day!. I am no longer on medication but you must pray, seek professional help, and heal/fight mentally, physically, and spiritually!. Remember to always be aware of your body, mind, and spirit because when all three of these things are healthy then you won't have these problems any more I promise you this and I don't even know you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The unhappiness won't end with your death!. You must resolve this through time as I had to!. Love your daughter and your husband!. Get professional help if you think this will help!. I had to take many different medications for years to help me get through a day!. I am no longer on medication but you must pray, seek professional help, and heal/fight mentally, physically, and spiritually!. Remember to always be aware of your body, mind, and spirit because when all three of these things are healthy then you won't have these problems any more I promise you this and I don't even know you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You seriously need to seek some support from your GP, for your sake and for your daughters sake!. You do need help and support; does your husband know how depressed you are!? It sounds like you have depression and you're going to need all the support you can get, especially at home!.
How close are you to your family and friends!? Is there anyone at all who you can turn to for help!?
Depression is an illness, not just a 'low mood'!. It can be quite incapacitating; no wonder you're being dragged down further by your family situation at the moment!. How long have you been feeling like this!? I'm not sure if your depression started after your daughter was born!.!.!.post natal depression MAY be a possibility!.
Please seek support from someone you trust first, then make an appointment with your doctor, who may suggest giving you a boost in the right direction with the medication that's right for you and some counselling!.
All the best to you and do take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How close are you to your family and friends!? Is there anyone at all who you can turn to for help!?
Depression is an illness, not just a 'low mood'!. It can be quite incapacitating; no wonder you're being dragged down further by your family situation at the moment!. How long have you been feeling like this!? I'm not sure if your depression started after your daughter was born!.!.!.post natal depression MAY be a possibility!.
Please seek support from someone you trust first, then make an appointment with your doctor, who may suggest giving you a boost in the right direction with the medication that's right for you and some counselling!.
All the best to you and do take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com