I am a seriously depressed 12 year old. (please read)?!
Question: I am a seriously depressed 12 year old!. (please read)!?
Ok, so in my group of friends there were 4 of us!. Then 1 girl that doesn't like me started hanging out with us, but she was really trying to steal my place in our group!. Now I think they are all haing a sleep-over without me and it is making me feel really depressed!. Like I want to kill myself!. I wanted to kill myseld during the school year for this reason and a few others(by taking an O!.D!. of tylenol 3 w/codiene (I had for a broken wrist in the past)), but luckily, my mum hid my pills!. I have that same feeling of wanting to kill myself, but this time not in rage, but in sorrow!.
Please help me to overcome my sadness!. Has anyone ever gone through this kind of sadness!.
Please don't take this as a funny thing!. My friends mean everything to me!.
ThanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Please help me to overcome my sadness!. Has anyone ever gone through this kind of sadness!.
Please don't take this as a funny thing!. My friends mean everything to me!.
ThanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
okay i have suffered from depression for many years so i know exactly what you are going through!. i cut myself for years as a release and trust me, killing yourself is not the answer!. it never is!. we all have rough spots but we have to get through them!. if you are serious about this[which is sounds like] you really need to talk to a parent!. it can only help!. i had depression for over a year before i told my mom and i know it can be scary but you have to do it!. especially if you want help, which you most likely need if you want to kill yourself!.
ive also been in the same situation with my friends and it does suck!. but i think you should try talking to them!. it is probably just a mis understanding or something!. if they are your true friends they wouldnt do that to you!. and as your friends, they would be the last people to want you to hurt yourself!.
hope i helped!. good luck!.
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and always remember,
nothing is worth hurting yourself over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive also been in the same situation with my friends and it does suck!. but i think you should try talking to them!. it is probably just a mis understanding or something!. if they are your true friends they wouldnt do that to you!. and as your friends, they would be the last people to want you to hurt yourself!.
hope i helped!. good luck!.
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and always remember,
nothing is worth hurting yourself over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im on those pill!.!.!. anyway ive been depressed like that but for a different reason!. and for a similar ones!.
its like this your 12 jr high kids are mean and well that isnt ever going to change, maybe you can start trying to take her place, or tell them you want to hang with them more, or if they are realy your friends yuo can tell them anything so be honest tell them you feel sorta left out (maybe try and make friends with the other girl) im 16 so i know how it goes, good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
its like this your 12 jr high kids are mean and well that isnt ever going to change, maybe you can start trying to take her place, or tell them you want to hang with them more, or if they are realy your friends yuo can tell them anything so be honest tell them you feel sorta left out (maybe try and make friends with the other girl) im 16 so i know how it goes, good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Okay, these guys are obviously not that great of friends!.
1) Try to talk to them
2) If that doesn't work, look for other friends
I know these people mean the world to you, but 12 is a hard age (lolx, I'm 12) and you can find new friends!. Try to detach yourself from your friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1) Try to talk to them
2) If that doesn't work, look for other friends
I know these people mean the world to you, but 12 is a hard age (lolx, I'm 12) and you can find new friends!. Try to detach yourself from your friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Screw them!. You are you, and no one else!. ^_^ If they don't accept you, then find people who do!. Idiots aren't worth that kind of effort!. Be who you wanna be and forget anyone who says you can't!. Trust me, do that, and you'll find better friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should wright this down and in 5 years read it!. and maybe u will realize how stupid it sounds!. if this is your big problem i think ur doin pretty well!. dont take this so serous or else u will convince yourself its that bad and end up doin somthin bad to ur self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A similar thing happened to me in grade 8!.
I had my mind set that one of these girls were talking bad about me, and influencing the whole group to hate me!. When I brought up my concerns, it would end up in fights, and them saying that I didn't have enough trust in them!.
And then, we had a huge fight over this and didn't talk!. This affected me a lot because of the fact that they really my only friends in school!. Like I had more, but in different schools, and that didn't help me!.
Also, because of the fact that I let myself cling onto others so easy, it just hurt me even worse!.
During the summer, I cried straight for a week because I lost these girls friendships!.
But now that I'm way passed that, I'm so glad I'm not friends with them anymore!. No one deserves to have friends that make them feel bad about themselves!.
I think you should relax, take a deep breath, and perhaps try and be friends with this girl!. If things get worse, I suggest making new friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had my mind set that one of these girls were talking bad about me, and influencing the whole group to hate me!. When I brought up my concerns, it would end up in fights, and them saying that I didn't have enough trust in them!.
And then, we had a huge fight over this and didn't talk!. This affected me a lot because of the fact that they really my only friends in school!. Like I had more, but in different schools, and that didn't help me!.
Also, because of the fact that I let myself cling onto others so easy, it just hurt me even worse!.
During the summer, I cried straight for a week because I lost these girls friendships!.
But now that I'm way passed that, I'm so glad I'm not friends with them anymore!. No one deserves to have friends that make them feel bad about themselves!.
I think you should relax, take a deep breath, and perhaps try and be friends with this girl!. If things get worse, I suggest making new friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't kill yourself over losing friends, I am 15 and lost 8 friends out of a group of 10, but I just said **** em, plus they all were pretty much the lamest nerds in my school, so I was glad to have dropped them!.
I am sure you will be able to find new friends, but me on the other hand I am just depressed because life is meaningless to me and I will probs kill myself soon over boredom and how I have come to the realization I may as well not prolong my inevitable death, but you will probably live a long fun life!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sure you will be able to find new friends, but me on the other hand I am just depressed because life is meaningless to me and I will probs kill myself soon over boredom and how I have come to the realization I may as well not prolong my inevitable death, but you will probably live a long fun life!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can get through this!. 13 was a very tough age for me!. Girls can be very nasty and mean to each other!. You have a whole life to live yet!. At 13 i was sexually abused by my boyfriend!. I told my best friend about it and she told the whole school!. That year i was the school slut (sorry for the language but i don't know what other word to use!.!.!. they are all bad) for something that i didn't even understand!. It hurt a lot!. I felt a lot like you!. Just know that you can work through this!. This isn't the end of the world for you even though you may feel like it is!. I promise you that things will get better!. If you want you can email me if you need to talk!. Take care of yourself hunni!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ive been in this kind of situation before when people come in and try to steal your place in the group!. first of all, you dont need those kind of friends if they were your real friends they would try to include you more and not want you to be sad!. i think you should just forget about them and try to find a new group of friends!. its better for you and it would make them EXTREAMLY jelouss! also, have you tried talking to any of them about this!? im sure it would really help!. and killing your self wont resolve anything and its something you cant take back!. dont do it also if you have any sibling talk to them because you can always turn to your family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's a tough age but you should take the high road and realize that 10 years from now you probably won't be speaking to any of those people!. friends come and go but you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life!. do what you need to do to be happy with yourself!. you should really let your parents know how you feel and if you don't feel comfortable talking to them, ask them if they could help you find somebody you are comfortable talking to!. helping others is also a great way to help yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Taking some Omega-3 help!. It is not a med, it's a supplement and it helps you physically and mentally!. It is known to be a natural anti-depressant!.
Oh and there are varieties of foods with Omega-3 in it!. Mainly fish and other seafood are rich with it!. Flaxseed and Omega-3 supplements are if you don't like fish or fish being a bit expensive sometimes too!.
From experience: It has helped me figure out how to overcome some tough obstacles and some as tough as yours!. It also helps you get by that "after effect" you get from losing a friend or so!.
Another thing, if you could!.!.!. talk to that girl and talk to her nicely!.!.!. if you can't come to an understanding and gaining a friend somewhere there, then try to move on, a real friend even from that group would try to catch up to you and eventually that other girl wouldn't matter at all!.
It happens in life, you'll lose some friends but gain more!. Always, keep old friends for they may be the best ones you got!.
If you yourself a great friend to be then you need not to worry about getting friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh and there are varieties of foods with Omega-3 in it!. Mainly fish and other seafood are rich with it!. Flaxseed and Omega-3 supplements are if you don't like fish or fish being a bit expensive sometimes too!.
From experience: It has helped me figure out how to overcome some tough obstacles and some as tough as yours!. It also helps you get by that "after effect" you get from losing a friend or so!.
Another thing, if you could!.!.!. talk to that girl and talk to her nicely!.!.!. if you can't come to an understanding and gaining a friend somewhere there, then try to move on, a real friend even from that group would try to catch up to you and eventually that other girl wouldn't matter at all!.
It happens in life, you'll lose some friends but gain more!. Always, keep old friends for they may be the best ones you got!.
If you yourself a great friend to be then you need not to worry about getting friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com