Does your life suck too? Lets through a pity party!!!?!
Question: Does your life suck too!? Lets through a pity party!!!!?
Let's see, I'm struggling to graduate from college after years and years and years, I'm in dept up to my eyeballs in student loans ( I'm in dept up to my eyeballs !.!.!.!.period),I'm constantly broke, I'm in an unhappy-double standard-controlling-mentally abusive relationship, my health is going down hill, I'm constantly judged based on the negative stereo type of my ethnic group and I feel absolute loss of control of my life!. The solution is just a trigger pull away!. Does your life suck too!? How do you cope!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Thanks for posting this , it made me crack a smile and I really needed that!. I've been feeling so crappy for the past few hours , crying and whining "why me" !. I know things could be so much worse, but man when life sucks, it sucks!. I don't have an answer for you on how to cope, I'm trying to figure that out for myself!. I to am in debt, health is shot (nothing major-but if i don't change my habits it will be MAJOR soon) and feel no control!. At least it feels better knowing I'm not in this alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Everyones life sucks sometimes, well most of us, best thing to do though is come to the realization that things always get better and bad luck is only a coincidense!. No matter how bad things might seem just know that its not worth ending your life over!. If something is getting you down and you HAVE the power to change it, then get off your *** and change it!! If you DO NOT have the power to change then why sit there and worry about it!? No use in feeling bad over something you have no control over! Now if you feel bad over something you did then you need to learn from your mistake and move on! Nothing you can do can change the past but start working on that future!
Here's some examples:
Things you HAVE control over and should try to change:
Fat
Skinny
Out of shape
Suck at something - practice
Lost your job because you were hung over, quit drinking
Things you do not:
More bills than money - do what you can but learn not to get yourself in the hole in anymore, but if you cant pay them, why stress!?
Missed a promotion at work
Your fault, learn from it -
Cheated
Got yourself in debt
etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here's some examples:
Things you HAVE control over and should try to change:
Fat
Skinny
Out of shape
Suck at something - practice
Lost your job because you were hung over, quit drinking
Things you do not:
More bills than money - do what you can but learn not to get yourself in the hole in anymore, but if you cant pay them, why stress!?
Missed a promotion at work
Your fault, learn from it -
Cheated
Got yourself in debt
etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ditto on pretty much everything, especially the loans!. I see a therapist bi-weekly!.!.!. it adds to the bills a little, but it really helps me sort out the crap in my life and will soon help me think a bit more positively than I do when I'm constantly stressed!
Throwing a pity party is always fun though, nothing like feeling crappy sometimes! :) Hope things look up soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Throwing a pity party is always fun though, nothing like feeling crappy sometimes! :) Hope things look up soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hop on board, babe!. I dont cope!. There is no reasonable way to cope with this kind of crap!.
I was told I would be in college for another year, Ive been in for about 6 years!.
Im 22 and about to get divorced!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was told I would be in college for another year, Ive been in for about 6 years!.
Im 22 and about to get divorced!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hahah I'm only 16 and have been diagnosed with ocd and GAD iv had to drop out of high school i lost all my friends i let myself get fat!.!.!.my moms very sick my dad works two jobs my sisters a achocalic!.!.i feel like ill never be able to be on my own!.!.!.it sucksWww@Answer-Health@Com
my life did suck for a while!.!.!. my friends are all backstabbers!.!.!. so i got new friends!.!.!. however i don't think it'll help with your problemsWww@Answer-Health@Com