Whats wrong with me?I feel like im goin mad?!
Question: Whats wrong with me!?I feel like im goin mad!?
I really love my boyf!.but I feel compelled to check up on him all the time,he's never given me any reason not to trust him!.I have ocd,and deppression,ive taken citalopram for months but my thoughts wont go,I feel like killing myself just to stop this repetitve behaviour,please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi Leanna,
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there is a solution!. Was invented in 2005 and has been available since the end of that year!. Only problem is that yahoo will delete the answer if I put the website link here!. I suggest you send me a private email and I will get the link right back to you!.
Blessed be!.
Karma SinghWww@Answer-Health@Com
Ignore Taz's unhelpful answer, I dont know why he bothered to post!.
It sounds like you will have regular contact with your doctor, so first I would tell him/her about these feelings you are having, about your boyfriend and about killing yourself!. The doctor can help you make sense of these feelings or put you onto a counsellor if you are not already seeing one!.
I would also explain to your bf about your feelings!. Make it clear you are not accusing him of anything, just that as a result of your mental health problems you find yourself wanting to check up on him etc!.
Now I am not qualified to make any sort of diagnosis, but I do know that a symptom of depression can be low self esteem!. I would say it were possible that because of that, you might be checking up on him because you feel that you dont deserve him, and why would he want to be with you, and that he must want to leave or cheat on you!. And so you check on him for reassurance!. That would be a layman's guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you will have regular contact with your doctor, so first I would tell him/her about these feelings you are having, about your boyfriend and about killing yourself!. The doctor can help you make sense of these feelings or put you onto a counsellor if you are not already seeing one!.
I would also explain to your bf about your feelings!. Make it clear you are not accusing him of anything, just that as a result of your mental health problems you find yourself wanting to check up on him etc!.
Now I am not qualified to make any sort of diagnosis, but I do know that a symptom of depression can be low self esteem!. I would say it were possible that because of that, you might be checking up on him because you feel that you dont deserve him, and why would he want to be with you, and that he must want to leave or cheat on you!. And so you check on him for reassurance!. That would be a layman's guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like it would be helpful if you went to see a cognitive behavioural therapist!. Speak to GP, they can refer you!. The therapist helps you to understand behavioural patterns and why you think in certain ways and change these thoughts and patterns into positive ones!. You also really need to tell your GP how you feel, their are lots of different anti-depressants available and maybe the one you are taking is not the best one for you!? A final thought, maybe you could join an on-line support group and talk to others who have been what you are going through and found positive ways to deal with OCD and turn their lives around!.
All the best, and remember everyone has something positive to offer, you just need to get to the point where you can see that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All the best, and remember everyone has something positive to offer, you just need to get to the point where you can see that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe your medication is no longer working for you!. I would contact the doctor who prescribes the medication for you and tell him/her how you are feeling!. It might also help to talk to someone who is trained in helping people who have OCD!. Please don't kill yourself!. Life is short enough and please believe me when I say things will get better because eventually they will!. Everyone has their ups and downs!. Some more ups than downs and others more downs than ups!. If your boyfriend has never done anything to make you suspicious than have faith in him and tell him how you feel!. I'm sure he would appreciate your sharing your feelings with him and he may even be able to help you overcome your depression and work with you on how to deal with your OCD!. I hope everything works out for you and please don't harm yourself until you have spoken to someone your boyfriend, your mother, friend anyone you trust and believe in, you can even email me if you want to!. Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
YOU need to stop now,stop thinking about him period or you will go mad!.tell yourself to stop,tell yourself to stop being silly, then tell your boyfriend whats been going on!.if nothing works go back to your doctor and ask for more help!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Have you got a counsoller or someone you can talk to!? If not try these guys http://www!.samaritans!.org!.uk/Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need therapy!. Your jealousy will drive him away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should be asking your bf for help not people on here hunWww@Answer-Health@Com