Minor Depression?!
Question: Minor Depression!?
Im 13, i'm going thorugh a rough spell with friends!.
I was in this like "Group" until another person joined!. We've never got on well, and now all the others worship him!. They've all started calling me things like "Meathead, Lambshank" They know it gets to me as I've been bullied about being a tad on the big side for ages!. And i have always spoken to them about it!. But now its reverse!.
They were pretty much my only friends!. I have hardly anyone to talk to!.
My only other option is a school counciller person!.
What should i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was in this like "Group" until another person joined!. We've never got on well, and now all the others worship him!. They've all started calling me things like "Meathead, Lambshank" They know it gets to me as I've been bullied about being a tad on the big side for ages!. And i have always spoken to them about it!. But now its reverse!.
They were pretty much my only friends!. I have hardly anyone to talk to!.
My only other option is a school counciller person!.
What should i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I know exactly what you're going through I suffer from bi polar disorder and have since I was around 12 when I was in school i was in a group and we always ended up bitching about each other, then they all turned on me at once!. And I had no one, except, just like you a school councillor!. I too suffered bullying for being a bit large which in turn led to annorexia!.
What you should do is find other friends!. Don't think about being popular and having the most friends ect, because it doesn't work out like that, 1 best friend that wouldnt do anything to hurt you is better than 50 acquaintances who will turn their back in an instance!. When my friends left me I was completely oblivious to the fact that I DID have people that care about me!. I just never noticed them before that day!.
Even if you DON'T have people like that, it is only school after all, you don't have to live with them forever!. Ignor any comments about size and weight, because I'm sure you could pick out a million things about their looks and personality that are much more offensive than "meathead" just smile and know they're not ANY better than you!. If anything their worse!.
Make best use of ANY councilling that you get given the opportunity!. I wish I had, it would have made everything a lot easier, you'll also find that school councillors will introduce you to people who are in similar situations as you are or people to support you!.
Most importantly, learn to forgive them, but don't forget, because if you forget what they've done when/if they apoligise, then you're opening yourself up to let it happen!.
Try your best to make new friends but you might realise theres more people in your life than the ones you had before :)
Sorry if this didn't help :( I hope it did!. Email me if you need any support or someone to talk to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What you should do is find other friends!. Don't think about being popular and having the most friends ect, because it doesn't work out like that, 1 best friend that wouldnt do anything to hurt you is better than 50 acquaintances who will turn their back in an instance!. When my friends left me I was completely oblivious to the fact that I DID have people that care about me!. I just never noticed them before that day!.
Even if you DON'T have people like that, it is only school after all, you don't have to live with them forever!. Ignor any comments about size and weight, because I'm sure you could pick out a million things about their looks and personality that are much more offensive than "meathead" just smile and know they're not ANY better than you!. If anything their worse!.
Make best use of ANY councilling that you get given the opportunity!. I wish I had, it would have made everything a lot easier, you'll also find that school councillors will introduce you to people who are in similar situations as you are or people to support you!.
Most importantly, learn to forgive them, but don't forget, because if you forget what they've done when/if they apoligise, then you're opening yourself up to let it happen!.
Try your best to make new friends but you might realise theres more people in your life than the ones you had before :)
Sorry if this didn't help :( I hope it did!. Email me if you need any support or someone to talk to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I went through the exact same thing when I was your age, and I let the depressive/low feelings carry on for far too long, and now, Im 21 and seeing a therapist on a regular basis!. Don't let it get as far as I did, if you think you're presenting with signs of depression, go and see your GP!. If you think you'll find it difficult to speak to him/her face-to-face, do what I did and write down your symptons, and some of the things you're feeling on a piece of paper and hand it to your GP when you arrive for the appointment!.
Also, if your friends are going along with the taunts this new guy has 'invented' for you, they weren't real friends to begin with, you don't need people around you who bring you down like that, you deserve to be happy and around people who make you feel good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, if your friends are going along with the taunts this new guy has 'invented' for you, they weren't real friends to begin with, you don't need people around you who bring you down like that, you deserve to be happy and around people who make you feel good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
take care of yourself first!. Forget these guys they aren't your real friends!.
Depression gets worse if you sit around and feel sorry for yourself
Can you dedicate yourself to running or walking everyday and loosing weight!? This will help you feel better!.
Good luck and don't give up!. In the long run these guys will be the loosers in LIFE
Imagine going back to school having lost weight!. Ask your parents to take you to the doc or let you join a health club!.
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search your city for boys and girls clubs and things like that!. to find things to do!. Please don't subject yourself to these other friends most of the time ignoring them defuses them!. They don't deserve you anywayWww@Answer-Health@Com
Depression gets worse if you sit around and feel sorry for yourself
Can you dedicate yourself to running or walking everyday and loosing weight!? This will help you feel better!.
Good luck and don't give up!. In the long run these guys will be the loosers in LIFE
Imagine going back to school having lost weight!. Ask your parents to take you to the doc or let you join a health club!.
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search your city for boys and girls clubs and things like that!. to find things to do!. Please don't subject yourself to these other friends most of the time ignoring them defuses them!. They don't deserve you anywayWww@Answer-Health@Com
I think talking to the school counsellor is a good idea!. They have no right to bully you, remember that people only bully because they are insecure themselves!. If they are are your friends they will stop if you tell them its bothering you! Have you ever considered addressing your weight issue, like joining a sports club or something, it would be good for your health and self esteem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
boy what are you talking about you have more friends than you know what to do with Y/A are all your friends were not here just to answer questions you ask some one to be your friend and whamo hundreds of friends just like that, tell your so called friends to blow it out their ear we love you no matter what ok now cheer up and be happy or I will tell santaWww@Answer-Health@Com
You should try to move school, make new friends or yeh, school counciller person!.
ifeel sorry for you, but you should bother with those people again!. they're not worth being in your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
ifeel sorry for you, but you should bother with those people again!. they're not worth being in your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
see the school councellor,it may be helpfull and move on from these people,they do not sound as if they are your true friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com