What's wrong with me? Is there a cure for this?!
Question: What's wrong with me!? Is there a cure for this!?
I get excessively nervous during social interactions/gatherings!. The thought of just having to talk to somebody that I am not extremely close to makes me dread having to!. When I have to talk to people, my mind goes blank and I can't seem to think of what to say; all that fills my mind is finding a way to escape or get myself out of the situation!. It gives me so much stress and every failed conversation/interaction makes me so depressed!.!.!. I berate myself and criticize myself excessively (my friends tell me) and believe every one that I meet does so too in their minds!.
often times I want to resort to suicide just to avoid having to meet people and talk to them!.!.!. Like going to work, it was just the first day yesterday and I made so many mistakes and was unable to make friends with anyone!. And today!.!.!. I really don't want to go!. And my mother will yell at me for not wanting to go!. Seems there is only one way out of this one!.!.!.
I really don't want to live like this!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
often times I want to resort to suicide just to avoid having to meet people and talk to them!.!.!. Like going to work, it was just the first day yesterday and I made so many mistakes and was unable to make friends with anyone!. And today!.!.!. I really don't want to go!. And my mother will yell at me for not wanting to go!. Seems there is only one way out of this one!.!.!.
I really don't want to live like this!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I hope I can give you some insight and help into your situation!. First, I want to tell you, that you should talk with your parent(s) about this and then a physician or psychologist, because there are methods/ medication to help you through this!. This does not mean you are "crazy"--you can get through it with the right help!.
You stated "I get excessively nervous during social interactions/gatherings"!. This could be social anxiety disorder!. You stated that your friends tell you that you talk down about yourself a lot and this could be a result of low-self esteem (which would also mix in with the social anxiety disorder!. You could also be depressed--- many of these go hand in hand and interact with each other!. From your stating stuff about suicide, this is a strong indicator of depression!.
So possibilities that is likely: depression, social anxiety disorder and low self-esteem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You stated "I get excessively nervous during social interactions/gatherings"!. This could be social anxiety disorder!. You stated that your friends tell you that you talk down about yourself a lot and this could be a result of low-self esteem (which would also mix in with the social anxiety disorder!. You could also be depressed--- many of these go hand in hand and interact with each other!. From your stating stuff about suicide, this is a strong indicator of depression!.
So possibilities that is likely: depression, social anxiety disorder and low self-esteem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How ridiculous! Nobody makes friends or feels comfortable on their first day of a new job!.
Don't be such a quitter!
Everyone has low self-esteem to some extent!. You are just allowing yours to overcome you and rule your life and mind!.
You are a person of worth, with as much to offer the world as anyone else!. Stand up and accept your self worth! Trust me, you are special to many people!. And you will be special to many more people in the future if you give yourself a chance!.
Tomorrow is always a new day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't be such a quitter!
Everyone has low self-esteem to some extent!. You are just allowing yours to overcome you and rule your life and mind!.
You are a person of worth, with as much to offer the world as anyone else!. Stand up and accept your self worth! Trust me, you are special to many people!. And you will be special to many more people in the future if you give yourself a chance!.
Tomorrow is always a new day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
leave your whole life behind and go somehwere far away like australia or mexico and just learn there language and become a part of a whole new culture and you will be happy and everything will turn out ok =D i would do that if i was like youWww@Answer-Health@Com
You have Socialized Anxiety Disorder!.!.!. You can just talk to your doctor and he can put you on something like "Buspar" to help deal with this! Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like a social anxiety disorder, talk to the doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Look, I can relate 2 dis!. Ur probably jst overly stressed and aren't open 2 meeting new people!. U should see a physich-
atrist / counseleor a nd talk about how u feel!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
atrist / counseleor a nd talk about how u feel!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you and your mom should talk to a physcologist or your doctor they could help!Www@Answer-Health@Com
1st thing, please, take a deep breath, and think about your favorite pet, or friend, or place - - anything that can give you a little peace b/c u need to give yourself a break!.
u don't HAVE to talk to anybody - there is this old fashioned thing called "small talk" it goes like this, "Hello!. How are you!? My name is _____!." It is nice to meet you! "
See!? It is formulaic - by rote - automatic, no personal involvement required -
Oh, and you made mistakes on your first day of work!? Everyone does!. Learn from your mistakes, and just keep on keeping on!. That's what we do!. People!. Humans!. We just keep on!. !. !. what else!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
u don't HAVE to talk to anybody - there is this old fashioned thing called "small talk" it goes like this, "Hello!. How are you!? My name is _____!." It is nice to meet you! "
See!? It is formulaic - by rote - automatic, no personal involvement required -
Oh, and you made mistakes on your first day of work!? Everyone does!. Learn from your mistakes, and just keep on keeping on!. That's what we do!. People!. Humans!. We just keep on!. !. !. what else!?Www@Answer-Health@Com