I'm suicidal, can someone please help me?!


Question: I'm suicidal, can someone please help me!?
I've been depressed for about 8 months and earlier i was cutting but I stopped that!. I've been to therapy and it's not helping and I am really just ready to give in completely right now because my mom never lets me go out with my friends ever!.!.!. and I talked to one of my friends last night and he was very mad that everytime I talk to him I'm upset or crying or thinking about killing myself!. He said I'm such a fool for ruining my life and it only made me feel worse and I know I can't fix it anymore so I feel like the only way out of this big mess is to just leave it entirely!. I know it's not a good solution so can someone please help me because I don't want to do something that I will never be able to change back but I'm so depressed right now I don't feel I have any other options!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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hun please try and think about everything!. i have tried t commid suicide twice!. as you can see both failed!. i ended up in hospital for 5 days after one!. it is more common for them to fail!. all i got was worse from it all!. try and talk to this friend not just when your upset try when your happy too so they know that you do care!. even if you aren't happy put on a front in some conversations and ask about them!. i'm sure you mum doesn't let you out because she is worried about you and doesn't want to to do anything liek what your thinking of even if she doesn't know she will have inclinations!. she is donig what she thinks is best!. she obviously thinks you friends have influenced you in somehow and not positively!. I promise you you have not done any of this to yourself remeber it is an illness!. WELL DONE FOR STOPPING CUTTING:) i am seriously proud of you!. think how much of an achievment that is!. even if you still do it slightly!. you need to think of all the good things!. try and talk to your therapist next session, and if it is your therapist you don't like try asking for a different one you may be able to get along with better they will understand!. tell me how it is all gonig in a few weeks!? drop me a message or something!. i have been through all this!. and know what it is like!. be strong hun:)
groovy-girls@hotmail!.co!.uk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You want to kill yourself because your mom won't let you hang out with your friends!? This is not a good reason!. You also sound like a normal teenager!. Teen depression is also normal!.

I suggest you talk to your mother about your feelings!. See if she will support you if you choose to join a sport or school activity!. If the therapy is not helping, see a different therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sucide is nonsense!. belivee me!. i was in your same situation and tried it, and it only brought on worse problems!. check yourself into a psychiatric ward if you feel this way its alot of help and gives you time to cool off!. i went there involuntarily, forced by the police, but now i would go there anytime just to have a really good vacation!. dont commit suicide, its unneccessary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I try this when I am really sad and frustrated!.

I have three praise songs I find off I tunes!.!.!.lots of Maranatha music I write down the lyrics and I sing the songs to the music off the lyrics!. For some reason all the bad feeling take flight and I involuntary smile and feels so much at ease!.!.!.try it it will surprise you!.

The Bible said that God gives peace not the peace of this world but His peace when He places it on your heart is unimaginable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. Your mom wont ALWAYS be there to tell you what to do!. Just focus on believing that everything has to get better!.!. and it will ;) We need you here on Y!A!Www@Answer-Health@Com

trust me honey you have other options ,i know i was you and i am still alive don't do it call the sucide hotline NOW!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

email me ASAP

jbfanatic94@yahoo!.com

I can help you get through this!.!.!.

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I don't know if you believe in GOD , but now is the time to let GOD be the center of your word! Life is hard, but always remember God wil not let anything happen to you that you can't handle!.Trust me you are not alone!. I can remember feeling how you feel!. God bless you!. The 1 thing in life can count on is change!. Things will get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Of course there are other options!. You are not alone!. You just have to take each day as it comes and remember that there is support available for you at all times!. But first you have to help yourself by talking to someone you trust and who you know will provide you with the kind of help you need!.
I suffer from severe depression and self harm too!. That you have managed to stop the cutting is such a massive step forward and you should be really proud of yourself!. I know how hard it is and only wish I had some of your strength!. Maybe I could learn something from you!?
I have hit rock bottom so many times!. Some days all I think about is ending my life but then I remind myself of how little it would solve!. The one thing I yearn for is relief from my depression but to feel relieved I need to be alive to experience it!. When you're dead, there's nothing and there's no going back!.
Go back to your doctor and let them know just how bad you are feeling!. If he/she does not take you seriously then make another appointment with a different doctor!. They can provide you with medication to calm your irrational thoughts!. Therapy might not be working at the moment but keep at, give it a chance!. Or, change therapists, it might just be that you have not found the right person!.
Finally talk to your mum !. Sometimes parents think what they are doing is for the best when in reality they are making things worse!. But she won't know till you tell her!. Tell anyone: a teacher perhaps, or a friend that's a little more supportive than the one you mentioned!.
I wish I could be there with you to let you know that things will get better if you just stick it out for a while!. You are worth something and there are people who care about you deeply!. Please realise this!. TRY and stay as safe as you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There are quite a few sources that are professionals and can help you through this time!. I urge you to seek them out!. You can find resources with the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255 or at their website: http://www!.suicidepreventionlifeline!.org!.!.!.

Also consult your health insurance company for psychiatric help!. If you feel you are in serious danger of hurting yourself speak to your parents about hospitalization (it is a temporary stay at a health care facility till you are diagnosed and medicated appropriately)!. In the event that you are religious, seek the support of your local clergy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if dealing with your mom is anywhere near the worst of it
You should put things into perspective
No it's not the nicest thing someone will say but it's honest


My friend was beaten by her now estranged father, her family is falling apart and giving up her three youngest adopted siblings to foster care but she stays strong
Because despite all the negative thing that are happening ad have happened,there's a tommorrow

If it's people or popularity or not feeling cool enough
Just realiZe all you have
You have friends and family
You are a functioning person
And things can only get better for you if you truly make the best every situation and don't sweat the small stuffWww@Answer-Health@Com

First off: Suicide is not the answer!. I know it is hard right now, but you need to think of little reasons to not end your life!. Do this everyday!.!.!.it doesn't matter how small the reason!. If therapy isn't working are you combining it with medication!? Now I am not an advocate of using medicine to solve problems, but for some people depression can only be addressed by combining therapy and drugs!. There is no shame in it!. Do you know why you are depressed!? Is there a family history of depression!? Talk to your mother, father, school counselor, anyone who might be able to help you address this!. You might try reading the book Prosac Nation; she suffered from severe depression!. The book may help you in realizing that you are not alone in this and there is hope!. Your friend responded to the problem in the wrong way!. You have got to understand that he cares about you and he probably doesn't know how else to get you to see that your life matters!. He isn't trying to make you feel worse about yourself!. As a last resort, if therapy and nothing else is working you may need to commit yourself to a facility to get more help!. There is no shame in this either!.!.!.sometimes it takes more bravery to admit you have a serious problem that needs to be addressed rather than just drown in a sea of depression!. I have a friend who suffers from severe chronic depression and has had to commit himself to a facility several times, and each time he was glad he got through it and didn't end it all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry for the length, but please read all the way through:


I was raised that suicide is a permant solution to a temporary problem!. I have had a friend committ suicide, and the guilt that you will leave your family and friends is astronomical, because they will always wonder if there is something they could have done differently, but they will never get the answer they need because the one person that could give it to them would be gone!.

I personally think that suicide is a very selfish act, because everyone involved in one way or another loses!.

The first thing you should do is calling The National Suicide Hotline:

1-800-273-Talk (8255)

They are very helpful, sometimes even more then a counselor because they have personal experiences to relate to you much better!.

I suggest you keep seeing a counselor, if that one isn't working for you, find a different one!.!.!.it can often be hard to find a counselor that we can really relate to, but it is a trial and error process!. I have been through at least 5 before finding the right one!. So go somewhere else if you need to, because a counselor is there for you, and if you don't feel that one is doing you any good, find another one!.!.!.that is your first step!. The second step is looking into some type of medication, you have to see a doctor or preferably a psychiatrist that may be able to help relieve some of the depression by putting you on medication, because you may be depressed because of a medical condition, and it is important to rule it out!.

There is more out there for you to explore, but the bottom line is you need to believe in yourself!. I know it is hard, but try to stay positive!

Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day, try to focus on the positives and believe in yourself, it will really make a world of difference!. In order to do that, I had a few quotes close at hand:





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