Where the hell am i going to get my courage?!


Question: Where the hell am i going to get my courage!?
im so sick of letting people put me down!. im so sick of not being able to speak for myself!. i cant stand up for myself to save my butt!. this bugs me each time i think about what crap people say about me!. i know the best way is not to bother but i know the even better way is to confront them and stand up for myself!.

i feel like such a wimp!. how do i speak for myself!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The world isn't always nice and sometimes when you get pushed you have to push back even if it's hard!. Tell yourself the worst possible outcome of standing up isn't that bad, and better than being pushed around!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you have mental issues , you bond to feel like that, but that means you are not responsible for your actions, and that is why you some times you feel that you can not think and neither speak to people, you need constant monitoring and assistance from medical people who try to make you well, you can join occupational therapy and there you well find that you ,will tons of opportunities to talk ,and express your self to people,Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi Neece,
I'm going to take your question literally and tell you where your courage is!.

The seven neck vertebrae form the courage centre!. To "switch courage on" you visualise for about 20 minutes each day that all seven vertebrae are filled with radiant pale pink light!. You will find that this will fill your body and mind with courageous feelings!.

If you want to know more about this, you can download a free handbook I wrote on which parts of the body correspond with what thought groups from http://www!.harmonybook!.com

Blessed be!.

Karma SinghWww@Answer-Health@Com

Heck, my mother always taught me to keep quiet and not stand up for myself but eventually I felt this was causing a lot of problems for me!. So finally I started sticking up for myself, but it doesn't make things better!. I just made some enemies!. I wish my mother taught me how to stick up for myself, but in a good way that doesn't offend people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd like to tell you something about people who put you and others down -- they do not think very much of themselves, so they say mean things to other people to make themselves feel better, if only for a moment!.

So remember this when someone puts you down!.!.!.

You can always tell them "i'm sorry you feel that way", turn and walk away!.

You're not a wimp!.!.!. you're a nice person with feelings!Www@Answer-Health@Com

just open your mouth & make the words come out
say, "I know you have nothing better to do, but, do you mind not talking sh*t about me!? because Im getting really f*cking sick of it!. get a f*cking life, & find something else to talk about b*tch"Www@Answer-Health@Com

Believe in yourself there are many helplines available which will help you, speak to your friend if anyone is physically harassing you call the cops and take help from them if you really want help there are many websites and helplines available like reachout!.org etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

all you can do is just to be stong and learn to be able to smile and be proud of yourself!.!.!. Don't let problems be litttle you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

give them the silent treatment it drives em crazy and don't stand down,stand up for urselfWww@Answer-Health@Com

Self confidence is the 1st step!Www@Answer-Health@Com

come in to my room and ill teach u how to cook like the rock, then that will give u courage baby !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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