I have a very low self esteem....?!
Question: I have a very low self esteem!.!.!.!.!?
!.!.!.!.I ve been told I am good looking, but every time I see my self in a mirror I think that I am ugly, that my body is terrible, when I am in public places I think that everyone looks at me and laughs etc etc !.!.!.!.!. as a result I am very introverted, dont make friends easily, afraid to flirt etc!.!.!.!. How can I get some help!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You lack confidence!. There are medications which restore confidence as a side effect!. You may want to consider the prescription meds Didrex (benzphetamine) or Adipex (phentermine)!. Both restore confidence and increase energy and focus!.
You also have anxiety and would benefit greatly from a benzodiazepan med such as Valium or Xanax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You also have anxiety and would benefit greatly from a benzodiazepan med such as Valium or Xanax!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have grown up believing how you look is what determines what people think of you!. This is just not true!.
Have you heard of Mother Teresa!?!. She was a nun that worked amongst the very poor in India!. Was she beautiful!? - probably not outside, but inside she was, and millions of people loved her!.
Have you heard of The Buddha!? Millions of people loved him and he probably weighed around 500 pounds (227 kg)!. He also was a beautiful person inside and loved all those around him!. People traveled from all over the world just to be in his presence!.
If you want anything, you have to give it away first!.
If you want to be loved or liked by others, - you have to like or love others!.
If you want friends - you have to give friendship to others!.
if you want happiness - you have to give happiness to others!.
Do all the above and more for others, and then watch the friendships grow!. As this grows, your self confidence will grow, as you see just how clever and nice you are!.
Once you can see you are a really nice person, others will see that you are also!.
The power is in your hands!.
peacefromken!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you heard of Mother Teresa!?!. She was a nun that worked amongst the very poor in India!. Was she beautiful!? - probably not outside, but inside she was, and millions of people loved her!.
Have you heard of The Buddha!? Millions of people loved him and he probably weighed around 500 pounds (227 kg)!. He also was a beautiful person inside and loved all those around him!. People traveled from all over the world just to be in his presence!.
If you want anything, you have to give it away first!.
If you want to be loved or liked by others, - you have to like or love others!.
If you want friends - you have to give friendship to others!.
if you want happiness - you have to give happiness to others!.
Do all the above and more for others, and then watch the friendships grow!. As this grows, your self confidence will grow, as you see just how clever and nice you are!.
Once you can see you are a really nice person, others will see that you are also!.
The power is in your hands!.
peacefromken!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, I have to raise the BS flag!. Your avatar name is Very Masculine Guy!. You have too much self-esteem and are panning for compliments!.
Maybe every time you look in the mirror you see a glimpse of the shallow, self involved person you are that seeks to use yahoo answers as a way to gain undue sympathy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe every time you look in the mirror you see a glimpse of the shallow, self involved person you are that seeks to use yahoo answers as a way to gain undue sympathy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That happens to everyone!. A bad memory can make you think people are watching you or laughing at you!. They aren't!.
But seriously, life is too short to care about stuff like that!. If someone says you are pretty, you are!. Compliments are rare these days, so the fact you are getting any at all is obviously saying something!.
Go to a psychologist if it gets you down too much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But seriously, life is too short to care about stuff like that!. If someone says you are pretty, you are!. Compliments are rare these days, so the fact you are getting any at all is obviously saying something!.
Go to a psychologist if it gets you down too much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seems like you got some social anxiety going on there!.!.!.don't worry you're not the only one I've got it so bad I won't leave the house!. The only way to treat this is to go to a shrink and get some pills and such!. Try working out too!. That might boost your confidence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't worry so much about what other people think, just learn to except yourself for who you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com