I'm going to miss my therapist. She is leaving. Please read and help?!


Question: I'm going to miss my therapist!. She is leaving!. Please read and help!?
I've been seeing my therapist for six months, once a week!. She is going to leave next week and I am really sad about it!. I had my last session yesterday and I asked her if I should go next week since it is the last!. She told me to go but that she doesn't want to force me to go!. I really want to go but I don't want to start crying because she is leaving!. Before I left, I was crying and she said "you dont like goodbyes!?" I said "yea, i guess" and I walked out!. Does she know how much it is affecting me!? What should I do!? I'm going next week but I don't know what to say!.!.!. Please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com


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hun it is hard to find a good therapist!. You should try to still see her!. I know what you mean!. But my therapist that left me, did not really help me find a new one or asks if i wanted to still see her!. But the one i have now is great! But I think you should try to see her still!. Yea i don't do well with good-bye i feel like they are my fault!.

I think you should go to next week appt and talk to her about it and what not see what is going to be better for you right now hun!. Are you in a stable place to change!? I know this is hard hun, but just take baby steps and see what you need to do!. Write on a paper pros and cons with staying with her and not!. ( Like being a con, is she is going to be farther away ) but rate how you are going to do with not seeing her anymore!.

If you need to talk i'm here hun!. I know this is hard, but stay in touch with people and just talk with her and see what you all come up with!. hang in there hun, keep ur chin up and remember one day at a time!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I understand your dilemma!. I had been seeing the same therapist once a week for about ten years, and one day he had a heart attack and died!. I felt so completely lost at first and overwhelmed by everything!. My internist wouldn't prescribe some of the meds the psychiatrist had me on!. But the internist recommended another psychiatrist, and I have been going to him but only for medication visits!. I know this is a hard time for you!. Just make sure you stay in treatment as long as you need to!. Hope you feel better soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You absolutely have to tell her how you feel!. Missing a therapist because the relationship is ending, is not uncommon!. Hopefully your therapist understands this!. What is wrong with crying!? Then she will know how you feel!. Also, you should ask her for a referral to another therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

when one door of happiness close, another enters!. what im trying to say is that, when you have one good thing that dissapear, a greater thing will come along!.

you shouldn't be sad, you can still keep in touch with her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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