Why am I running away from cutting treatment?!
Question: Why am I running away from cutting treatment!?
I'm leaving for treatment on Thursday to Denton, TX!. The place is run by S!.A!.F!.E which has been amazing and treated me wonderful!. Self mutilation is an addiction which i have delt with for 5 years!. I was very ready to go and then all of a sudden I cant go i dont know why i cant!.
I even cut a few times!.!.!.And its not like this place is a state hospital its a 50,000 treatment center thats very nice with a lot of freedom!.
I think i might be afraid of getting better whys that!?!?
Anyone with advice on getting back on track please write!
Again dont take this as attention wanting if you dont have real advice please dont write!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I even cut a few times!.!.!.And its not like this place is a state hospital its a 50,000 treatment center thats very nice with a lot of freedom!.
I think i might be afraid of getting better whys that!?!?
Anyone with advice on getting back on track please write!
Again dont take this as attention wanting if you dont have real advice please dont write!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
For sometimes now, you have been using cutting to deal with stress, so much that it is now a part of your life!.
I know that it is not attention seeking!. I have many clients who do cut themselves!.
you say that you are afraid of getting better!. What it is, is not knowing what will replace the cutting when you no lnger need to do it!?
I know of S!.A!.F!.E!. I have worked with them mainly in Australia (not in the UK)!. They are a well organised and professional organisation, and can offer you good treatment and advice!.
You have already overcome the main hurdle in accessing the treatment, for which you should be proud of, the next step is going there!. Yes, it's hard at first, but I can assure you that once you get there, you will feel at ease!.
You will begin to change your life, and be able to replace the cutting with something else that you will enjoy!.
cutting is like an addictive drug!. you just can't stop it, but need to be weaned off it!. Trust in them!. They are the best team for you to go to!.
I would certainly not recommend any organisation that I was not happy with, so you can rest assured that S!.A!.F!.E!. are well recommended!.
Blessing!.
Take one step at a time, one step, two step, onwards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know that it is not attention seeking!. I have many clients who do cut themselves!.
you say that you are afraid of getting better!. What it is, is not knowing what will replace the cutting when you no lnger need to do it!?
I know of S!.A!.F!.E!. I have worked with them mainly in Australia (not in the UK)!. They are a well organised and professional organisation, and can offer you good treatment and advice!.
You have already overcome the main hurdle in accessing the treatment, for which you should be proud of, the next step is going there!. Yes, it's hard at first, but I can assure you that once you get there, you will feel at ease!.
You will begin to change your life, and be able to replace the cutting with something else that you will enjoy!.
cutting is like an addictive drug!. you just can't stop it, but need to be weaned off it!. Trust in them!. They are the best team for you to go to!.
I would certainly not recommend any organisation that I was not happy with, so you can rest assured that S!.A!.F!.E!. are well recommended!.
Blessing!.
Take one step at a time, one step, two step, onwards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Being older, I am not well informed about the people who cut for a need that perhaps they are not aware!. I have studied gamblers!. I think there are some similarities!. Neither is a chemical addiction!. The best answer I have heard about gambling addiction is that they are seeking "easy money" rather it is about instant love!. My impression is that there is sense on the part of addictive people, I am addict of alcohol, dry, that we are not worthy of love!. Not only romantic love; but love in a general sense!. Good luck in Denton!. I do not take your note as attention getting!. I am responding as an addict who does not have all or many of the answers for you or anyone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Chelsea I think you are afraid you won't have any coping skills to replace the cutting!. Cutting for you is a release, right!? After you cut you feel better!. Maybe you are afraid of losing that control and ability to make yourself feel better!. Just give it a chance--you never know, they may be able to help you find something that makes you feel better without leaving permanent scars on your body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
be positive chelsea, you know its the best treatment option for you, i know its a scary step, but you will be taught other ways to cope with s##t life throws at you, without cutting, and like you say its not a bad place, but somewhere where you can understand why you do what you do and to change the way you do it!.
So be brave little one and take that first step to getting better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So be brave little one and take that first step to getting better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to build up a new list of things to help you cope and release your feelings into something positive !. Something that will give good results, and experiences worth sharing!.
Fear is a problem for us all!. We all feel there's no good that can come out of efforts!. To figure out how to beat this !. Go back to when and where it began!. What things were you doing before it happened!.!? As everything had a trigger, and everything has a release!.
This is a form of mental abuse to the mind!. as well as the flesh!. As you tell yourself you can't defeat this , because you do feel you can!. Instead say positvie things !. Like it can't control you, you can control it!. satan uses things we do and have in our lives to control us!. Tell him to back off of you, Tell yourself you are a winner , not a loser!. So this is something else you will beat!.
Begin this way!. Get some aloe!. The plant istself works best!. but the oils or lotions with aloe oe vitamin E can work good also!. If you have the plant then break a piece of it off!. slice it open then rub it on older scars, or cuts that have just healed!. Do it twice a day!. The sap is sticky but does soak in and dry!.
This sap begin to heal and shrink the scars down in major size changes!. ( I had 2 c-sections and had huge scar, Used aloe, and vitamin E and they are now just a thin line)
As you see the changes tell yourself you're changing for the better!. I told one girl!. To have a pen and paper handy when the urge is there write out how you feel and why you feel that urge then instead of cutting yourself!. cut into an apple to eat or some sort of food instead!. As you've cut something and can use it instead!. or hurting !.
You are a miracle, and a gift to this world!. Don't destroy yourself this way!. Instead recreate yourself in new ways daily!. You'll find how good life can be!.
Just take the first step to begin!. Have someone else go with you, so that you don't back out, As they can keep telling you what you are hoping to succeed at with this step and direction in life!.
I'll be praying for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Fear is a problem for us all!. We all feel there's no good that can come out of efforts!. To figure out how to beat this !. Go back to when and where it began!. What things were you doing before it happened!.!? As everything had a trigger, and everything has a release!.
This is a form of mental abuse to the mind!. as well as the flesh!. As you tell yourself you can't defeat this , because you do feel you can!. Instead say positvie things !. Like it can't control you, you can control it!. satan uses things we do and have in our lives to control us!. Tell him to back off of you, Tell yourself you are a winner , not a loser!. So this is something else you will beat!.
Begin this way!. Get some aloe!. The plant istself works best!. but the oils or lotions with aloe oe vitamin E can work good also!. If you have the plant then break a piece of it off!. slice it open then rub it on older scars, or cuts that have just healed!. Do it twice a day!. The sap is sticky but does soak in and dry!.
This sap begin to heal and shrink the scars down in major size changes!. ( I had 2 c-sections and had huge scar, Used aloe, and vitamin E and they are now just a thin line)
As you see the changes tell yourself you're changing for the better!. I told one girl!. To have a pen and paper handy when the urge is there write out how you feel and why you feel that urge then instead of cutting yourself!. cut into an apple to eat or some sort of food instead!. As you've cut something and can use it instead!. or hurting !.
You are a miracle, and a gift to this world!. Don't destroy yourself this way!. Instead recreate yourself in new ways daily!. You'll find how good life can be!.
Just take the first step to begin!. Have someone else go with you, so that you don't back out, As they can keep telling you what you are hoping to succeed at with this step and direction in life!.
I'll be praying for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com