I SELF-INJURE....WHAT SHOULD i DO????!
Question: I SELF-INJURE!.!.!.!.WHAT SHOULD i DO!?!?!?!?
If you dont know what self injure is that i cut my wrists!. I started in the beginning of seventh grade!. I just got very mad and i heard that cutting made everything better!. It actually hurt at first but then i could feel anything!. But now i want to stop!. The scars are not worth it!. Im being yelled at ecause of my scars n my friends are slowly taking me out of there lives so if anyone could help i would sure appreciate it!. Ten Points awarded to the best answer!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You need to talk to someone who knows how you feel!. You could talk to your doctor, school nurse, teacher, or your sister!. (If you dont think your ready to talk to your parents)!.
Also, you need to find out why you do it, what triggers it, and when you feel more vulnerable and more likely to SI!.
Then think about what you can do to help yourself, like get rid of most sharp things that you cut wiht(not all, just most of them,if you chuck them all out, that can make you more frustrated when you want one, and i could make you worse)!.
Also, sort out what triggers it, if it's someone, find out why, and just think about how you can deal wiht your feelings in different ways!.!.!.
In the end your gonna have to tell your parents, and once they're over the shock, thay should help you!.
Hope this helped!.
E-mail me, if you wana talk some more, as im a self-harmer, and i know how you feel :)
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Also, you need to find out why you do it, what triggers it, and when you feel more vulnerable and more likely to SI!.
Then think about what you can do to help yourself, like get rid of most sharp things that you cut wiht(not all, just most of them,if you chuck them all out, that can make you more frustrated when you want one, and i could make you worse)!.
Also, sort out what triggers it, if it's someone, find out why, and just think about how you can deal wiht your feelings in different ways!.!.!.
In the end your gonna have to tell your parents, and once they're over the shock, thay should help you!.
Hope this helped!.
E-mail me, if you wana talk some more, as im a self-harmer, and i know how you feel :)
xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know if you've ever heard of this organization before, but it's called To Write Love On Her Arms!.
It's non-profit and is completely dedicated to providing help and hope to those battling addiction, depression, cutting, and suicide!.
The story of how this came to be is about a girl who struggled with all of those and overcame it!.
It's helped many people and it may help you!. Please check it out and remember that you're not alone!. Rescue is possible!.
http://www!.twloha!.com/the_story!.phpWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's non-profit and is completely dedicated to providing help and hope to those battling addiction, depression, cutting, and suicide!.
The story of how this came to be is about a girl who struggled with all of those and overcame it!.
It's helped many people and it may help you!. Please check it out and remember that you're not alone!. Rescue is possible!.
http://www!.twloha!.com/the_story!.phpWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to stop!. Get help and talk to someone!.
I hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to go see a docter right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey there!. You've taken the first step in recognizing that you have a problem and wanting to stop it!. Depending on how long you have been cutting, it may be very difficult to simply stop!. You may need some help beyond that!. Have you talked with your parents about it!?
I might suggest talking with your school counselor or maybe a youth pastor around your area!. They'll be able to help you out!.
Just know that you're not alone in trying to stop this!. I know many people who want to stop but have done it for so long that they can't make themselves stop!. It becomes an addiction!. I'll pray for you!. : ) Please talk with a trusted adult who can help you though!. ; )Www@Answer-Health@Com
I might suggest talking with your school counselor or maybe a youth pastor around your area!. They'll be able to help you out!.
Just know that you're not alone in trying to stop this!. I know many people who want to stop but have done it for so long that they can't make themselves stop!. It becomes an addiction!. I'll pray for you!. : ) Please talk with a trusted adult who can help you though!. ; )Www@Answer-Health@Com
hun, i know where you are coming from with the cutting!. I sometimes cut!. I cut all the time!. It helped me feel and numb out!. My friends found out and they did not like it but they know, that was the olny copying skill i had at that time!. before i saw my therapsit!. can you see a therapist!? well hun, if they don't want to be your friend because of this, then hunny they are not your true friends!. Your friends well be there for you no matter what hun!. I know that is hard to face!. I learned my lesson in high school, i lost all my friends!. but have met great friends out of high school!. I don't know what garde your in, but in high school it is hard for people to take you for real!. my friends have helped me though alot and not matter what i have put them though they are still standing there for me!. Now If I go back to the friends in high school they still leave me standing alone!. I hope this helps hun, sorry if it not wanted you wanted to hear, just speaking from expreince!. hang in there hun!. you are wroth it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
My daughter did the exact same thing!. She started in 6th grade and tried to stop on her own!. (She is still trying to get rid of the scars and she is in high school now!.)
You need someone to help you with this, it's very hard to do by yourself!.
Can you talk to your parents!? Please! Ask them to help you find a good counselor/psychologist to help you learn better ways to deal with your stress!.
Unfortunately, I thought my daughter was doing okay because we talked and she tried to stop!. I didn't realize she was still struggling until the day she took an overdose of pills from the medicine cabinet!. She spent 5 days in a psychiatric hospital and I was so scared for her!.
Anyway, now we have been seeing a psychologist and everything is sooooo much better! She is learning how to deal with her emotions in a much better way!. She is happier and doesn't want to ever hurt herself again!.
I am sorry I waited too long, but happy that things are better now!.
Maybe you can show my answer to your parents if they are not sure about taking you to get help!.
If you would like to email me, I can get my daughter to talk to you about her experiences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need someone to help you with this, it's very hard to do by yourself!.
Can you talk to your parents!? Please! Ask them to help you find a good counselor/psychologist to help you learn better ways to deal with your stress!.
Unfortunately, I thought my daughter was doing okay because we talked and she tried to stop!. I didn't realize she was still struggling until the day she took an overdose of pills from the medicine cabinet!. She spent 5 days in a psychiatric hospital and I was so scared for her!.
Anyway, now we have been seeing a psychologist and everything is sooooo much better! She is learning how to deal with her emotions in a much better way!. She is happier and doesn't want to ever hurt herself again!.
I am sorry I waited too long, but happy that things are better now!.
Maybe you can show my answer to your parents if they are not sure about taking you to get help!.
If you would like to email me, I can get my daughter to talk to you about her experiences!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go talk to a psychologist about it and get help for yourself first!. You want to stop and thats great, they should be able to help you get to that point!. I personally know how hard it is to see a friend do that to themselves and it's very hard to understand!. Talk with your friends and tell them whats going on, answer questions that they will probably have and ask them for their support!. If they don't agree, then I say that they aren't really that good of friends!. Don't exile everyone out, really talk to them!. It's hard to go through things alone and it makes it easier on everyone if you don't!. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com