Best advice to give someone who is overly emotional?!


Question: Best advice to give someone who is overly emotional!?
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My own mother is very emotional!. I try to remind her not to worry so much and remind her to just breathe when she gets really riled up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Overly emotional people tend to be a bit selfish in my experience!. That is probably because overly emotional people have a low self-esteem problem!. They will have to work on building their self-esteem up!.

They also have a tendency to take everything upon themselves!. Let them know that not everything that happens is their fault or their doing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nothing!. Whatever you say, if they're in a bad mood or depressed or angry or whatever, they will react!. And it's not going to help anyone!. Just be there for them, listen to them, support them and get to know them!. If you really get to know them and they eventually come to trust you and ASK for your advice, you'll know better how to react!. What to say, what not to say!.!.!. it differes from person to person, and you'll have to really know them (and they'll have to trust you) before you say a word!.

If this is already the case, wait until they're doing well before you say anything!. Telling them they're overreacting or over emotional when they're already feeling terrible isn't going to help!. Wait until they're calm and you can bring it up casually!.!.!. "you know, sometimes you react really strongly when someone!.!.!. (fill in)" or, "I'm kinda worried about you!.!.!. sometimes you!.!.!. (fill in) and I worry that I'll say the wrong thing"!. Or something like that!. If they change the subject, let them!. Bring it up later!.!.!. if it fits the mood and they won't attack you for trying again!.

Good luck! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

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it depends what kind of advice do you want to give but if he/she is overly emotional ; you must be very careful about the words you will tell , Because while you were thinking to help him/her , you may break her/his heart unknowingly and then he/she might misunderstood you therefore if l were you , l would speak to him/her is a place where there is nobody to disturb or interrupt your conversation and also l wouldn't speak to him/her directly as not to make him think that l blame or saying he/she is very very wrong about subject but it seems that someone is wrong about a thing and you want to make him/her correct !.!.!.
Before you start for your conversation ; trying to make him/her feel relax and comfortable are the best way and try make him/her to believe how much he/her is very important and spacial for you ( if she/he is ) and because of this ; will think that you really want to help then definetely is going to understand what you mean!.!.
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to think about why their like they are!.!. family stuff, stuf that happend in the past!? tell them to see a shrink or councellorWww@Answer-Health@Com

get a gripWww@Answer-Health@Com

relax!. life is way more enjoyable that wayWww@Answer-Health@Com





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