Why do i feel like i have no future?!


Question: Why do i feel like i have no future!?
Lately I've just been having feelings of hopelessness for the future!. I cant picture myself being successful on my own!. I feel like I'm always going to need somebody to take care of me!.

I'm afraid to do things on my own in fear of doing it wrong or rejection!. Upon rejection i usually start having suicidal thoughts, that I'd be better off dead because i have no future anyway!.

Is this just a low self confidence issue or does it go deeper than that!? And what can i do to help this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I don't know your age or your life!. What I do know is that no one can predict our future!. You have to study and work at becoming successful!. That is up to you!. I have been held back by that fear of failing, but then you know what I have seen read how so many successful people have failed over and over in school, jobs etc!. We all are human and if we get out there and do things we are going to have failures but there again we are going to have successes!.
You do sound like you have low self confidence!. I know if you put your mind to it and try you can do it!. You can be a success if you work hard to get what you want!. Set goals and make steps to achieve them!. Start by putting one foot in front of the other, even if it is baby steps, don't look back and never say I can't!. Yes you can!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The problem is that you're holding yourself back!. There's no other way to say it!. Your helplessness is your own percieved inhibition, a barrier that is a belief and you are making a reality!. It's not that you're helpless or hopeless, or that you have no future!. It'll end that way if you continue to let yourself stand in the way!. I'm not a therapist, so I have no business telling you what to do to improve your life!. But I can tell you that the longer you let yourself feel this way, and the longer it stops you from going after the life you want, the closer you're coming to making that life of inhibition into a reality!. You need to talk to someone close to you, or at the very least, a professional!. You won't find the right kind of help looking for answers online!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well some of these feelings are normal, but then the rest is sort of ummm not!. I really suggest you see a proffesional counselor!. Please don't kill yourself! I care! AND IM SURE LOTS MORE PEOPLE DO 2!
YOU are worth the world to some, you are a unique human being, reach for goals and NEVER doubt yourself, I can picture anyone being successful, I'm sure you CAN, just believe in yourself!

<3 don't do something stupid ok!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

most likely you are fat, and you cant take care of yourself, so you need to hit the gym, get a job, and make some money, buy something and start hanging out with friends to make yourself feel better!.!.!. get a gf/bf and then have fun!.!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you have self esteem issues!.!.!. surround yourself with positive people and do things you enjoy doing while being around people with the same interests!.!.!.!. join a club or leadership organization and remember that if you think that you're defeated, you are!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look dude, i know how you can be successful, stock market!. Study the whole concept of it and invest in product you favor most!. I mean i was like you, a no one, but now i planned everything and lived to it!. Try it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your suffering with depression or anxiety!. or both!. you need to see your doctor!. it depends on your age too, if your a teenager its because of the large number of unbalance chemicals and hormones in your body, or maybe your just going threw a phase if your notWww@Answer-Health@Com

You seem like you have low self esteem!. Think on the brighter side!. And get out more and try newer things!. That way you won't be surprised when something doesn't turn out the way you'd like to be!. Don't worry, you'll find something you have a passion for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

see a psychiatrist!.
maybe your just being negative about things!.
personally dont care about what others think, screw rejection!.
and just do things for you and not depend on others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you dont think highly of urslf then no1 else will!.!.!.!.you should know your the best at everything and people will also start to believe that!. u are prolly just having a bad day !.!.!.dont think negative !. BELIEVE IN URSELF !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You know what I did!? I decided the world was ending in 2012 so I wouldn't have to worry!.
I also became Christian!. O_o
and that was how I ruled out suicide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

professional therapy and possibly drugs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because you dont think you'll have a good time in futureWww@Answer-Health@Com

No matter what age you are, I hope you always choose to have a future, and it will undoubtedly be bright!. Find things that you love and pursue those!. You can be successful when you have a job worth waking up to and everyday feels like a labor of love!.

Everyone is afraid to try, even if they dont show it so you arent alone!. Courage is not fearlessness, its acting despite fear!. I dont know what you're referring to when u wrote "im afraid to do things", if its the right thing, you have to have courage!. If you have suicidal thoughts after break-ups, then i suggest that you abstain from dating for awhile!. Right now, you look to a significant other to validate your self-esteem and that is not effective, even in a long-term relationship!. Take time to find out who you are: volunteer and see what you're capable of!. By making a difference and discovering your passions, you will see what you have to offer to the world!. Everyone can be a great person if they are willing to see it in themselves!.

To answer your question: I think you confidence is in need of a boost and that will happen when you get to know yourself better, which will also lead to a confidence boost!. If you need help with direction, seek the advisement of someone you admire to mentor you!. Surround yourselves around positive friends because they'll show how likeable you are!. Sometimes you need someone on the outside to look at you objectively and tell you the truth (like you're underestimating your potential)!. I hope all is well!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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