Serious answers please. ( 10 points)?!
Question: Serious answers please!. ( 10 points)!?
Hi everyone!. A little background history before I start talking about my problems!. I was a "troubled" teen so to speak, blah blah!. It doesn't matter to much about the problems I had, but what I did because of them!. I quit school my freshman year, I got into video games heavily!. There were times I didn't leave the house for MONTHS!. I gained alot of weight, and over-all was useless and doing nothing but sleeping, eating, gaming!.
Well, now I have stopped gaming for awhile now, I have lost almost 70lbs, but the thing is - I still hate going out, I mean I do it!. I took my GED and passed and plan on starting college in Spring 2009 ( I want to have a breast reduction before then, for back problems)!. I just honestly feel I can't function normally anymore!. I hate getting dressed and going out, I hate being restricted- if I have to make a deadline!. I love being on my own schedule!. I just know this isn't viable for the rest of my life!.
I just wanted some advice, ( read below)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, now I have stopped gaming for awhile now, I have lost almost 70lbs, but the thing is - I still hate going out, I mean I do it!. I took my GED and passed and plan on starting college in Spring 2009 ( I want to have a breast reduction before then, for back problems)!. I just honestly feel I can't function normally anymore!. I hate getting dressed and going out, I hate being restricted- if I have to make a deadline!. I love being on my own schedule!. I just know this isn't viable for the rest of my life!.
I just wanted some advice, ( read below)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I used to be in the same shoes you are in now!. I got addicted to flight simulator and even flunked home schooling!. thats pathetic, but i got better!. i hated going out due to the fact that there is nothing out in the world that i saw as worth me going out to!. eventually i realized that the path that i was going down would not only lead to my destruction, but it would mean that i would be alone as i faced my demise!. this pretty much straightened me out enough to do something!. i still hate going out, but i see it as a necessary evil!. i have to work to pay for things and to support myself and my wife!. i know, more or less, what it is you are going through!. but you must realized that there is much beauty underneath the corroded and dirty world!. sometimes you find it in the most unexpected places and in the most interesting people!. take a bum out to breakfast, you will learn much!. sit on a bench somewhere and watch the world go by!. you will see how people forget to enjoy the everyday normal, but you will see it and you will understand!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We've all been there before!. While the concept of true freedom is more than a little alluring, it almost always results in exactly what you've described!.
The fact of the matter is, humans NEED order and responsibility for good mental health!. I'm sure as you go through college you'll find the forced schedule allows you to not only enjoy the time you have off more, but you'll become more used to the idea again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The fact of the matter is, humans NEED order and responsibility for good mental health!. I'm sure as you go through college you'll find the forced schedule allows you to not only enjoy the time you have off more, but you'll become more used to the idea again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well i wouldn't take it that^ far!. But i would say its just a stage!. The way you grew up and live is comfortable to you so why change!. But i think when you get older and realize that you have to move with the world that its necessary to do something to get something!.!.(which does suck) Youll start!. And after you start, it can only get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The very fact that u r concious of ur problems & want 2 get rid of these, proves that u r going 2 b normal like any one else!.
Yes u have 2 see a therapist & then do as u r told whether u like it or not!.
A little bit of will power & u would b as normal as anyone u know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes u have 2 see a therapist & then do as u r told whether u like it or not!.
A little bit of will power & u would b as normal as anyone u know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Start with a visit to the family Doc for the sleeplessness and go from there!. You are in a severe stage of depression!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This kind of question should be used to encourage would-be parents to opt for an abortion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you already know the answers!. You seem well on the way!. So just be your self be well and be safe!. trust your instincts!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever thought you might be agoraphobic!? Fear of people, leaving your house!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're depressed it sounds like, takes one to know one!. Congrats on the weight loss!. It would be great if you could convince yourself to celebrate your life and one foot after the other leave the house and party while your yound, and just enjoy your life!
You're starting college so you have to get on track with sleep!. See a psychiatrist who could prescribe a slight sedative if he deems it necessary!.
Your mention about the breast reduction, I hope you don't suffer from morbidity disorder!? Do you feel that your appearance is never quite right!? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own skin!? You should work these issues out before the surgery honey!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're starting college so you have to get on track with sleep!. See a psychiatrist who could prescribe a slight sedative if he deems it necessary!.
Your mention about the breast reduction, I hope you don't suffer from morbidity disorder!? Do you feel that your appearance is never quite right!? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own skin!? You should work these issues out before the surgery honey!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Even though you say the problems as a teen didn't matter much, they might have!. Everything added up equals to who you are now!. I myself somewhat have this problem!.!.!. I just don't like going out!. I don't like following schedules what so ever but when I do go out I'm always checking the clock to see when it's time to go home!. I don't like that I do this but it happens and I know the reason!. A lot of things through my life have made me close up inside and made me seek comforts from things that were easily accessed but not really obligated to!. Like your video games!. People are different though, and sometimes it can be intimidating to seek them out!.
It's sort of difficult to put all of this into words (specially because it's late and I should be in bed) but I think I understand a little of what you're going through!. I'm not completely out of my issue ether but I started to think about all the stuff that could've possibly brought me to close up so much inside and what made me seek out these certain comforts!. And when I realized I understood a bit better!. But now the comforts are almost like a routine to me and the comfort is now just a comfort zone!. It'll just take me time to adjust myself back to the real world!. By the way I am a Sophomore in college now and am doing pretty ok!. Maybe just do some soul searching!. Pour out everything you've been holding in for so long!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's sort of difficult to put all of this into words (specially because it's late and I should be in bed) but I think I understand a little of what you're going through!. I'm not completely out of my issue ether but I started to think about all the stuff that could've possibly brought me to close up so much inside and what made me seek out these certain comforts!. And when I realized I understood a bit better!. But now the comforts are almost like a routine to me and the comfort is now just a comfort zone!. It'll just take me time to adjust myself back to the real world!. By the way I am a Sophomore in college now and am doing pretty ok!. Maybe just do some soul searching!. Pour out everything you've been holding in for so long!.Www@Answer-Health@Com