Why am i afraid to be myself around new people??!


Question: Why am i afraid to be myself around new people!?!?
What can i do to change this!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I think first you need to learn how to like yourself and accept yourself for who you are!. After that, when you meet people, it's easier to be yourself and to say, "to hell with them, their opinion of me doesn't really matter", if you end up not getting along with them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is because you maybe have a slight (depending on how bad it is) inferiority complex thing!.!.!.!.!. I have one too I used to see a therapist about it!.
It's where you dont think your good enough and feel you need to be someone else for them people to like you etc!.

You can change this by telling yourself that you are as good as other people, everyone is equal and be yourself, if people don't like you for who you really are then stuff them, they're not worth fretting over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's common to feel this way!. You may just have a naturally shy personality!. The important thing is just to concentrate on what you like about yourself, and what the people you already know like about you!. Try not to worry too much about it because then you'll be expecting yourself to be nervous and awkward even before you are, which will just make it worse!. Take each new situation as it comes, work on being more confident within yourself!. One day you'll probably notice that you're more comfortable around new people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You want others to like you and you do not like you!.!.!.that is the basics of what is going on!. The problem with basing a friendship on you changing yourself to be like your friend is that sooner or later you resent that "you" are missing in the friendship!.

Talk to a counselor, hopefully it will not take more than some short term therapy about why you have a poor self-esteem and to help you find ways to learn to love yourself again!.

You are a special person, you just need to find you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

probably because you are afraid of what their reactin may be
however, just dive in at the deep end and have a good mingle ,if they lauagh at you or something similar, then they are not really worth knowing!. walk away and tell yourself
you are as good as they are ,but in truth ,you`re probably a whole lot better!. try not to worry i`m sure you`ll find some good friends sooner rather than later
" be yourself, no matter what they say"Www@Answer-Health@Com

the urge to feel accepted has an evolutionary purpose!. it's nothing to be ashamed about!. i wouldn't worry about changing it!. you can't try to be yourself!. if you get nervous and act stupid around new people, and you always do this!. then you are indeed acting like yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont worry ur not alne im the same way!
all you gotta do is just not talk about real personal stuff
because youll end up lying and being a bad freind!.
also STAY CALM!! dont go all wacoWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are afraid to put anyone off or embarass yourself!. Try being more open!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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