I can't handle change....?!
Question: I can't handle change!.!.!.!.!?
Well i don't know weather i can't handle change or what but if i tell myself im going to do something, if i don't do it i get realy upset and can't get it off my mind here are 2 examples,,
1) I told myself i would get my ipod this weekend but i wasn't allowed and now im so upset about it because i told myself i would
2) I thought i was going to have a doctors appointment during school tomorrow but my mum moved it to after school and i started crying because the time of the appointment has changed!.
Also if somebody tells me something and they do something else, or if they don't do it it makes me angry and upset,,
i can't handle change
whats wrong with me!?!?!?
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1) I told myself i would get my ipod this weekend but i wasn't allowed and now im so upset about it because i told myself i would
2) I thought i was going to have a doctors appointment during school tomorrow but my mum moved it to after school and i started crying because the time of the appointment has changed!.
Also if somebody tells me something and they do something else, or if they don't do it it makes me angry and upset,,
i can't handle change
whats wrong with me!?!?!?
xxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
does this only happen when the thing that changes is bad for you for example are you sure you just werent upset because you werent allowed your ipod, or because you didn't get out of school early to see the doctor or does this happen with other things too such as your mum saying you would have dinner at 7 and then its ready at 5!?
Can you handle positive change!? If so then I dont think theres anything wrong here!.
I think people with autism are very upset about routine change and stuff so perhaps that is something to look into, are you a routine person, does small routine changes upset you!?
If not to be honest I think it's something you will grow out of!.
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Can you handle positive change!? If so then I dont think theres anything wrong here!.
I think people with autism are very upset about routine change and stuff so perhaps that is something to look into, are you a routine person, does small routine changes upset you!?
If not to be honest I think it's something you will grow out of!.
sorry if that wasnt helpfulWww@Answer-Health@Com
honestly, you just sound spoiled!. you didn't get to get what you wanted (your ipod) and you thought you were going to get to leave school early for a doctors app!., but you didn't get to!.
that's life; grow up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's life; grow up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There's nothing wrong with you!. Talk to someone you trust about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com