Why cant I control myself?!
Question: Why cant I control myself!?
Can somone give me some advice!? I cant seem to control myself from doing negative things!. I dont really have a problem with swearing, but when I get angry!.!.I just start shouting out profanities (not when people are around) and damaging objects around me!. Another thing I cant control is!.!.sexual things!. I think inapropriate thoughts, and sometimes carry out the thoughts!. After its all said and done, my mind is screaming STOP! STOP IT! Please, Please dont take this the wrong way!. (What Ive said) Please dont flame me or anything, I want to stop this foolishness, but I cant seem to get it through my thick skull!. Can somone please offer suggestions!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Swearing isn't such a bad thing!. :P It's ok to have sexual thoughts, you just need to make sure you're only in a fantasy and not real life!. It'd be easy if someone near you could just shock you to keep you controlled, but that may hurt!. :) You might want therapy or something to see why you can't control it, or try to take in deep breaths to keep yourself maintained!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know what, I went through the same thing!. I found a solution!. God!!! I never thought that I would be able to get rid of horrible thoughts!. I pray that you would start asking God this question!. I am going to recommend a book for you and I really hope you get!. The book is called "The Battlefield of the Mind" and it's by Joyce Meyer!. I'm glad that you have acknowledged the problem, it's a good first step!. Now the second step to begin allowing God to help you!. Only you can make this decision!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are a teen aged male you are perfectly normal and if you are conscious of it and work on self improvement you will be fine!. If you are an adult this behavior would be somewhat unusual, but not unheard of!. Thoughts are one thing!. Damage is another!. You need to work on that!. Just be cognoscente of it and work hard to be who you would like to be!. If you find that to be impossible then try some professional help!.Beware of the society that wants to give you pills to fix yourself and make sissified men!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Were you sexually abused as a child !? Have you repressed the memories, and are you now, unknowingly, raging in response to the abuse!?
Please note, these thoughts came to mind spontaneously, when I read your question!. I have no expertise, whatsoever, in this area!. However, I am sure you would benefit greatly, from competent counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please note, these thoughts came to mind spontaneously, when I read your question!. I have no expertise, whatsoever, in this area!. However, I am sure you would benefit greatly, from competent counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey i think u jus need some support from yur frends or family!. its up to u if u wnna see a councillor, but to be honest they can some times open up yur problems too much, so it creates unnessessary ones!. i wd suggest friends are better to talk to just to calm you down!. what wd u do if u had to offer advice to the person in yur shoes!?!.!. just think about that, because sometimes its easier to give others advice than to give it to yurself!. maybe u cd take yur anger out on sports, because yud have something else to focus yur mind on when your stressed or angry!. its good that yuv realised what your doing!. thats the first step!.!.!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well truthfully, you need to not do it at all!.!.!.I am the same way! Seriously I am!. Well I was, I am slowly learning to not do the things that I don't want to!.!.You really just have to not want to do those things anymore!.!.!.If you have to, kinda punk yourself out, like b*tch at yourself for being such a punk for not being able to control yourself! Hey, I wouldn't ever want to be weak, so I made myself not do the things that I didn't want to do! Also, you don't have to talk to a frickin therapist or shrink, just kick yourself in the a$$ and do it! Good Luck Punk!! LOL! Just kidding!Www@Answer-Health@Com
There good psicoanalists , try to calm your mind for you and already, possible the sport calm your nervous!.
Runing, swiming, another mood to living is good for you!.
Are nervouss!?- Going to demostrate your power in the sport
where the publique can to watching all the strong what you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Runing, swiming, another mood to living is good for you!.
Are nervouss!?- Going to demostrate your power in the sport
where the publique can to watching all the strong what you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you a Christian!? If so, focus on your friends and loved ones and then pray for them!. I used to be addicted to something and after help from my friend, i learned to pray everytime i felt the need to do it!.!.!.now i just pray for the heck of it and it's like i was never additcted!. Keep in mind though that it's not easy as pie!.
If you have another belief, let me know and i'll see what i can say :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have another belief, let me know and i'll see what i can say :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
As a school teacher we have to control our language at school!. I find that replacing the inappropriate word with a new word is successful!. For example I started saying Sugar honey Iced Tea for SH*T!. I now now longer say the other word and get just as much satisfaction to saying SUGAR! It takes a while!.!.!.but it is easier to replace a inappropriate word with an appropriate word than have a blank!.
Some of my favorites
Shiatsu
Freeholes (Beans in Spanish!.!.!.spelled wrong but works well!.)
Begeeber
Frankfurter
Sugar
Pickles
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Some of my favorites
Shiatsu
Freeholes (Beans in Spanish!.!.!.spelled wrong but works well!.)
Begeeber
Frankfurter
Sugar
Pickles
dill weedWww@Answer-Health@Com
well maybe u should try anger mange ment classes what i do iz whene i get mad i get my point across to sombody den i go in my room and
beat up my pillow till the feathers come out or till u feel calm or jus cry it out orscream till the top of ur lungs i cant help u with the sexual things yucky hahaha well thats all i kan tell u hope my advice workedWww@Answer-Health@Com
beat up my pillow till the feathers come out or till u feel calm or jus cry it out orscream till the top of ur lungs i cant help u with the sexual things yucky hahaha well thats all i kan tell u hope my advice workedWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hi Wildman,
check for heavy metal poisoning!. This can produce these sorts of symptoms!. Amalgam fillings in teeth combined with certain types of malnutrition (rife in the First World) are notorious for this!.
Other possibilities are hormonal imbalances from pesticides, serotonin deficiency from saccharin etc!., etc!., etc!.
Look for an expert who can design a healing diet for you!. Contact via the Kushi Institute!. http://www!.kushiinstitute!.org
Blessed be!.
Karma SinghWww@Answer-Health@Com
check for heavy metal poisoning!. This can produce these sorts of symptoms!. Amalgam fillings in teeth combined with certain types of malnutrition (rife in the First World) are notorious for this!.
Other possibilities are hormonal imbalances from pesticides, serotonin deficiency from saccharin etc!., etc!., etc!.
Look for an expert who can design a healing diet for you!. Contact via the Kushi Institute!. http://www!.kushiinstitute!.org
Blessed be!.
Karma SinghWww@Answer-Health@Com
a cognitive behavioral therapist might be able to help you find your way thru to your own self control!.!.!.!.ultimately, only you can control yourself!.!.!.but such a therapist can help you see how!. To find one near you!.!.!.!.!.www!.abct!.org!.!.!.or!.!.!.!.www!.nacbt!.o!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anger is a reaction to not having control!.
What is the alternative!?
Simply letting everything be as it is!. Simply that!.
End your argument with life!.!.!.!. then you will enjoy life!.
Or you just resist everything, and you know the struggle and stress of that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What is the alternative!?
Simply letting everything be as it is!. Simply that!.
End your argument with life!.!.!.!. then you will enjoy life!.
Or you just resist everything, and you know the struggle and stress of that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you have torrets!? Maybe see a pyshcatrist or therapist, I don't know, or try some yoga!. Just try doing peaceful one on one activities, not group, because you might snap!. I'd try some spiritual, or medical helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like a good mix of anger management, medication, and therapy is needed!. Once you start to improve, you might be able to cut the meds and be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
some people are like that, everybody has to stay in control of something but you are who you are, if your not harming anybody and it feels good!.!.!.do itWww@Answer-Health@Com
It is definitely obsessive compulsive disorder!. you should chec k it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should really see a psychologist to help you, it sounds serious you should help your self before it effects others
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everytime you think these things slap yourself very hard in the face and if that doesnt work then hit yourself in the crotch 5 times!. this teaches your brain not to think these things anymore!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to therapyWww@Answer-Health@Com
Try anger managementWww@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you're bipolar!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to see a pyschiatrist!. You could have Tourette's Syndrome!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
counsler, maybe!? idkWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok clam down!.
my brother has anger managment, u might have the it to!. so try to controll ur self ok just try!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my brother has anger managment, u might have the it to!. so try to controll ur self ok just try!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may be taking out rage that you hold in at other times!. You may be afraid you will lose control when people are around so you wait until it's "safe"!. Everyone gets angry and upset!. If you tell someone something they said or did made you angry, or annoyed, it may help diffuse things!. If you can't tell the person, tell someone else, maybe a sibling or parent!. Everyone get upset angry and annoyed and is allowed to complain from time to time!.
You may not know how to manage your anger and be afraid others will not like you!. As far as the sexual!.!.!.EVERYONE has sexual thoughts that some may consider inappropriate or "bad"!. In addition people may carry out some fantasy's as well!. If you aren't harming anyone, including yourself, not doing anything illegal etc!. then i wouldn't worry about it!.
If these actions and thoughts start spilling over into your interactions with other people, or become really disturbing, you'll probably need some help sorting all of this out!.
Good and important questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may not know how to manage your anger and be afraid others will not like you!. As far as the sexual!.!.!.EVERYONE has sexual thoughts that some may consider inappropriate or "bad"!. In addition people may carry out some fantasy's as well!. If you aren't harming anyone, including yourself, not doing anything illegal etc!. then i wouldn't worry about it!.
If these actions and thoughts start spilling over into your interactions with other people, or become really disturbing, you'll probably need some help sorting all of this out!.
Good and important questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com