I think I have a mental problem.. please help me verify...?!
Question: I think I have a mental problem!.!. please help me verify!.!.!.!?
I love my bf so much and we are so perfect when we are together!. We only meet once a week so I really miss him when I am at home!. What I do is think of him all the time!. Most of the time, I imagine that when we are married, we will not be happy together, that he will scold me and hit me!. And I feel that he does not love me enough but he really loves me so much!.
It brings tears to my eyes when I think of him scolding me etc!.!.!. I can't get rid of this habit!.!.I am so tired of it!. Is this a mental condition!? Because of these imaginations i tend to limit his freedom, we text each other every night and we hurt each other by saying unappropriate things!.
How do I overcome my problem!. I want to imagine a very happy life with him!. But i always imagine the opposite!. I am so lonely at home!. Could this be the reason!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It brings tears to my eyes when I think of him scolding me etc!.!.!. I can't get rid of this habit!.!.I am so tired of it!. Is this a mental condition!? Because of these imaginations i tend to limit his freedom, we text each other every night and we hurt each other by saying unappropriate things!.
How do I overcome my problem!. I want to imagine a very happy life with him!. But i always imagine the opposite!. I am so lonely at home!. Could this be the reason!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I don't know about a mental problem, but it sounds like you are very attached to him!. I hope that those thoughts of him abusing you are just thoughts--not based on anything he actually does!. If he is abusive toward you, you should seek help and get out now!.
Sometimes in a relationship, people start to try to control their boyfriend or girlfriend!. It might seem like you'll feel better if you know where he is, what he's doing, or who he's talking to all the time, but it's probably causing more problems than there were to begin with!. A lot of the time, it pushes people away!.
I don't think what you're describing is uncommon, but it sounds like your relationship could use a little work!. Maybe you could tell him calmly that you worry about him sometimes and hopefully you can reach a place where you both are happy!.
If you are feeling lonely at home, try to find other things you occupy your time so you don't spend all your time thinking about him!. If you have any hobbies that make you feel good and confident, pursue them!.
It might also help to talk to a counselor or therapist!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes in a relationship, people start to try to control their boyfriend or girlfriend!. It might seem like you'll feel better if you know where he is, what he's doing, or who he's talking to all the time, but it's probably causing more problems than there were to begin with!. A lot of the time, it pushes people away!.
I don't think what you're describing is uncommon, but it sounds like your relationship could use a little work!. Maybe you could tell him calmly that you worry about him sometimes and hopefully you can reach a place where you both are happy!.
If you are feeling lonely at home, try to find other things you occupy your time so you don't spend all your time thinking about him!. If you have any hobbies that make you feel good and confident, pursue them!.
It might also help to talk to a counselor or therapist!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How old are you!? Why do you see him once a week!? Have you talked to him about this!? Do you discuss this with anyone!? Do you have friends!? Family!? Do you go out!? Do you have a job!? Hobby!? Going to school!?
The reason I ask these questions is to help me better understand the situation and you!.
BTW, you are in a very unhealthy relationship if you text each other hurtful comments!. That is not loving!. That is not showing respect!. Sounds, at the moment, not like love but obsession!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The reason I ask these questions is to help me better understand the situation and you!.
BTW, you are in a very unhealthy relationship if you text each other hurtful comments!. That is not loving!. That is not showing respect!. Sounds, at the moment, not like love but obsession!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Probably not a mental problem, but a sign that you're seriously lacking for something to do!. No job!? GET ONE!. Do something, anything to keep your mind busy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you are insecure about the relationship!.
Also, how do you know this love is eternal!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, how do you know this love is eternal!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It seems like you have had bad experiences, that you don't believe he could love you because of past relationships!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes we have certain attitudes or feelings about things because of what we were exposed to in the past!. How was your familial upbringing!. Did you live in a home were abuse ( physical or emotional) was a usual occurence!? If so, maybe this is what is causing you to second guess or have these ideas about your current relationship!. If not, then I dont know what to tell you!. Are you negative about other aspects of your life!. Or do you have a pessimistic attitude in general!. If you arent sure or dont know the answer to this question, just ask friends or family!. Trust me, they will tell you if you do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its okay yaar,dont fret !.
Want to try something DIFFERENT !?!?!?
just do the following RIGHT NOW as taught by
'param pujya ASARAMJI bapu';
1--chant OM (OM as in HOME but without the 'H')repeatedly,forget everything just do it NOW !!!!!!!
doing this for 5-10 mins will give a sense of power within you!!!
if you find this useful let me know ,i will tell you a more stronger method!.
note: women durimg their periods are not to chant OM but they can chant HARI
www!.ashram!.org
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Want to try something DIFFERENT !?!?!?
just do the following RIGHT NOW as taught by
'param pujya ASARAMJI bapu';
1--chant OM (OM as in HOME but without the 'H')repeatedly,forget everything just do it NOW !!!!!!!
doing this for 5-10 mins will give a sense of power within you!!!
if you find this useful let me know ,i will tell you a more stronger method!.
note: women durimg their periods are not to chant OM but they can chant HARI
www!.ashram!.org
www!.hariomgroup!.orgWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you have poor self confidence and at the same times you are very close to him and terrified of losing him!. That is a symptom of Borderline personality disorder!. But don't be fooled by the name!. Usually people with BPD have a desperation to be near someone and are hurt much more than other people when they leave that person!. They do worry about the future way too much and are uncertain about thenselves!. I think all you need is some Therapy to get over these feelings!. You might be BPD and just have those few problems!. Only the therapist or a counselor could give their proffesional opinion on this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com