I'm an outsider but I like it?!
Question: I'm an outsider but I like it!?
Ever since I started middle school I've been picked on, threatened, and made to feel like dirt- all for wanting to fit in!. I thought fitting in would be good for me but once I saw how rediculous the "in" crowd was I changed my mind!. Last year I drew back from completely everything in school and no drama came my way!. But I ended up losing all of my friends because I didn't want to be around all that chaos (which they are a part of)!. I enjoyed having my privacy and no one in my business and starting rumors so much that I've grown used to being alone!. I stay in my house all the time because it gives me the freedom to do what I want and not be judged for it!. I don't want to go to the mall and meet boys and get on MySpace!. I've seen how people make themselves just like someone else just to fit in!. The cliques drive me crazy as well as the stupid girls and cocky guys!. I know I'll be hanging on by a thread this entire school year!.
Any advice to help me make it through the year!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Any advice to help me make it through the year!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You see the stupidity in the middle school years!.!.and you are in it! That is awesome!. I am 36 and now look back and I see how stupid the cliques were, how chaotic it is with rumors, gossip, I see the "IN" crowd at my class reunion and they are all ugly and I asked myself were they really that great!? NOYou are one of the only really "cool" persons there!. Middle school, High school is a time when kids try to "find themselves" but you already have! You sound eccentric, unique, and you are being YOU!.
So, what takes people forever to figure out who they are, you are already there!.
It is hard dealing with kids in school!.!.but you see them for who they are!. Is there anyone there at your school who is not part of the chaos!? maybe developing a friendship with them if you feel a connection!. And i think you just being who YOU are and being confident with that!. Being that unique and down to earth person you are, is awesome!. When they say something, realize that it is just words!. Now looking back!.!.!.i realize that during my school years i was so hurt alot!.!.but if i could go back!.!.!.i would blow it off!.!.and concentrate on developing my self esteem and not care what other people think!.!.and be who i am!.
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So, what takes people forever to figure out who they are, you are already there!.
It is hard dealing with kids in school!.!.but you see them for who they are!. Is there anyone there at your school who is not part of the chaos!? maybe developing a friendship with them if you feel a connection!. And i think you just being who YOU are and being confident with that!. Being that unique and down to earth person you are, is awesome!. When they say something, realize that it is just words!. Now looking back!.!.!.i realize that during my school years i was so hurt alot!.!.but if i could go back!.!.!.i would blow it off!.!.and concentrate on developing my self esteem and not care what other people think!.!.and be who i am!.
peaceWww@Answer-Health@Com
If you like the way your living, and you don't feel isolated or lonely, then you're doing ok! I suggest (if you like reading) find a good book and continually read a breaks and stuff to avoid people!. Or you could draw or write or do something you love!. It'll be easy to ignore those idiots in cliques!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i kind of know what u mean, i moved last year and got picked on 4 a little while!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
all i can tell u is find people like u, make some friends and tell the 'in' people to go to hellWww@Answer-Health@Com
all i can tell u is find people like u, make some friends and tell the 'in' people to go to hellWww@Answer-Health@Com
Ignore them they will all turn out to be losers anyhowWww@Answer-Health@Com
dude just ignore them if u enjoy it continue doin it its was ever makes u happy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I totally know how you feel!. After the 1st 2 weeks, I was already sick of tha drama!. U just gotta find other people that are sick of it too!. Trust me, I reallllly doubt that you're tha only 1 to feel that way!. I thought I was, but I made some pretty awesome friends this year that share pretty much the same views as me!. We're really the same in some ways, but totally different in others!. I love it cuz I can be myself and my friends actually respect me for that instead of givin me **** like my old "friends" did!.Www@Answer-Health@Com