What are Signs of Abuser?!


Question: What are Signs of Abuser!?
can you tell me the signs of an abuser, how can you spot him during dating!?

I mean mental, physical, emotional, or spiritual!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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If the person makes a suggestion to you about changing something about your appearance shortly after meeting you that can be a red flag!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi there!.!.!.I'm a therapist who has worked with women who have been in abusive relationships for some time!. Although there are many "red flags" for relationship that may possible imply the person is abusive!.!.!.abusive people are also often very smooth and manipulative!.!.!.!.that is, they are good at hiding their predatory tendancies and can usually "sweet talk" a person after their first few abusive episodes!. Below are just a few typical warning signs, of course they vary for each individual:
-Controlling behavior (i!.e!.- unwarranted jealousy, wanting to know where their partner is at all time, isolating from friends and family, wanting to be the partner's sole object of affection)
-Unfair fighting: using put down, or insulting hurtful language when angry (directed at their partner or anyone else!.!.!.be wary of how this person treats other people in their lives, even at the beginning of the relationship because chances are you are next in line)
-Short temper: someone who is easily irritated by things and quick to become angry is not only a red flag for an abusive relationship, but may also have other dangerous mental health issues!.

Lastly- trust your gut!.!.!.if you don't feel right, it's usually for a good reason!. One major question that people don't often ask themselves is: Why was I attracted to this person in the first place!? Beware of your own insecurities or weaknesses in relationships!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Physical Abuse has to do with control over the person and being stronger!. The signs of that person might be that they get angry easily or they are very possessive of their things!. Emotional Abuse is harder to spot but its when a person gives another person constant negative comments!. Like your such a loser, you suck, no one likes you, ect!. Im not really sure about mental, I think that would be the same thing as emotional just about being smarter, and sorry but Im not sure about spiritual!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The ones I have seen (not dated) have had very controlling personalities!. Everything must be done their way!. They are extremely jealous and once involved, they will force you to separate yourself from all friends and family in order to gain complete control of you!.
They can be overly charming and seemingly well put together, that's just to lure you in!.
They usually have very short fuses and often show small signs of their anger but quickly try to hide it!.
If you have a GUT or intuitive feeling, LISTEN TO IT!!!
No one needs to go through the horror and pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

watch his behavior if he gets mad for talking to a guy freind or if he acts childish cause you dont do everything he wants if he acts like that ditch himquickWww@Answer-Health@Com





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